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I suppose that, on some level, you're punishing him.
she sounds pretty immature and that she intentionally misunderstood your joke to get mad. that movie can fire any girl in a relationship up to start a fight with her dude. im pretty sure i started a fight with my boyfriend after we watched that movie too. regardless, how old are y’all? this sounds like some middle school shit
for reallllll
he didn't think about it, as far as i am aware. he is straight and also has never tasted his own. so i think he just never knew anything at all and i happened to be the first person to mention it, and it made him self conscious.
i would do anything in his comfort zone. i absolutely enjoy and miss doing it, i enjoy his taste and have no issue at all. i had no idea my dumb comment would affect this part of our sex life and his confidence. i'm not even sure what advice i'm asking, i just thought maybe somebody out there on either side of the coin might have some inspo tbh
Oh Jesus Christ! The mans actions were beyond the pale already, we don’t need folks trying to ascribe their own fictional stories to them. He was pissed off and behaved terribly and abusively, which is scary and upsetting. There is literally no reason for you (and sadly many others here) to write fanfics about him secretly plotting to ruin her birthday on purpose all along. It’s not helpful and I certainly hope OP isn’t believing it.
I have 5 kids and I hope they would tell me and bullies are not ok and you should not have to go through this alone. Please stay safe but get the trusted adults involved. Those people need to be ashamed of themselves. Certainly not you
You should get into therapy and make sure you talk through all your feelings and work through trauma that you might not even realize is there. Just have fun with casual dating and don't put expectations on yourself about finding “the one”. Be your own priority and focus on finding things that bring you joy. Explore hobbies because thats also a great way to meet people and make new friends/connections! Eventually you'll find someone if thats what you want. If not that's okay too. Just try to enjoy your own presence and maybe reconnect with friends and family as you go through this journey too. Ibwish you the best!
I sounds like he doesn't much deserve a girlfriend or wife. I wonder what he's been doing to earn your dedication?
Idk man, seems like she didn’t actually do anything wrong but her husband interrogates her for having a new friend and secretly reads her texts.
Yes we’ve both talk about her going to therapy but she’s she’s had poor experiences in therapy too and really doesn’t like going we also don’t have much of a way to afford it so we’re try to find ways without it if possible
Because you’re making her weight about your preferences.
I mean, what should he make it about? He has a preference, which she used to fit, but doesn't anymore. Do you think it's better for him to leave her than to talk to her about it?
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Tell the bf with all the evidence you have. Especially the message she sent you where she says he's lucky.
Or just block her (which you did). The dude deserves to know imo, but that's just me.
Don’t listen to the haters this is a totally valid fear. People stopping taking care of themselves once they have someone locked down is common, and it’s (in my opinion) much more unethical than politely asking someone to manage their weight better.
I’d ask her before proposing, if nothing else it will give you a good test to the relationship, and you’re way better off treading on toes now than later when there’s a ring on it. Just be super sensitive, let her know that you love her no matter what. Raw attraction and love are sometimes different, and that’s okay.
This goes without saying but you should lead by example too. If you’re living with her start doing the shopping, start buying healthier food, start working out and invite her to come with you. If you’re asking her to lose weight than you better be taking good care of yourself too…
Tell her it's a new year and she needs to change this behavior! Ask her if you can cuddle BEFORE you go to sleep instead of when you wake up. Tell her she needs to help find a solution because this passive-aggressive childish behavior is really annoying and a very poor way to start your day.
If she's unwilling to admit her behavior needs to change, or she's unwilling to make the effort to change it, then you need to reconsider this relationship. This is an unhealthy dynamic (pouting, passive aggression, refusal to acknowledge problems, etc) that will NOT improve over time and will become a VERY big problem in the long run.
Becoming the fall back option for a person who wants to experiment with their sexuality will only end in tears for you.
Nah. He is absolutely wrong. You should decline sex with him if he doesn't think he should make it pleasurable for you, too.
Thanks! What do you mean regarding how a teenage treats a shower ?
I agree with you as well would be awkward once he learned who you were dating which could have employment repercussions if you did work there. Very kind of her to try and help and would certainly decline nicely and keep looking. There is something out there that will check your boxes for you.
You’re absolutely delusional. Have fun being a penniless groupie with limited visitation with your kids. I’m sure it’ll last all of a few months before he gets bored and moves on after realizing the situation he’s actually in.
Should’ve just divorced your husband instead of cheating. Cheaters are some of the worst people in this world, and you’re one of them. I’m sure your husbands lawyer is eating it up.
15 years married here. Joint accounts here. Which not everyone does. But spoiler your assets are joint. It’s part of legally binding yourself together. What’s his is yours what’s yours is his.
You are not a roommate that he loaned money to while you were out of the job.
You’re a team and a partnership. You support eachother and create shared goals.
One of his goals should be helping and providing and caring for you. Your goals are helping and contributing for him.
You really need to work out big issues before bringing kids into this marriage. It is not a business arrangement.
If his culture is “manly” why doesn’t he feel pride helping support and love his woman through her getting established in a new job and country. Sounds pretty anti-manly to me.
Your girlfriend is young and naive. There is much more to consider than just having a boyfriend. There are no rules with strangers. Even though she is legal at 18 and thinks everything will be on-line, her nudes can be sold to other men and she can be blackmailed to do things that are against her rules. If she ever was convinced to meet in person, she can be abducted and be used for sex trafficking, or just raped and murdered. Of course this could just be an old guy who wants to pay for her to do sexual things on-line only and she will be relatively safe, but the news is full of young girls and boys who were catfished and ended tragically. The fact that this man sought her out and she didn’t go on a regular sugar daddy/sugar baby website makes catfishing more of an issue. Just because she stopped because of you doesn’t mean she won’t consider it again. But she has to be very very careful because once she’s in, her rules can’t be enforced.
sounds like you've inadvertently poked at something that happened to her you don't know about
Who tf writes a list like that in the first place? Sure there is some things my ex might've done better but I don't sit there, thinking about it and writing a list. My point is he is still obviously thinking about her.
26 is young, U have so much to do and explore life !! U got a whole life ahead of u, I got so many friends my age and even younger are getting married or engaged but that doesn’t mean I’m old or missing out on life! Everyone’s got a different story u know. U need do chill and enjoy life.
See a lawyer and do what they tell you
this is a no brainer. Why the hell would you stay with someone who slips you a pill without your consent? That's straight up roofie behavior and it's not okay. He had no right to mess with your body like that, especially considering your history with seizures. He's lucky nothing bad happened but that's not the point. The fact that he's sorry but doesn't think what he did was that big of a deal shows he doesn't understand boundaries or respect for your safety. Break up with him and don't look back. The fact that he didn't tell you right away and made you wait shows he was trying to hide it and that's even more messed up. Don't let anyone treat you like that. Period.
No one in a healthy relationship “deserves” verbal abuse, and tbh I think it might be good to let go of this one. There’s a pattern forming, and one that you shouldnt feel forced to be a part of.
Not only is how she responded incredibly ridiculous but it’s clearly pushing you to escalate as well, seeing as your response to her second tyrade became terse and I dont think thats who you wanna be.
People have arguments, thats life, but when someone shows you who they are in an argument you need to believe them.
Time to separate from this
Are you sure he’s actually your partner?
If she Literally forgets then she needs a brain scan ASAP. As in call right now.
We need better sex education in schools. What did either of you think was going to happen? He is responsible for helping raise his child if you should keep it. You need to tell him. There is no way to sugarcoat it
'And what is up with your sister? If she knew everything, how come she didn't support you? Because this stinks. All of it, apart from your ex.
2 years. You're 21. This ain't it.
Where did I say they were disposable?
For your information I have 2 dogs and a cat and I’d take them over anyone coming into my life at the drop of a hat.
OPs cat is the problem in this equation, so OP has to choose, her cat, or staying with her BF. Personally as mentioned above I’d choose the cat.
Keeping the cats together just so OP and her bf can on-line together will result in problems with the cats, possible vet visits after OPs cat attacks the other ones etc. so that is not an option.
So how about you fuck off.
It sounds to me like your FWB wants to explore their feelings towards you but also they are in love with their current partner. Since your adding that you don’t see yourself developing feelings for the current partner, I’d say stay out of it. If you are not open to exploring and developing a relationship with both of these people who, sounds like, are in a committed partnership then you shouldn’t get involved. Openness and sharing are important pillars of any poly relationship.
That said, as an internet stranger I vote you explore building a poly relationship with both these people since you are in love with one. Love is always worth pursuing. Good luck to you!
She did not want to support you through that or subject herself to your family. I personally am not sure I would be willing to put up with a difficult potential in law. For different reasons based on experience.
I’m not saying it’s right. I’m not saying it’s fair. I’m just saying that you didn’t do anything wrong and that you will be better off being with someone who will support you and be willing to stand beside you.
She suggested a surgery?! Omg imagine if you suggested that to her? Ha! Insane. It’s definitely a her problem and I can’t believe she went right to cutting your dick up.
And that’s normal, when you’re in an age gap relationship with this big a separation in literal maturity of your brain, and life experiences. You didn’t have the life experience to recognize the issues and problems with a gap like that, and he exploited that.
The 2 guys you slept with before you were in a relationship didn’t ever need to be mentioned. They were nothings. I don’t understand this obsession with numbers and who you’ve had sex with before your commitment relationship. You had sexual relations before you committed to him … unless he thought you were a virgin there was no need to talk about specifics.
However, he chose to have sex with a woman while you were in a committed relationship (because he was mad you had sex before you committed to him). He spun a story about it seeming like a sexual assault, but in reality it wasn’t.
Do you really want to be in a “tit for tat” type relationship? So, maybe years ago you went on a vacation with another man and had sex on the beach. Does that mean he gets to do the same now with another woman because he’s jealous and feels betrayed you went on a vacation with another person? He’s reasoning, and blaming his actions on you are ridiculous. So he gets a free pass on cheating because of his feelings of betrayal. Is it seeming ridiculous to you yet?
They had sex. She's still lying.
It's not that she became odd. She started to show her true colors because a person can't suddenly change fast like that.
So let me get this straight.
you are best friends who go on dates every week and you’re FWBs and you are exclusive with each other but you don’t want him to call you his girlfriend.
Tbh, either you need to come to the realization that you actually are already in a relationship… or you need to stop using your best friend for entertainment until you find someone better… but only you can decide what kind of person you are.
Frankly, based on what you described, it kind of sounds like you want to use your best friend for a good time but you want him to be okay when you ditch him… and no one is ever on with that.
Sounds like she was ready to go. Just needed the reason… tho this shouldn’t even be an issues idk the more the better.
Yeah you’re right, fuck that traumatized teenager looking for a home.
If your bf isolates you, then you should really consider leaving him…
I think her bf deserves to know yet I haven’t seen him for even longer and never even texted him before.
Mind your own F ing business on this one…I bet 1/3 of the people at the show were cheating, mabye you could find their partners numbers and text them too?
Go to the Reddit thread dead bedrooms and see what others have done.
What should I do?
What do you want? You don't need to decide RIGHT NOW. Just go with the flow and focus on what YOU want.
Do you want to leave her? Leave her. She'll on-line.
Do you want to stay? Then stay, but you can leave later if you need to.
Me?
– “Amanda is an affair partner. You will literally never speak to her again or see her again. This isn't a conversation or negotiation. These are terms. If that's not possible, we're over. I don't care how very hot that is for you; you made your choice.”
– “Any 'it's different!' or 'I'm bi!' bullshit and it's over. We are a monogamous couple. If that doesn't work, tell me and we'll break this up now and you can on-line aUtHeNtIcAlLy.”
– “We might do couples therapy. Not sure right now. If you need to talk about your feelings for Amanda or whatever, go to individual therapy about it. I have zero interest in speaking to you about it. I'm not going to comfort you about how you lost a friend. You will not make yourself the victim of this around me.”
– “I have no idea how I'll feel about any of this in a week. I'm not going to commit to anything. I need to process the betrayal in my own way and on my own time. If that doesn't work for you, we can just end it now.”
Your goal is to be in a relationship that leads to marriage. You have wasted a year of your time with this fella. It should be obvious to you that he has a commitment phobia. A promise ring at his age and then this vacation schedule snafu. All of his actions are deliberate – the ring so you can't say things aren't serious; the vacation scheduling is deliberate as he could have and should have scheduled to conincide with your vacation. The ring is just a smokescreen to keep you from questioning about the future. Again, your goal is a serious relationship not this- whatever this is (its not a loving, caring, nurturing relationship with someone that wants to be with you)
How do I post a photo? I’m new to this!
Im so happy for you that you got him back and you’ve got good support. I know it’s nude losing a parent and then a partner and the life you thought you were going to have. Hugs Internet stranger!!
Could be carbone monoxide poisoning possibly
Sounds like he’s upset for you doing the same thing you yelled at him for. Doesn’t matter that you don’t know these strangers, he doesn’t know that. Honestly you need to grow up if you care that much about social media. A like is a like. You’re overthinking this.
If it were the same situation and the ages were 25ish, I would 100% agree with Grammy. But you guys are so young that your lives are going to change a fuck ton over the next few years, especially if he’s in the National Guard. Wait a bit
Stop being nice. Inform your ra and security about him just in case, let your friends know about him, and then very firmly, very loudly tell him in a public place with friends around for backup “Look dude! Get lost! Stop seeking me out, stop following me, and stop trying to interact with me! I am not interested in you in any capacity, friendship or otherwise, and your constant interruptions while Im busy trying to study are unwelcome!”
This sounds like a shit show waiting to happen. He wants all the benefits of a relationship without the commitment and you’re willing to provide it because you’re an introvert with little experience of healthy relationships.
This ain’t it sis.
Not only are you not responsible for that, you can't be.
You're not his therapist. You're his long distance girlfriend of two months. You're not capable of being responsible for his wellbeing. No one is. Tell his roommate or his family or anyone else close to him if you're concerned. Call the police to do a wellness check even. But walk away and don't look back.
Trying to be responsible for whether he harms himself or not will not fix him but it will break you. Don't get dragged into that. Leave now. He shouldn't be in a relationship until he's actually in recovery and has been sober for a prolonged period. It's not good for him or the people he's trying to be with.
He has a new gf but I really want to speak to him about how I’m feeling.
Since he doesn't seem to respect the fact he's in a relationship, you take on that role and stay well away. Don't get involved. Don't get involved in other peoples' relationships, how can that end well?