Simply put: your boyfriend is being unreasonable. Their bowel movements are not the litmus test for poops. You’re accommodating them the best you can, and that’s all that can be asked of you. Them shaming you for your bodily functions and calling you out of your name is unacceptable.
If they can’t deal with the knowledge that your body functions differently than theirs, that’s an issue they need to sit at their therapists feet to tackle. Not denigrate their partner.
I lied, he is actually 24. I just didn’t want all the comments to be about the age gap but if everyones advice is going to be about him being young then I should come clean.
Therapy.
Simply put: your boyfriend is being unreasonable. Their bowel movements are not the litmus test for poops. You’re accommodating them the best you can, and that’s all that can be asked of you. Them shaming you for your bodily functions and calling you out of your name is unacceptable.
If they can’t deal with the knowledge that your body functions differently than theirs, that’s an issue they need to sit at their therapists feet to tackle. Not denigrate their partner.
I lied, he is actually 24. I just didn’t want all the comments to be about the age gap but if everyones advice is going to be about him being young then I should come clean.
Nah. I wouldn't. She's shown you her character, believe her.