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Cristal-Villareal Public Chat Channel
Date: October 7, 2022
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Understood. The impact was not minimised, I didn’t think of it at all. I realised it when she put my nose in my own poop. I don’t see her lacking in any ways. I’m willing to own up to it all, whether it gets better between us or not. I may not have thought about it at the time, but if it hurts her, then I faulted, big time. Simple as that. I’ll absolutely chat about it seriously, if she gives me the chance to do so. If she doesn’t, or if it’s not enough, I will understand. I appreciate the input.
I've been married for 2 years and there are days I want to throw the whole husband out, no one is going to get along 100% of the time, that's just unrealistic, even close family doesn't get along every day.
The difference is having trust in that person even when they do stupid shit, trust that they'll listen and correct the behavior.
I'm glad you found someone who you never fight with or doubt, but the other 99% of us have to constantly work at our relationships and especially when you are only 22 you are just becoming someone, maturing, learning about each other's boundaries etc
Breaking up doesn't solve the issue, learning to communicate and explain when something is bothering you does.
This may come as a shock to you, but many people view sex as something different than labor. The mere notion that it is being used transactionally is problematic. Most people do not view sex as something that should be exchanged for money such as therapy or forestry or legal services. Clearly you don’t share the same sensibility. But the disconnect is that others view sex as something inherently special in a way that should not be devalued by making it a paid service, especially not for the pittance OP’s ex-prostitute GF charged.
Dude I've been married for 16 years and my wife still occasionally calls me by her ex's name (our names begin with the same letter and are both one syllable). It's annoying. She doesn't mean to…but it happens. Don't get worked up over it, unless she's actually spending time with her ex…then I'd be concerned.
That's great that he isn't insecure, but many people are.
I have been cheated on in the past by exes, and the saying is a saying for a reason, man.
If she is a leap-frogger or monkey-brancher, you know what to expect the first time things look rocky between you two.
You are too young to be beholden to an iffy situation anyway.
I'd be looking for a better partner, myself.
GL.
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Do you think 4 months is too short of time?
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He’s a young dope. Give him time to mature or just get even. No one here can really do anything for you.
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Right? I have a ten year age range, but MY AGE IS IN THAT RANGE.
I mean if you want to pretend he didn’t groom then okay, just don’t be shocked when you age out and he swap you out for a younger girl
Nope! Since you are 18 you just need a valid ID showing you are the person named on the certificate. I think it’s like $25 depending on your state.
OP, as someone who has done MDMA repeatedly: try not to stress out too much about it. MDMA is a party drug, it's not something that gets you immediately hooked and makes you addicted. Try to talk to your gf, without judging her but show some genuine interest: how did she feel? Was it a pleasant experience? How did she feel the next day, what went through her head etc. Be understanding. Most people on MDMA feel happy, cuddly, affectionate, touchy. Maybe, if you feel confident, try it with her? Would definitely be a great bonding experience 😀
You can still take a look at the dangers of MDMA consumption – together. Dont berate her. You guys are partners, not enemies.
If you simply judge her without trying to understand her intentions, that will make her feel resentful and unheard, which will lead to further arguments in the future.
Ofc, it's not ideal that she didn't tell you her intentions beforehand.
If you wanna talk, feel free to DM me 🙂
This is literally so deranged. Increased sex drive, abdominal cramps and low mood/mood swings are three of the most common period symptoms. She’s probably due to start her period.
UTIs also aren’t caused by sex. They can be caused by not urinating after sex or getting bacteria in your urethra during sex but it’s not the sex itself. They are usually caused from holding in your pee for too long.
You’re not with him. And even if you were you can’t police what people do. Why did you have sex with someone you’re not in a committed relationship with?
I have PCOS and I'm very lucky that it only took 14 months to conceive. My advice is to see a specialist and they will be able to tell you how healthy your ovaries are/how many egg sacks are left.
You need to have a conversation with him and find out what his timeline looks like. If he wants to start trying in 5 years then that's probably too late. How long will it take to get a home of your own? If it's 6 months it's not really a big deal but years would be to me. Unfortunately I don't think you are compatible anymore if you are ready for children and he wants to wait or doesn't want them at all.
I have PCOS and I'm very lucky that it only took 14 months to conceive. My advice is to see a specialist and they will be able to tell you how healthy your ovaries are/how many egg sacks are left.
You need to have a conversation with him and find out what his timeline looks like. If he wants to start trying in 5 years then that's probably too late. How long will it take to get a home of your own? If it's 6 months it's not really a big deal but years would be to me. Unfortunately I don't think you are compatible anymore if you are ready for children and he wants to wait or doesn't want them at all.
Of course you're hurt. You're hurt because he's actively choosing to hurt you and he's getting off on it. That's not love. I repeat: He. Doesn't. Love. You.
You seem to have it twisted. You need to call it what it is: sex. Cuz this definitely isn't a fucking relationship. If this were an actual relationship, he wouldn't do this to you. Why do you even want to settle for this literal creep? I get you're probably hung up because of history and what not but… just no.
One day you're going to look back at this guy and be absolutely mortified.
Thank you. It’s a rough road but I think you are correct.
I got the impression that you're not asking how to help make your wife comfortable.
I'm not sure why that was the case given that most of these comments are me either accepting advice on what to do about the smell or me confirming that I've already tried that. The first comment was pretty harmless, it was just me sharing an experience.
Anyways, the point of the post was to figure out what might still be lingering so I can clean that. It's not my car, it's not my house, Dk if it's my clothes, but could be my teeth.
Talk to her, tell her that this guy you used to work with said he sees her in his restaurant once a week and see what she says. You don't have to go in with accusations just ask
He lied, he hid it from you and, when he allegedly stopped due to being sorry, he still didn’t come clean.
I honestly wouldn’t care if my partner would have that secret account, but he would have told me the day he made the account. Hiding any part of you from the person you are sharing your life with is a waste of time for everyone involved.
I don’t think she took advantage of me tho ?? She was really nice
Hi, your vagina is fine. I’m still working on my bf making sure I’m wet before he puts it in. He’s awful at foreplay, but I also can tell he enjoys the tightness of the lower regions when I’m not actually ready down there, but it hurts me so im quickly getting really tired of it
It’s loose because it’s not suppose to hurt you, if it hurts you then y’all ain’t fucking right. My bf does need it tighter though, so I usually tighten the area the best I can when he tells me he’s trying to cum. He takes forever to cum though, but it’s better than not cumming at all I guess
Like, he thought they stayed in “baby-passing width” forever after childbirth? I'm guessing rubber bands confuse him, too, then… good lord my poor eyeballs and brain reading this!
Yes. He does stay away from her. When he’s out of his manic state he never remembers what he says or did.
Yes. He does stay away from her. When he’s out of his manic state he never remembers what he says or did.
This is either going to cost you the family you’re trying to make, or cost you the relationship with Amanda
I do not see another option here
You were there for Amanda and she is STILL mad.
You literally put your relationship on the line to be there, your WIFE needed you and you were not there in her most vulnerable time during her life.
I’m sure Amanda will have another wedding you will be able to attend, she sounds lovely
Wake up
Or she could have been raped. This is always a possibility and could explain the full break down but maintaining secrecy. It should not be discounted.
Yes, nothing is the best thing to do. Just let nature take its course. Sucks for you, but that’s what’s best for him, so I hope he sticks to his guns.
His body his choice!
Does this make me not-white because I don’t enjoy either of those things?
You don't sound compatible.
My husband is a thrill seeker with many of the same hobbies as you. I am more reserved and generally have less adventurous hobbies. We also have hobbies we both enjoy and do together. We both enjoy our hobbies separately and then talk about them with each other. After 10 years together, it's still a positive thing we have our own interests.
Obviously it’s weird that he wants to bang other girls when he has a gf
Thank you for the responses everyone you’ve given me a lot to think about
Gross. That's not true for many people. Their attraction ages with them.
I find people in their late 20s-30s to be more attractive than teenagers.
Just because some people don't mature doesn't mean we all don't.
I mean obviously she didn’t communicate it well the first time. She actually opened up about the issue this time.
Just tell them that you care about them but don't want to continue dating them. You don't see a future with them and can't waste any more of their time.
So 1. You are controlling, so work on yourself for your next relationship.
2, this relationship is over. You are right, she broke her promise to you, and rather than tell you that she shouldn’t have made it in the first place, as you are controlling, she doubles down and makes and breaks it again, then gets angry at you when you call her out on breaking the promise she made a second time.
You cannot trust anything she says, especially when alcohol is involved, this she has proven to you. And even if you could switch the controlling part of you off right this instant, there will always be the problem of her breaking trust and her behaviour towards and around alcohol.
So break up with her now. Do not wait for her to come back.
If it was on the level she'd introduce you.
You damn well show up as a parent even when you're grumpy and tired. Occasionally there will be some reason as to why you legitimately cannot be at something, but it sure shouldn't be every time or even often. You make choices in life, and being there for your kids always need to be your first choice.