Thanks, I kinda figured. It’s been very creepy, today I legit texted him “I don’t text any of my friends as much as I need to text you, they are all busy during the day, it seems that just you are never.”. I am actually kinda scared of him, if I am honest. Everyday I see the situation more for what it is, and don’t get me wrong, I made it clear that “we” will never be a thing, we’ll never date and it will never be anything more than friends, hell I even talk about tinder and dating infront of him. It’s sad because he really, honestly knows how to keep conversations and we can practically talk about anything, and I’ve trusted him for quite a while. But everytime we do hang out he gets creepy afterwards, texting me the whole day on no end (I usually just seen him or don’t even open) and it’s followed by more texts saying “where are you?” “Why won’t you reply?” “i have so much time to talk rn, wyd?” “Can you please stop giving seen?” And many more creepy things. I am baffled… he usually stops after a few days of me ignoring him… but when we hang out again it’s the same thing over and over on a loop. I can’t be more blunt as I already was.
If I block him tho, then I’ll lose a big friend group that I hold very close, as he’s inside that group (a valued member of sorts?)… and I don’t wanna lose my friends over a dumb guy who can’t keep himself in check. I am kind of lost right now…
Unless you're a male.
Then
you're a hero to other dudes. /s & eyeroll
Which dudes are those? I don't know any of those dudes.
You deserve better than this, OP.
Thanks, I kinda figured. It’s been very creepy, today I legit texted him “I don’t text any of my friends as much as I need to text you, they are all busy during the day, it seems that just you are never.”. I am actually kinda scared of him, if I am honest. Everyday I see the situation more for what it is, and don’t get me wrong, I made it clear that “we” will never be a thing, we’ll never date and it will never be anything more than friends, hell I even talk about tinder and dating infront of him. It’s sad because he really, honestly knows how to keep conversations and we can practically talk about anything, and I’ve trusted him for quite a while. But everytime we do hang out he gets creepy afterwards, texting me the whole day on no end (I usually just seen him or don’t even open) and it’s followed by more texts saying “where are you?” “Why won’t you reply?” “i have so much time to talk rn, wyd?” “Can you please stop giving seen?” And many more creepy things. I am baffled… he usually stops after a few days of me ignoring him… but when we hang out again it’s the same thing over and over on a loop. I can’t be more blunt as I already was.
If I block him tho, then I’ll lose a big friend group that I hold very close, as he’s inside that group (a valued member of sorts?)… and I don’t wanna lose my friends over a dumb guy who can’t keep himself in check. I am kind of lost right now…