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I completely agree with you, thank you for bringing that up. I’m saying that there’s such a huge difference in how he texted me before we started dating and now during. I also feel like a huge reason why I feel this way is because of how distorted tiktok portrays relationships.
OK I just wanted to check that she wasn't blindsided and that's why she's saying this.
I would go if I were you and if she wants to break up for it then you know she wasn't the one for you. You can tell her all the things you have here – only six months, good opportunity for your future, you can call and video call as often as possible etc. If she agrees, great. If not, again then you know she won't support your career going forward if there are other opportunities and she's not the one for you.
So what im grasping here is your a bit insecure about this person who you asked to be blocked was and then unblocked so your being lied to 4 years is a long time but you may want to have a serious talk to your partner about this and if it continues your gonna have to decide if staying with them is the best option for you.
not really sure what i should do then… wont be able to get over this while still talking to her daily but also dont want her to think that i dont want to talk to her anymore if i stop messaging
Sorry but she is obviously better than him cuz she did not betray a partner. HE cheated, she did not cheat on anyone. He would have cheated with another person sooner or later. She really should tell her what he did but I cant believe how many people are so focused on making her feel bad. Girl go tell his gf the truth so she has a solid reason to give no fuck about him anymore before this shit destroys her!
I was with you the whole way until you told her to lie about her perception of time to make it seem like she wasn't purposefully pushing boundaries, only accidentally pushing them. Being disingenuous isn't a good foundation to build relationships on, especially to throw off the scent of insecurity.
Otherwise the breakdown of this interaction seems spot on.
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We have been married for around 2 years and thrice have had the same argument. My(22F) sister wants to crash at our (34 M and 34F) place and he says it ruins his mental peace.
The first instance she wanted to visit me on his day off(he would be home) he didn't want her to come so we argued ALOT till I caved
The second tim, she arrived past midnight, it pissed him off so much he told our mom to pick her up.
Today, she messaged me she wants to stay the night. She hadn't talked to me or parents since passed 5 days but texted me she has been on and off suicidal and needs a place to crash. I asked him and a huge fight ensued. He said if I had known this was gonna happen, I would have reconsidered marriage and that thus is a huge redflag in our relationship. After all the drama he called her and asked her to come over, but told me this is the last time and next time it won't happen again since we will have no discussion, he will take direct action. When I asked what is the action, he didn't not reply. It feels like he is threatening divorce, but I am unable to see what is wrong if I help my depressed/possibly manic sister out. I'm stuck in a limbo and don't know how to help my sister while also not pissing my husband off. Please help.
I’ve been with my husband for 15 years. I used to worry about this too cause it would be once a week sometimes then daily, then we would go weeks without it. Once I let it go, I was much happier. Don’t worry about what others say or do. What matters is if you two are happy. Focus on you two and ignore others. You’ll be much happier, trust me!
This is difficult. Your GF has expressed her boundary regarding children, and she is unlikely to change her mind. You have expressed your own boundary that you want children. These wants and boundaries are frankly incompatible. If not, it may be better to amicably separate now than later resent each other on this issue.
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U need to see it bro , she is a dude and he kept that from u , I'd whoop his ass he needs to let ppl know that bullshit straight guys don't like dudes for for him to keep something like that from u , I'd be so fucken pissed off
If you are already having this much trouble after only dating for a short time. Move on and don't go back to him. It won't get better as this is supposed to be the honeymoon phase.
As a non-American I can't get my head around the whole concept of needing to have a talk about being exclusive when dating. In my eyes that is completely absurd and it only showes that you are dating for the wrong reasons. When I'm dating someone than I'm dating that person because I want to be with them but if I or my dating partner keeps looking for greener pastures then this is a clear sign that at least one of us is not into this relationship and I'd better move on.
I completely agree with you, thank you for bringing that up. I’m saying that there’s such a huge difference in how he texted me before we started dating and now during. I also feel like a huge reason why I feel this way is because of how distorted tiktok portrays relationships.
OK I just wanted to check that she wasn't blindsided and that's why she's saying this.
I would go if I were you and if she wants to break up for it then you know she wasn't the one for you. You can tell her all the things you have here – only six months, good opportunity for your future, you can call and video call as often as possible etc. If she agrees, great. If not, again then you know she won't support your career going forward if there are other opportunities and she's not the one for you.
Your post are educating and I will like us to learn from each other, could you please follow me Up so we can chat and share ideas.
I want to say anywhere from 20-30% of all men do this. So if you want to reduce the amount of men your willing to date by a 5th that's up to you
Ive been single for the whole 2022. Thats why im on here ranting. Love is taking too long.
So what im grasping here is your a bit insecure about this person who you asked to be blocked was and then unblocked so your being lied to 4 years is a long time but you may want to have a serious talk to your partner about this and if it continues your gonna have to decide if staying with them is the best option for you.
not really sure what i should do then… wont be able to get over this while still talking to her daily but also dont want her to think that i dont want to talk to her anymore if i stop messaging
Preparing for the inevitable, maybe? Kind of building yourself up for the breakdown as well as the acceptance of it ending.
Sorry but she is obviously better than him cuz she did not betray a partner. HE cheated, she did not cheat on anyone. He would have cheated with another person sooner or later. She really should tell her what he did but I cant believe how many people are so focused on making her feel bad. Girl go tell his gf the truth so she has a solid reason to give no fuck about him anymore before this shit destroys her!
What was the reason for the break up?
What do you want?
Will you break up for the same reason?
I was with you the whole way until you told her to lie about her perception of time to make it seem like she wasn't purposefully pushing boundaries, only accidentally pushing them. Being disingenuous isn't a good foundation to build relationships on, especially to throw off the scent of insecurity.
Otherwise the breakdown of this interaction seems spot on.
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We have been married for around 2 years and thrice have had the same argument. My(22F) sister wants to crash at our (34 M and 34F) place and he says it ruins his mental peace.
The first instance she wanted to visit me on his day off(he would be home) he didn't want her to come so we argued ALOT till I caved
The second tim, she arrived past midnight, it pissed him off so much he told our mom to pick her up.
Today, she messaged me she wants to stay the night. She hadn't talked to me or parents since passed 5 days but texted me she has been on and off suicidal and needs a place to crash. I asked him and a huge fight ensued. He said if I had known this was gonna happen, I would have reconsidered marriage and that thus is a huge redflag in our relationship. After all the drama he called her and asked her to come over, but told me this is the last time and next time it won't happen again since we will have no discussion, he will take direct action. When I asked what is the action, he didn't not reply. It feels like he is threatening divorce, but I am unable to see what is wrong if I help my depressed/possibly manic sister out. I'm stuck in a limbo and don't know how to help my sister while also not pissing my husband off. Please help.
However I think if you are suspicious just walk away don’t spend time on such apps. Trust your gut, it’ll save you time effort and heartache.
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I’ve been with my husband for 15 years. I used to worry about this too cause it would be once a week sometimes then daily, then we would go weeks without it. Once I let it go, I was much happier. Don’t worry about what others say or do. What matters is if you two are happy. Focus on you two and ignore others. You’ll be much happier, trust me!
This is difficult. Your GF has expressed her boundary regarding children, and she is unlikely to change her mind. You have expressed your own boundary that you want children. These wants and boundaries are frankly incompatible. If not, it may be better to amicably separate now than later resent each other on this issue.
Yes, you can absolutely lose an erection due to anxiety or insecurity or criticism or worry or for no reason at all.
No, generally you cannot just make yourself get an erection. If you could, then Viagra wouldn't exist. Yes, sometimes it's easy to get hot, but other times, when you're just not feeling horny, you just can't get nude even though you want to.
Some friend you are! Aren't you happy for him? If you need validation try r/nofans
Consider not being a cunt in future, how's that?
Idk if he didn’t want to get married why would he suggest we get married at a courthouse?
U need to see it bro , she is a dude and he kept that from u , I'd whoop his ass he needs to let ppl know that bullshit straight guys don't like dudes for for him to keep something like that from u , I'd be so fucken pissed off
I’m already getting destroyed in other comments, so thank you for actually being understanding. I never should’ve posted this.
Welp you're a cake eater now.
I peg you as the type who likes a creme filled cake.
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Agreed. OP should prove she is smarter than BF and make him the ex.
He doesn’t, thanks for the input tho
It's probably just a lie he tells himself because he subconsciously needs an excuse to stay, since in reality there are no such reasons.
And as they say, if you tell a lie for long enough, you begin to believe it yourself.
I would be out
The onus is on you to provide a source if you’re just gonna say something is mathematically true without any accompanying evidence.
If you are already having this much trouble after only dating for a short time. Move on and don't go back to him. It won't get better as this is supposed to be the honeymoon phase.
As a non-American I can't get my head around the whole concept of needing to have a talk about being exclusive when dating. In my eyes that is completely absurd and it only showes that you are dating for the wrong reasons. When I'm dating someone than I'm dating that person because I want to be with them but if I or my dating partner keeps looking for greener pastures then this is a clear sign that at least one of us is not into this relationship and I'd better move on.
Nah I don’t think even therapy will fix it. OP got the “ick” and now it won’t go away. It might be over