adoption should never about the parents and what the parents want it should ALWAYS be about the child, it’s very concerning that he wants to adopt asian children specifically, if you both decide to go through with adoption please do some research on the affects it has on children & how different it is to having biological children. it’s not selfish to want to have biological children & adopting children doesn’t make you a saint, it is a long and tedious process to adopt and you have the factor of their biological family as well, not everyone is fit to adopt and i don’t think your husband is in my opinion.
Would you give her up? If not then it's still your child.
adoption should never about the parents and what the parents want it should ALWAYS be about the child, it’s very concerning that he wants to adopt asian children specifically, if you both decide to go through with adoption please do some research on the affects it has on children & how different it is to having biological children. it’s not selfish to want to have biological children & adopting children doesn’t make you a saint, it is a long and tedious process to adopt and you have the factor of their biological family as well, not everyone is fit to adopt and i don’t think your husband is in my opinion.
i mean…sounds like you want to be single.
bottom line you should let him know.
let him know you want emotional and physical connections with other people.
are you gonna wait for for him to propose to you ? wait till youre 20 years married ? are you gonna wait until you end up cheating on him ?
he deserves to know who his partner truly is.
its time for honesty