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Look for a new job. In the mean time, document every instance you need to prompt them to give you what you need. Stop asking for things in person. Email them and copy your manager every time. Your manager is doing a terrible job, so you need to proactively show them each and every instance you’re reaching out and hearing silence. Having a paper trail will also help if and when they try and discipline you for any of this.
Wait. You ran a:
Yes to the background check, Google search, and credit check
but
And I only started feeling suspicious of him in the last 2 months,
So….you are also behaving in an unusual way in this situation. Most people never run these checks on people they date, unless they have an inconsistent story. Are you naturally more suspicious and less trusting than others are to begin with?
I gotta be blunt, if I did all these checks, married a guy and found his behavior weird post marriage? I'd be inclined to trust his explanation since I've already checked his background out. You've already looked as a normal part of dating. There is nothing hiding out there unless you think his identity is fake.
Honestly, you don't need a PI. The only thing left to do is to straight out sit the guy down and tell him you are uncomfortable with his secretiveness. It's causing you trust issues and making you feel/act crazy. Is there a way you can compromise on this because otherwise, you fear it will drive a wedge in your marriage.
Also, I suggest some individual therapy for you and him. With the added information, it sounds like you two may struggle with trust issues in your life in ways that are harming yourself or your partner. Maybe some communication workshops as a couple, too. Just so that you know how to open up to each other.
You 100% do not need to reinvestigate him. That is when your doubt becomes a disordered behavior that is potentially symptomatic.