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True. Thanks for the advice. It provides a little more clarity on what I should do
Update us when you kick home out.
I find it odd you have an issue with your SO watching porn, but you have an OF.
Just like that, try to be completely transparent about it if you can because the more you try to say it gently the more your point gets lost and open communication is key
Oh man š. That really makes me feel anxious of ever being just gf material to someone. Idk how to overcome that fear. I already have low self esteem.
Thatās what you can domestic violence. Time to cut ties and make a police report
She is interested in him, and given the opportunity to cheat she would. Sounds like he is not interested though. You know your wife. If something is off something is off, you donāt delete texts that are innocent, you delete stuff you want to hide
Talk about it with him …
Yeah, itās going to cost way more than that and youāre not going to get a driver. I'm in Iowa and I had a ride from a casino just outside Iowa City to the Des Moines area (over 2hrs drive) and I got over $100 plus tip (I think $110 to $120 with a total of $150 with tip) at a little over 100 miles so at least $200 with no surge pricing. So on a busy day like new Year, you're going to get surge pricing most likely, and from a good size city, it's going push close to a grand or so with 8 hours.
I would try the app to see for a better guess and try posting it on r/uberdrvers to get a more market-accurate price from local drivers there. Either way, it'll be cheaper to fly that far as people only ride Uber/Lyft that far if they don't have any choice. Wishing you two luck with this.
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Came here to basically say this exact thing, but the OC said it better!
Also to add, one thing that can be really frustrating is when youāre upset but you donāt know what you want that will help you feel better. This used to happen to me a lot with my husband; Iād be upset about something (usually nothing to do with him) and I couldnāt figure out if I wanted him to cuddle me, or be nowhere near me, or just sit beside me, or talk to me or be silent. It was like whatever he did would be the wrong choice; if he tried to talk it out Iād be annoyed that he couldnāt just hold me, if he cuddled me in silence Iād be upset that he had nothing to say about it. So Iād often just shut down in exactly the way your girlfriend is (though I didnāt withdraw quite so much). I wasnāt trying to punish or trick anyone – I just didnāt even know what I wanted, let alone how to ask for it. It felt like I had to plan out how my partner should help me feel better whilst also feeling awful, whilst also running the risk that he might reject me if I asked for ātoo muchā – and it was just simpler to withdraw.
This is very common for people who are not used to having their emotional needs met by others in times of distress; if weāre not regularly comforted by others when weāre younger, we donāt learn how to receive care from other people when weāre upset, nor do we learn whatās helpful to us when weāre feeling bad. I didnāt learn how to work out what I needed in these moments until my late 20s, and that was after a lot of therapy. I had to work at it proactively, ahead of time, to figure out what soothed me. It might be something really simple, like being wrapped in a nice blanket and brought a cup of tea. I also learned that not all types of touch are equally comforting – for instance, many people find a light touch or gentle cuddle really irritating when theyāre upset, but a long deep hug is really soothing (this is very true for me). So you can ask your girlfriend, in a calm moment, to think about what would help her next time sheās feeling upset – and remind her that she can ask for different things. She might want space for half an hour but then want cuddles, she might want to talk about it but then suddenly be done. And thatās all ok, she just has to actually express that to you clearly and not hope that youāll figure out what she canāt, which is how to help her feel better.
Now if she rejects this idea and says āyou should just knowā or something like that, I think youāve gotta bounce. No healthy relationship exists where one person takes no responsibility for their feelings and places it on their partner. So if sheās not receptive to the idea of working ok this with you, thatās your clue that she isnāt someone interested in growing in this way.
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I'd just tell him you don't like watching movies with those scenes, just straight up. He should respect you and not watch them with you anymore.
8 months Cheated 2 months ago Long distance, average 1-2 visits a month or 8-16 visits in your relationship Gets so messy she is asked to leave a party Cheats Doesnāt tell you You only found out cause others were so off put by her behavior they thought you should know
Where at all in this story would this be worth forgiving vs not just ending things now?
Crazy thing is that for my last relationship. The compromise was moving to Washington. I applied for jobs and never heard back. My ex broke up with me and forgot all about my applications. So moving here was my saving grace. But to compromise on living in a city with promise or to stay here in a relationship thatās deadā¦ugh the fates have it out for me
100% this, I've always followed this rule due to the fear of getting someone pregnant.
Your friend is an absolute asshole but I'm glad you and your GF are doing okay.
Ok. Funny joke blurted out due to nervousness. However, youāre now making it weird because you think your dad is making it weird. Stop that. Stop dwelling on the joke or on how you think your dad sees you now. Take a deep breath, shake out your shoulders & continue on with your life like nothing happened. Next time you see your dad be sure to have something to talk about with him that you both can contribute to. Like the football game last night or the popeās funeral last week or these killer chia date energy balls that you made for him to try.
My biggest concern is actually that you all online together. If the relationship goes south, your living situation is going to be much more awkward than avoiding each other at the engagement party.
If he hasnāt changed in 7 years, why do you think he will suddenly change now?
These issues have really only become apparent in the last 12-18 months or so. Up until relatively recently, we were both finding our feet. A little up and down was expected, the first job change made total sense.
Before we moved cities for my job, we were relatively stable. He actually worked full time to support me while I did my masters degree. Even though he was still in uni himself. And I could understand back then, why saving wasn't possible etc. It's really only as I've stabilised that I've started to question why he's not doing the same thing…
And certainly he smokes more, drinks more soda, and snacks more than he used to before we moved or even this time 2 years ago.
So, its not like I've seen these behaviours for all these years and just now decided its an issue. These behaviours have emerged relatively recently and I'm not sure how to get us back on track. It honestly doesn't feel like 7 wasted years. These last 2 have just been really challenging.
And you are trying to have a baby on that salary?
Fwiw I didn't appreciate this condescending comment at all. In the UK, I am considered to make good money especially for my age. If we were otherwise healthy we would have more more than enough money month-to-month to support a child. Opinions on my financial suitability for motherhood wasn't asked for.
What if she gets mad at me for hanging out with people when I tell her? Like she has a thing against trans people and I want to hang out with her (biological male) or hanging out with ppl that support trans
Why doesn't the boyfriend just ask genuinely for a handjob so he doesn't have to be all sneaky about it? Unless OP doesn't give his boyfriend handjobs/blowjobs?
Have you looked into therapy? Both individual and couple's?
Holy shit, that is terrifying. It also makes me wonder if that condom break was intentional. First, you've always been upfront with him about not wanting kids. Second, he didn't listen when you were clearly expressing you did not want this. Third, he decided on your behalf, that you were going to up and move across the country, away from your support system (so that ticks off isolation on the potential abuser box). Fourth, telling his family was a clear attempt to guilt amd manipulate you into something you didn't want.
That conversation should involve telling him you aren't pregnant and breaking up with him. Though honestly, I wouldn't be comfortable doing that alone put of concern for his reaction to it. So have someone nearby or do it in a public place, if you can.
A, I'm pretty sure at 21 he has not gone through the graduate school level education, he has not done the clinical training required, and he is not licensed as a therapist.
B, it is unethical to have such a double relationship as a therapist, which he would know if he were actually trained and educated as a therapist.
Your guy sounds like he has a super inflated sense of self and ego. This does not sound like someone who has healthy relationships.
So your gf should break up. Got it.
Please please OP if you are considering doing this looking up polyamory and open relationships before doing this. Have a lot of discussions beforehand including both your boundaries and expectations and whether he wants anything to be open on his end ever. Would he be okay if you developed feelings for this woman? Is there any act he would consider too far? Also consider what you want in this and whether opening up the relationship on your end is something you really want. There are tons of stories on Reddit and other places about this exact scenario going terribly wrong. He may also be agreeing to this for his own gratification which isnāt exactly the most healthy if you and whomever you are with arenāt into that too. Look up the things that can go wrong and discuss them with each other as much as possible and then discuss some more. If you find that you both are truly monogamous this may not be the best option for your relationship. Hope it goes well!
Right? I would NEVER all that. My dog is my life.
Thanks for the insight. I got a barrage of chat requests from guys basically red pilling :(. I'm not really interested in hearing guys bash women.
After our first argument all i needed was some sleep and I felt much better. Hopefully that helps here too.
We did counselling way back and I'm not opposed to it but it will time to setup
Tell him no worries, there are lots of guys who would be happy to take you out and pay lol. Sometimes guys overplay their hands. Make him aware he has, without going too far.
Unfortunately people do that & it's shitty. Moving forward, definitely consider that as a possibility, probably be leary of doing sexual things for people who have the same personality as this dude who ghosted you.
I don't overly talk, no. I might ramble sometimes but never for more than 5 mins at a time if I'm stuck in a subject I REALLY like.
instead of telling dude to f off ask him to take a picture
Find a guy that doesnt have a problem with his self esteem? Do you want to be dating control freaks and insecure people?
Start filtering money to a saving account
Tip: Before you talk to husband, find & print out some research showing that vasectomies aren't 100% successful. That way, you can hand it to him immediately before his suspicions start snowballing.
Telling OP heās in fear for his life is fucking comedy though.
Girl ! Your family is toxic. You were not abused by him because you were never under his spell. He convinced your sister be with him and to disregard your feelings. He convinced her she was more valuable more important then you, because he wanted her over you. Once completely his saddles with a kid he started to abuse her. She canāt leave him. But when she did instead of seeing this as it was. Him being a horrible human she blames you for her hurt. How could you not be abused by him. He told her she was better than you. Do you see this game has nothing to do with you. Its the damage he has already inflicted on her. In your family your sister is the golden child and you are the whipping boy sort of speak. In my opinion I would go low contact. You both are victims of this man. Get therapy donāt feel guilty for not knowing this man true cruelty. Sending all the love. Op
I dropped my best friend because she refuses to take care of her mental health (also bipolar) and I couldnāt help but hear her in your post. She seemed think we had a wonderful relationship and was so confused by me leaving that she kept trying to be friends for a year. The thing isā¦it was awful for me. Her ups and downs, the walking on eggshells, watching her not put her health first, watching her go manic and decide she didnāt need pills or therapy, watching her get an involuntary psych hold, getting screamed at, getting love bombed, having a best friend, being scared of my best friend, changing my locks, hearing rumors sheād spread when she could not make herself stop talkingā¦ it was absolutely exhausting. While sheās one of the most fun, considerate and great people when sheās doing well, sheās can be a complete nightmare when she isnāt, and she doesnāt notice the difference. I think that the lack of self awareness was the hardest thing to read in your post. It really hit home hearing you say that your relationship was greatā¦except for when X, Y, and Z happened. Having been the other person, X,Y, and Z are the reasons to cut ties, but the daily (lowercase intentional) x, y, and z really beat the living pulp out of me and made me finally make the decision to take care of myself and get distance from the roller coaster. Itās the small things, like never letting your meds lapse, making sure youāre sleeping well, keeping track of your overall mood so you can see the shift from depression to mania, and really putting in the therapy work that will make you stable and wonderful to be around. Clearly youāre a great person if she stuck around for so long, so keep trying to be the best version of yourself!
Judaism isnāt the same as Christianity. Thereās a reason why Christians are encouraged to gain converts and Jews are not
You do not deserve this treatment at all. He is abusive and not respecting you. You mention past trauma, but you're probably writing-off his behavior as not as bad as it actually is due to experiencing past trauma. You're also blaming yourself in this situation because of past trauma, to which I want to tell you, this is not your fault. However you behave due to past trauma (or at all), you do not deserve this. No one deserves this. Please leave him.
First off, you did nothing wrong. Some creep tried to force himself on you, itās natural to freeze in situations like that. You got away as soon as you could process it.
As for whether or not to tell your boyfriend, that depends entirely on his personality. Is he rational and likely to recognize this was traumatic for you and be supportive? If so, tell him. If on the other hand heās an insecure jerk who will try to turn a story about you being assaulted into ācheatingā so he can throw it in your face later, donāt tell him. And also reconsider that relationship if so.
Literally just asked my partner to show me his group chats lolā¦ he did! I didnāt see a single nude. Guys talking about the fights, cars, etc. So no, itās not just a guy thingā¦ we are mid 30s
To compare himself to you. Ignore him.
Because itās stupid and from the fact pattern here no one is going to pursue it.
If most of you are taught day one why didnāt she seem to understand the reality of her physical capabilities? She legit thought she could just fist fight two very large men and win no problem.
Right? Doubt she tried to kick him in the balls or stab his eyes.
I have done other genres of fetish porn as well and I gave her some examples when we had the talk before we got married. She has always been a sport about it. I'm struggling to understand why she is suddenly freezing me out and jumping to extremes like divorce.
A grown woman who threw a tantrum because her dad has a girlfriend 5 years after the passing of her mom.
??? In the option you proposed you would literally be flying there for a conversation and then leave. What is the difference to you??
This comment is so gross. Don't you think you'll be thinking on his past again when he's hitting on your teenaged children's friends? This man goes after women who are significantly younger, less experienced, and easier to manipulate. THAT is what you should be concerned about.
You take your essentials and you leave. Do you work? Can you support yourself? If yes, then take your essentials, find a shared living situation you can afford, and get out. If not, then go home. Your parents don't have to “understand”, just say, “the relationship didn't work out” – they will let you online there until you get back on your feet, that is enough.
You do not need to be abused to have “justification” to break up. You can break up for any reason you want.
How should I approach this, I really would just like to know if it is mutual so I can make a real move or move on.
“Hey, I think you're really cool, wana get a coffee?”
Like that.
The only way to find out for sure is to show your cards…
How should I approach this, I really would just like to know if it is mutual so I can make a real move or move on.
“Hey, I think you're really cool, wana get a coffee?”
Like that.
The only way to find out for sure is to show your cards…
Was it like that when you were hooking yp?
Is it still good even if you don't come? Oh, sorry, I bet you're a guy and you do come every time, you just don't particularly consider it a problem if the girl doesn't come š