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make me happy by getting a big orgasm [Multi Goal]
Date: October 4, 2022
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That’s what I’m seeing too
No, I don't think so. Chinese care a lot about face and they are pretty middle class so they wouldn't want to be a burden. I'm cool with three months as I know they'll be respectful, but six months…I want my independence.
Omg. I get what you were saying about the wife needing to contribute a little more but then you kind of lost me with the asking for advice and then being upset that some of that feedback isn’t favorable. I hope you realize that you didn’t post your entire life story but you did post in an advice forum not a vent forum. I sincerely wish you and your wife the best. I know if it were me that suddenly had to stay at home I’d play on my phone too occasionally. How do you know she isn’t grocery shopping?
Divorce her asap
Is it haikyuu? It’s literally the most wholesome anime ever. You need to control your jealousy this is not fair to your partner.
I'm gonna get downvoted but oh well.
This was your boyfriends private conversation with his friend. Meaning it wasn't meant for you to see. If someone had called you ugly on a platform you could see or said it to your face, I expect his response would've been worded much differently. However this was a private response. Your boyfriend worded it poorly but it sounds like he was effectively saying that beauty is superficial and he thinks you have a beautiful heart. He didn't say you were ugly or unattractive, he simply choose a way to defend his attraction to you that the person he was discussing the matter with wouldn't be able to argue or would be less likely to argue. With someone else (that possibly had a different deposition or outlook than this person) he may have used a different tactic or outright said he thought you were beautiful regardless.
This shit is childish.
Wonder if he's watched full metal, or attack on titan
Gross
Hit her up. You are over thinking.
I agree, therapy is so expensive where I am which makes it difficult. :/
for him he feels like I’m asking him for $2 back.
This…makes it worse. The money means nothing to him, yet he hears that you're struggling and refuses to help even though it would have no negative effect on him? Would you ever do that to him if the roles were reversed? If not, why not?
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Move on. If it comes up in your private conversations, you can refer to her physical or emotional infidelity, whichever it is. You don’t need to keep her pretense up. But you fudged a bullet and the best revenge is moving in to find a better gf.
So you are NOT sure about being exclusive with his woman and yet you don't want her to date other people??? Make up your mind OP, you can't have her for yourself if you do not want any exclusivity with her. You chose not to date other people so that's on you, why would she limit her opportunities to someone who is not sure about dating her???
Spot on
Are we all just going to ignore the attempted affair? Like that sounds like husband had an emotional affair the night before the wedding, just cuz the other woman didn't participate doesn't make the affair any less real, it just means the husband was the only one fully betraying his soon to be bride.
What?
You have already decided what you want to do. The only question is the pain and discomfort of that decision worth it? Only you can decided.
Since no one else will say it.
They don’t want you around and are trying to be nice by hiding it. You’re the one not taking the hint and are now in turn upset.
They really didn’t want to hurt you they just clearly don’t jive with you for whatever reason.
It hurts yes. They’re 28 though and you just threw a 8 year old tantrum. That’s just what we know from what you’ve shared! Stop being this person and demanding a relationship that will never be genuine because it’s forced.
He gave the mother a lump sum as “hush money.”
So invite them out without her.
First any joint account, remove 50% and put it in your name only. Next, pack him a bag, meet him at the door and tell him to leave. You need space right now. Call a lawyer and set up an appointment. Write down everything he said, save that picture, and start brainstorming anything you can remember from the past three months that might be related to this affair. Depending on his standing with his company, his affair could jeopardize his job. Do not stay with him because of the children
Ya you need to run from this crazy girl. What a horrible thing for her to say and think. Nothing wrong with you taking care of your sister.
I wouldn’t ask anything. If you didn’t have anything, let him act like a jerk if he wants.
I already told you what I would do. I would cut ties with him and disengage. I would not give him power over my emotions or let him play games with my heart anymore. I would walk away.
Once again it’s not a one person decision. This life can be equally difficult on the sick person. No matter how much the spouse says they’ll stick around for it all, it can make the sick person feel bad enough to not want to continue.
If you read more of OPs comments you’ll see this is his frame of mind. He has experience with it and HE does not wish to pursue a relationship under these conditions.
It is not up to her
Sorry, ND = neurodivergent/neurodiverse (umbrella term for autism, ADHD and other related stuff) – opposite is “neurotypical”.
You've never been abused by a man who followed you for a second round then? Cause that's what they do. If you don't fight back, you are a target for more.
Anyone who is offended by random porn usage in a relationship is either highly repressed, highly religious, or 18 years old. No one who has been in adult relationships should think watching porn is cheating.
Where are the mind games? He already told you that he isn’t interested
I suspect this around him being annoyed about you changing plans and flaking on things that you are doing with him, but he is seeing you doing this in all aspects of your life and interpreting that as being unreliable.
but maybe ask him why he gets so upset about it and ask him what he is thinking.
It’s not a sex drive problem but a self control issue.
You have every right to change your mind and he has every right to decide that he will not continue on with you.
The part that doesn’t make sense to me is if you do decide to keep this child, will he be in that child’s life? If not it would be incredibly weird if he’s active in one child’s life and not active in the other’s.
Having to start over and raise another kid is a LOT of work. He never should have had unprotected sex but you never should have agreed to get an abortion if you weren’t 100% sure. If you were sure then but now you’re not I get why he’s mad.
Maybe you should slow it down a little bit. It sounds like you lost your privileges.
You are feeling down, resorting to alcohol and sex with strangers on the weekly. Thats not sustainable. It will tear away at your dignity and worth as a woman. You will feel more empty every time you do it and become the person that will keep your very self from being able to obtain a respectable man.
Take a jump back, evaluate, show some respect for yourself.
Why are you even asking him if he’s not in the house? How would he know you went over. If he follows you on social media just hide your stories from him (Dont block him cause he’ll be able to tell) and do your thing.
OK first you have to know he doesn’t get to sign how your body as you do. That being said everybody has a preference for some thing. I like them tall and old fashion like a 1940s movie star. Other people like Schwarzenegger type guys. So we all have our tastes he does get to have them. And I don’t disagree with your some of your analysis. I do think he’s probably doing some projecting maybe some fetish stuff. It’s OK that he has a few opinions on what you do or look like, but don’t let him determine your looks entirely. As far as weight, we all have taste around that too so he is being honest but there’s other stuff going on with him but you already know I think you have a good handle on what’s going on here.
That said, keep your focus on your own issues because you cannot fix him. But you can alter yourself so you feel comfortable and good. And if you’re not a makeup girl, you’re not a makeup girl.
Honestly he sounds incredibly immature and he’s acting like an asshole. He seems to be put off by the fact you are on your period probably because he is ignorant about female anatomy and maybe he hasn’t grown up around women that are open about that kind of thing. At the end of the day he needs to understand that this is something you will go through every month for the majority of your life so you could try having a conversation with him to educate him about periods and also tell him how he made you feel. Hopefully then he might be a little more understanding, however if it were me I know that would be a bit of a dealbreaker for me, I wouldn’t want someone that makes me feel shit about myself when I’m feeling my worst every month.
The stag/stagettes don't have to have parties with strippers, blow, huge amounts of booze and stuff like you see in all American movies. My mate's stag party last summer, we just went to my cottage and did some boating and fishing(and a normal amount of drinking). Just got back from my brother's bachelor party and we drove 9 hours to Marmot Basin for some snowboarding and skiing for a week. I think people get it way wrong when they get it in their head that parties have to be insane like the movies portray.
Wondering how to tell him politely something you said you've already told him implies you've not been polite about it previously.
You've already told him. He's already assured you. There is no magic way to tell him further. You either work on your insecurities or you admit you're with someone you don't trust. If he's done nothing to earn your distrust, then it's a you problem. Maybe some individual therapy to figure out why you're this insecure?
Why have you put up with it this long?
I’ve heard it all before, it doesn’t change my opinion whatsoever. He’s a walking red flag. Good luck, I hope he’s worth it since you’re bringing a kid into this world now.
Honey you need to break up with him. He is a rapist because he raped you. I know you're very confused, hurt, and scared but you don't want to be with a boy who doesn't accept the word no. It doesn't matter that it wasn't as bad as other rape stories or that you don't feel traumatized it was still rape. You need to get away from him and seriously consider at least telling your parents if you don't feel comfortable filing a police report.
Well, Reddit has a thing against opposite sex friendships so buckle up lol.
This is a blatant double standard with the added bonus of him putting his insecurities on you/blaming you for someone else's actions. You're unlikely to magically change his mind, but you can control whether you decide to stay with someone like this.
There is no need for you to put up with this kind of treatment from someone who is supposed to care about you. End the relationship and enjoy all your new free time.
If only these men would just give us a heads up on the first or second date, it'd be a much simpler problem to avoid ?
Oh well. It’s done now. No reason to beat that dead horse.
By my math, you should be paying 20% of the bills, tops, OP. You should think about how much $ is coming into the home total, & what percentage of that is yours, & split the bills accordingly.
If he's not OK with that, dump him.
why is he not ex bf yet…when you let things happen, it will happen
She met him when she was 14 and he was 18. She said this is all she's known and this is “normal” to her. She had to go no-contact with her entire family because of abuse from them as well. She doesn't have friends. She's not in a good financial situation. Her boyfriend is abusive.
She did not “let this happen.” He chose to do it, and he would more than likely still do it even if she stuck up for herself. People who are abusive frequently do not care or stop when their partner self-advocates.
This person came here for genuine, concrete advice. Half these takes are calling her stupid, dumb, and that she must enjoy cheating and she's allowing this.
Yes, self-respect and self-advocacy are important. Yes, leaving is important. But there are ways to encourage someone to leave beyond arguing that someone in an abusive relationship is “letting” the abuse happen or is “giving their partner permission.”
I'm not angry at you, or anyone here. I'm angry that we live in a society where the vast majority of responsibility for abuse is placed on the victim instead of the perpetrator, and people genuinely and truly struggling with abuse – including struggling to even recognize abuse – are patronized, mocked, degraded, and even told they must like being abused because they haven't left.
i’m so sorry but this is pathetic. love yourself.
Will def keep it separate. But should I accept ‘rent’ from him or what would be fair?
Also when we’re married, I want to go to the notary for a will that if I die suddenly not all the money goes to him (bit my parents/brother) unless we have children.
Is it weird that I think about these things? ? Like I don’t trust him, but that’s not it..
Read the posts. Actually read them.
It doesn't matter that you can't afford rehab (though that is all the more reason that you can't afford to stay married to an addict) because he doesn't actively want to go to rehab.
The jobs where most of this stuff happens is fitness and PT. Obviously the BF is not very good at keeping people away. That should be nice going forward.
You are a jerk! You do not get to tell her how she feels. Get over yourself!
Yup, she's always going to be like this unless she's told she can't. She's going to interfere in all parts of your life. She's going to try to dictate how you raise your children & she's going to meddle even more than she does already. Start setting some ground rules with her.
Or he could be baiting her to end the relationship and causing her to leave which, in a he-said she-said could be skewed into OP being the one to willingly leave.
We have so little to go on here that any and all advice could both apply and not apply at all.
It's up to OP to decide which is more relevant to her, based on what context she may or may not be leaving out of the post.
Your with someone who grounded you from you electronics and sent you to bed. Gads I hope you don’t have children. Do you really want an overbearing controlling parent as a wife?
Sadly if he didn’t have anything to hide he wouldn’t have deleted the call/messages.