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Date: October 28, 2022
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You do need therapy because this is a very unhealthy fixation and you could either get yourself into a dangerous situation or become complicit in something really bad because you’re blinded by this inexplicable attraction. It sounds like a twisted fantasy / sick fixation and the fact that you’re aware of what these men have done yet you’re still attracted to them is very concerning as the normal human reaction of anyone with empathy would be to be repulsed by them especially with the knowledge of what they have done to other human beings. To be able to either a) overlook what they’ve done and be so attracted to them that you are able to compartmentalise that or b) the fact that you happen to be attracted to men who have committed such vile, evil acts against humanity somehow adds to the attraction – either way something is very unnatural and you lack the common repulsed reaction most people have at the idea of these men. To be attracted to them when the normal reaction is to be repulsed, says that you really should have therapy, be psychoanalysed or see a psychiatrist. It is an unusual fetish / fixation and would make a lot of people angry / sickened because it comes across as a total disregard for what these men have done and how many lives they have destroyed and that a physical / sexual attraction overrides that. It’s unthinkable and may even come across as provocative given how controversial your sexual tastes are.
Don't go out on the streets.
Exactly! They have to pinch them, how is that not as bad as the friend?
Women are more likely to need emotional intimacy to be in the mood, which she says will happen after they spent quality time in person.
I’m fortunate to travel a lot internationally. I don’t understand where you’re getting “everything is on edge right now”. People are moving on from Covid everywhere and they are excited to so very welcoming to tourists. If you go backpacking in Europe this summer I can assure you the only risk would be an occasional pickpocketer. Planning for a trip out in 6 months will stop her “whining” and give her something to look forward to. I will say you should try to get her to take a break from social media, try everything you can (it’s tough)
As small as you may think it is, the good sharing and probably even the kissing makes you two extremely uncompatible. Your boundries are valid but I would simply let go and move on. He also showed his true colors, he simply could have told you he couldn't handle this issue and walked away. That reaction was very toxic and abusive, i dont care how far his buttons were pushed (in his eyes). He's an asshole
Leave him and work on working on yourself, it’s the only way you can truly fix it. Feels unimaginable now, but your happiness is more important
I was on duloxetine and was never that way. It should not numb you to all emotion, just make you function in a calmer way and curbs panic attacks. Maybe she’s taking too much or the wrong type.
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Nah, not when you're in a separate office and seem to actually go out multiple times a week.
I'm an introvert, and the only time I really wish my flat was empty and my partner would go out, is when we've had a fight or there's some sort of of issue and I feel there's a pressure in the atmosphere that can't be resolved easily. That has happened a few times at most, like 2 times in 3 years, and I never actually asked him to leave.
My partner is an extrovert, so if I'm in the office all week he misses someone to talk to and company. But like, no matter how introverted I am and how much I want spare time from other people, my partner pretty much feels like home and I don't feel a huge need to get separate space from him. If he's just doing his own thing and so am I, but doors are open or we're in the same room it's fine. If I want some space to do my own thing I'll go to the bedroom and close the door.
Being introverted is more about recharging your batteries that drain when you're with other people, having to put in lots of effort and chat etc. I don't really feel someone you're supposed to be super comfortable with, that just shares your environment, is supposed to be draining your batteries. This feels like something else, more like something he wants to do when you're not around so you can't see it. Unless he's feeling some sort of pressure when you're about, to do things like chores or talk or constantly etc.
It's your home, you already go out multiple times a week and he gets to be totally alone. It's not fair to make you do this specifically on his whims and schedule. I'd be say no here, but trying to open a dialogue about why he feels he needs you to leave your own home all the time.
How the fuck do these assholes find women. Why am I solo, because I’m nice, fuck my life.
He is struggling with the grief and loss of his dream about you being pregnant with a child with him. He is sad. He feels shame for wasted time and is struggling. Maybe you are too. At this time it should be the two of you versus the pain not you vs him. Compassion.
I don’t think there’s anything you’ll do or say that will change your gf’s mind.
You seems to still be in contact with this woman if she asked you to watch your dog. It would’ve been more appropriate if your brother had asked you.
Usually girlfriends/wives don’t want to have contact with their partner’s sexual encounters but in your situation it’s worst she’s family so inevitably they’ll meet at family fonctions so it’s up to you to put up boundaries as not to talk to her only for being polite. Tell your brother also that you just don’t want any contact with her and explain why.
Never cru in front of a cheater. They see it as you being too weak to break up and a free pass to continue emotional abuse.
I would let her know beforehand, and probably over the phone tbh. I feel like she might need the space to show her emotions without you as an audience. Keep it short and direct but don't pretend it's no big deal either. Say you have news, gf is pregnant and you just wanted to give her a heads up before the banquet. That's all that's needed really.
Probably because condoms are just about the least effective form of birth control there is. The failure rate for typical use is like 13%. Perfect use is 2%, which might not sound huge, but is still about twice that of other methods. And what are the chances that a long-term term couple having regular sex will maintain that perfect use for literal decades without any lapses? No accidently using an expired product, no tiny tears that go unnoticed? Not even once for the next 30 years? I wouldn't risk it.
So he thinks your perfectly normal response of calling the police in that situation is a betrayal and psychotic, but can’t see that if he actually shot a blank into the ceiling to get a reaction out of you it would be abusive and psychotic?
Yeah, this guy ain’t stable.
Hey I really appreciate that, honestly. Things are still kinda in flux but I’m happy with their trajectory ☺️ I wouldn’t call it smooth but I think it all worked out as best it could’ve.
A valid question. I do not blindly take her side, especially if the poor plumber and her miscommunicated about the job that needed doing. I do say things like, “what a pain in the ass, I’m sorry. I don’t think he maliciously screwed us over.” That is an example of when she accused me of taking their side.
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No written proof
your ex was probably just jealous she couldn’t pull the heels off, unlike you.
seriously tho, congrats on getting away from a crappy person!
Get it on video or audio and take it to the landlord to ask for a lease break. Or find a sublettter and bail. Rejection, especially when you have been lead on, stings a lotttt but he's completely out of line and out of control. Franky you both sound way to immature to be out of your Mama's houses.
We both take a bit. It’s not that unusual
Don't get a surgery out of pressure from your partner. Your body, your choice, and if you don't feel comfortable getting a potentially irreversible medical procedure you should not.
She is very indecisive. I was thinking about conversations we had in the past when expressing feelings like you said. Thank you.
It's not a boundary. Not a healthy one. It's a rule he agreed to and broke.
How is it different? Whether she's a product of abuse or her issue is just being the reason why her mother gave up on a dream career for her, that's still something she needs to process. In what ways she'd go about it differently on an emotional level?
“Frequent” bathing for a cat would be maybe once a month. Most cats do not need bathing at all unless they get into something gross or cannot clean themselves for some reason. It can be really bad for their skin (and drying out their skin can mean more dandruff and dander floating around in your home).
There is no reason whatsoever to be mad at herm I understand the impulse, but you can clearly see your boyfriend is at fault. He is the one committed.to you. He is the one pushing this. Do not displace you anger. It should be on him.
I would also wonder if this has a future. It seems he tried and was ongoing in trying to get another girl. I don't see a reason to trust.
you don't even really look overweight to me tbh, just healthy
Unfortunately that would be tricky. She has some severe allergies to a lot of foods on top of being vegan so I am not even sure where we could get dinner. She pretty much only cooks. We grabbed lunch at I'm pretty sure the only place that she dines out at. I think it would be somewhat lame to go there again.
I agree with this take, somebody who is crying over an ex is not ready for a relationship
At the time you were talking/having sex with others you were NOT exclusive.
At the time he let this chick touch him you WERE inclusive. Saying he “tried to push her off” is implying she raped him, (not saying she didn't bc even a soft push should have implied a “no”) but that said he literally admitted to wanting her to continue
So HE cheated It doesn't matter what you did at the beginning because you DIDNT cheat
Dump this loser
I know that sometimes fact is stranger than fiction. However, that doesn’t mean that there aren’t people who make up stories for attention either. I also suppose that due to my own past, I am quick to say that I refuse to call the victim of SA a lair. I know they exist, lairs about SA. I’ve unfortunately met two. But they lied about everything and they were claiming rape when we were in a fairly large group, out in the open and no one saw any misbehaving by the young man accused. The girl just started screaming rape because she didn’t get her way with him.
Although I have to say, it would be great actually if this story weren’t true. (Minus the lying to 1208 people and counting) Because it’s horrible, heartbreaking and plain old tragic.
he knows he's making you uncomfortable. you don't need to make excuses for him he is genuinely being a creep.
I'm not against converting, but I feel threatened into something I've lived my whole life being indifferent about over one conversation.
That.
And this:
Before our marriage, I asked my husband point blank if me not believing in God was going to be an issue for him, and he said no.
Would be making me second guess everything.
Me and my partner have different beliefs, but we never expect to enforce one on the other… its managed through respect.
If I was told, this is a do our die for our relationship.. I would let it die.
Why?
Because this is the start of it.
You will have no idea what else is in store.
If you're forced to adapt his way… sure the entry may settle things for now… but how far do those expectations go?
Do you need the label to satisfy? Or are you expected to rewrite your way of life and adbot a lifestyle you were forced into.
I also just wna add that when I say he's gotten better through out the year I don't mean the yeat 2023 I mean the year we've been tog lol
So don't eat it. 5 days to a week is not a big difference. Contacting their doctor would be insane.
Youre a stripper. Most men wont date you seriously tbh
I never got rejected, she told me if im single and even if she got a boyfriend she will leave him and be with me lol . My point was not to cheat otherwise I could have told her im married dumbass ! I was honest since the beginning smart ass
She probably wanted to break up already, and is just grasping at straws for a reason, instead of just saying she isn't into you.
You don't have anything to apologize for, you tried your best to give her the space she wanted, she could have told you where she is going, and didn't, she can't expect you to know ahead of time. And if she had been interested in continuing the relationship would have laughed it up as a funny coincidence.