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Curtis & Alex, y.o.
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Date: October 11, 2022
Curtis & Alex, y.o.
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This feels like it could be a little codependency. I can only tell you my experience though- because I could be wrong.
I used to try and set boundaries with people, but somehow… it just never worked. They would tell me it wasn’t reasonable or the first time I really had to keep to my boundary they would try to sneak around it somehow, or even turn it into a shame fest about me and my shortcomings.
So I would soften the boundary and say “Maybe we can do this that or the other,” instead of holding the boundary like I wanted to. I love my people so much, and I often end up feeling responsible for them. And I’d give in if someone so much as side eyed my boundary.
First thing to do, set a time for a talk and tell him. Hold that boundary. This is assuming he is safe- don’t put yourself in danger! Back to the advice if not, hold the boundary no matter what he tries to throw at you. And he will, likely.
And if anything f I say resonated, look into Codependent No More by Melody Beattie. Changed my life, like looking into a whole mirror of why I am how I am.
You keep saying I. How do you know she wants you back? Maybe that was the last straw for her. You're 21. Go better yourself for the next time you're in a relationship.
Sorry dude, too bad. It sucks, but not getting my sympathy.
Your marriage will literally depend on him having a job or not.
Job hunting is a pain, but you have to suck it up and keep at it.
You can't roll over and give up.