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Sorry OP but you a little cray cray. How often out of those 2 months did he have to travel? If it's just a few days your completely in the wrong. If he was gon m-f every week traveling then maybe I can see why your upset.
Women get pleasure usually by preforming more so than actually getting oral. I’ve offered to do it and I was flat out told no and when asked why she said “most times eating a women out doesn’t feel as good as porn makes it, we like to please our men more so than having you guys try to please us orally” and that made a lot of sense actually. Sometimes your sexual relationship will be based on just your pleasure, because who knows, maybe them pleasing you is all they want/need in sex
Yeah I can’t deny that either. It’s why I quoted it when I gave him my reply.
You own your shit as parents and go to therapy. It’s the only way.
I’m no contact with both my parents (not together), and this is the absolute only way to repair this. Maybe eventually go to therapy as a family. I went NC when my parents refused to acknowledge their toxic behaviour, habits, and lack of self awareness that contributed to how messed up I ended up being in my 20s. Then my sibling died and even then they didn’t wake up. My mother and father will both eventually die not knowing their only living daughter and their future grandchild. It’s not my job to parent them or coach them into being good humans who are self aware.
Thats extremely toxic and you should step away from this relationship.
This post with that user name….
Very VERY unlikely she's pregnant. Periods are fickle things sometimes. Lots of reasons can cause them to be late, but it isn't even REALLY that late yet. You really have nothing to worry about here.
Go out and celebrate with her another day and enjoy the separate nights out with friends! It isn't your graduation, don't let this cause a fall out.
From a bipolar person with previously poor self coping skills, this man is really really sick mentally and isn’t capable of maintaining a relationship.
Break up now or most certainly find yourself breaking up later when it’ll be even more of a disaster.
You sound very mature and self aware, though! Try seeking out partners that aren’t in need of someone to help or fix them, you’ll be a lot more fulfilled.
I guess what bothers me with the situation is that going to a game is something most people do with their significant other.
“it's not like men view women as actual humans”
“Quit playing dumb”
“A five year age gap is not that big of a deal”
????bye Felicia ????
Just break up with him, he doesn't deserve to go through this. You don't love him at all anyways, that much is clear by the comments. You can go explore your options that way too. You literally told him he's not enough, then lied about talking to others. He's probably just agreed because he's afraid to lose you. And now you lie to him.
Now don't be selfish and try to close the relationship cuz you'll end up cheating or falling out of love anyways, break up.
Just break up with him, he doesn't deserve to go through this. You don't love him at all anyways, that much is clear by the comments. You can go explore your options that way too. You literally told him he's not enough, then lied about talking to others. He's probably just agreed because he's afraid to lose you. And now you lie to him.
Now don't be selfish and try to close the relationship cuz you'll end up cheating or falling out of love anyways, break up.
I have no idea I guess I’m just afraid of something new. Also scared I’d regret it or feel dirty 🙁
I do. I told him he never has to stay at my house, he never had to come for holidays, anything. I told him he can wait years or whenever he is ready and he told me it’s either them or him. Then he apologises and says he will. Then he goes back. I just don’t know how to have a conversation about this because I don’t bring it up, but he does constantly. Thanks so much for your input, it definitely helps 🙂
She doesn’t want to go all the way. You do. Both people need to want to in order to do it.
What do you want advice about?
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Why are you trying to make yourself out to be a victim here? People can change.
By taking time to check in with her.
My partner, we both play video games, however he has gotten absorbed in MMO a few times on Steam. But he does try to remember to take breaks for a few hours and spend time with me.
If you’re playing and you are 2hrs in? Time to take a break! Come back to reality and focus on her.
There is playing games, then there is monopolizing time to the point you lost track of time and forgot about her.
Also why doesn’t she have any hobbies or interests of her own???
Like you shouldn’t be a hobby and it’s like she made you her hobby instead of having one for when you play even an hour.
That is compromise and allows you to play and keeps her busy.
Nah I don’t need to get married but I know I’m in a very committed relationship. Don’t buy houses with people you’re not committed to – perhaps a better way to put it
Oh hey, you're back! I've been meaning to ask — do you keep this post in a word document or do you just copy it from the last time you posted it?
YOU WON…a cookie!
James and I eloped last year and never had a formal wedding. We’ve been planning one for April…all the invitations are sent out, flights purchased…I don’t want to go through with it. It’s humiliating to even think about cancelling. I’d have to disclose this all to everyone I know and my friends will be really disappointed about buying those flights. It’s near my 30th birthday, maybe it can just be a birthday party instead. I feel so heartbroken.
If you're going to cancel, cancel now. People might be able to cancel or re-book – the sooner the better.
The way you describe what you like about her really gave me the ick. It's like you see her as being programmed with all the software you like but you're still not satisfied because you don't see her as anything other than those check boxes.
If that's what you want hire a housekeeper or move your mother in (please don't do that, your mum doesn't deserve that objectification either).
It really doesn't feel like you love this woman.
Honey why are you bending backwards justifying the actions of someone who is clearly a shut partner and parent? Do better
I need more information. How strict is strict? Have you been forbidden to date? Is there anything about this guy you know they’ll hate? Have you dated before? Do you have siblings? Let us know more.
Get to a therapist. You have to regain yourself before you decide.
Oh great point! I should have mentioned that I explicitly asked him (curiosity killed the cat ?) of his opinion. He is not mean
He thinks he is slightly smarter than me
How does he have time for all that and you don’t? That’s my big question.
Ugh, thanks for those flashbacks… haven't “seen” my parents in a while.
We haven’t been masterbating and are both still very attracted to each other. We’ve not really been dating because we’ve been so focused on getting the house done
You should seriously take a few days off of everything. You need to rest.
Maybe the baby is trans phobic.
I don’t think you’re willing to admit that your trauma and mental instabilities are ruling your life, and because it is ruling your life you do not see that your bf is forced to tolerate it and be an emotional support. It’s a toxic way of living in a relationship, and you not willing to admit that it’s controlling your life and automatically putting unfair expectations and demands on him is pretty much the entire problem.
Absolutely no question go to the graduation!!!! Holy fuck you're a doctor! Celebrate that! I'm sorry your relationship with your family might suffer but you have to choose yourself here 100%. You have to show them you're not abiding by their rules forever. You cant just ditch everything important to you for your brother.
Therapy is already on my mind, had therapy before for depression. Do you have any experience with this or tips? For now I talked with my partner to not text about work anymore because that's our main subject by text. “It's boring, what are you doing” “I just experienced …” “I'm on my break and doing …, what are you doing”. We both do this, we both have the tendency to text each other when something happened or just to have a conversation. So we agreed to avoid work texts as a start…
You need to find a way to keep yourself busy. The relationship is over. Find a new hobby and dive into it head first.
He’s an asshole. There will be more to follow. I’ve been with someone just like this. I am so much happier now!! It took a long time to work through the mental damage.
I mean, I can see why every cheater lies. It is to their advantage.
Does that mean they’re in the right?
I mean, I can see why every cheater lies. It is to their advantage.
Does that mean they’re in the right?
Anecdote about a couple I know: both established at their jobs – she's a PT nurse, he worked in a casino for over 20 years, – no problems that anyone could detect, no children, life's good. One day he decides to STEAL chips when he knows full well that there are cameras pointed at him. Turns out he's in a full mental breakdown – loses his job, starts a psychiatric treatment, is now doing better.
Don't underestimate this explanation, maybe suggest a medical check-up.
Well, hopefully he doesn't reproduce.
I’m really sorry, My Dude! But just block this train wreck of a person. I know you love her, and I know it hurts like hell, but she’s playing a game, and there’s going to be no winners when the game is over. It’s toxic af!
I’d say this is some sort of mental break, but she’s making plans, and it very well could be a mental break, but it’s just a really bad situation. Especially with the girlfriend. And she LAUGHED at you while she was at his house?
This is beyond disturbing and disrespectful. Please KNOW you’re worth more than this! She’s obviously not the person you thought she was. She’s SHOWED you who she truly is. BELIEVE HER!!! But also keep in mind if you don’t have her blocked from EVERY avenue she has to you, you WILL be the fallback guy. You’re safe? You’re in love her. But she WILL do this again. I don’t even think intensive therapy could help this!
Your heartbreak will ease. I swear it will. I know it feels like it won’t, but one day you’ll realize “hey, it doesn’t hurt as bad as yesterday.” And it will progressively get better every day from that point. You may have days you feel like you’re regressing, but you will heal! I’d definitely suggest you take some time to yourself and heal before you start another relationship. It wouldn’t be fair to a new potential partner.
I hope you cut her loose, completely. I hope you stop any form of communication since she seems to find it funny and she very well maybe using you and your feelings as an ego boost. I wish you great things in the future. I hope your next partner is a kind, loving person!!! I hope we get an update in a few weeks that you’re doing great and that you ARE LIVING YOUR BEST LIFE!!! Good luck! I’m so sorry this happened to you. But let this be a lesson about your self worth and what you deserve!
If he won't do counseling, what about a financial advisor? Cause otherwise, he's heading towards bankruptcy. Maybe that's his plan? But after bankruptcy there are no credit cards for like 7 years or something. And forget buying a house or building on your property. Keep your money separate, cause if he does file bankruptcy, it would affect you.
Thanks y’all! My friends have been saying the same things. Just needed to hear it from others too honestly. Just kinda stuck living with him till I move out and graduate.
My bad I thought I specified I like getting to know people in person rather than over text. Friday is kind of a long period to meet but we agreed on that day because I have school and work and she does too
Why being with a guy who is obsessed with his ex but not with you?
It is not that we don't understand what you are saying…..it is that what you are saying is wrong.
You can say that you can't do xyz especially when you are jeopardising the relationship.
And making it very clear that there are reactions to the actions is also a boundary.
He said no.
Expecting a partner to still be a virgin at 23 is pretty foolish. If that’s her hangup she’s going to have a bad time.
Do what’s comfortable. When something doesn’t feel right you know to slow down. When it stops feeling good is when you have a problem.
It's as little or as much as you both decide on to be mutually satisfied. I'm a couple times a day kind of guy. My wife is a couple of times a week kind of gal.
We have settled on about 4-5 times a week because it works for both of us.
You are the winner here. You get rid of a cheating jerk and will find someone a million times better in the future.
It might seem nude now, but you will get through this, and it will get easier. Your ex will quickly learn that the grass isn't always greener.
You tell her unfortunately your needs don’t match. Be upfront about yours. She is not hiding hers.
It’s okay if it doesn’t work out. Better to be in a relationship that makes you happy and doesn’t drain you.
He sounds a lot like my Narc ex, the difference is I foolishly stayed around for years of this and it only kept getting worse. Since you’re not living together (thank God) just go ahead and ditch him. He’s going to turn on the love bombing and/or manipulation techniques so be prepared for that, you may have to ghost him in the end.
This behavior of his was exhausting just looking it over written down.