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Date: October 11, 2022
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Do you seek them out deliberately or do they just happen to fall ontop of you by chance?
well, it sounds like he didn't crack open that pandora's box on his own… TBH, after a quick scan of the comments you're getting, I can't believe so many people are failing to remind you of your role in this mess. The number of people that feel the need to endorse the OP on reddit is friggin ridiculous, karma vultures I say, they're not trying to help. I'm not saying you don't have the right to change your mind, but you either got to piss or get off the pot. You need to just come straight out and tell him that you messed up when you agreed to “dabble” in it, it's not who you are and it must stop or the marriage is over. It really is that simple. If you don't want to be his doormat, and if you think he's capable of stopping you guys have to treat this like the problem it is and move forward in unison. If he's unwilling, you guys are incompatible and staying together will just ruin you. I wish you well, and hope you find a way forward, truly, good luck.
Well, he responded by telling this girl that OP and him were “just friends”…
Even his mates knew better. I wouldn't be able to trust after. I'd drop the husband.
Absolutely. One could also argue that if someone is acting crazy, regardless of why, it might be advisable to avoid having sex with them.
Why be in a relationship if most of them end in a way other than one partner's death? If you're committed, you're committed. as others have said, there are important legal protections to being married. To some people it also matters that you commit to one another and celebrate each other publicly. That's not for everyone, but if it's important to your partner, I think you need to answer for yourself why you're okay being in a committed relationship that may fail for any number of reasons, but not okay being in a marriage that also may fail for any number of reasons. “Statistics” isn't an answer when the statistics on breakups are no better and probably worse.
Tell her you want them back and that you're going to sell them back to the store.
So, I'm trying to decide whether to bake another batch of blossom cookies with candy cane kisses. I have the stuff, but maybe it's time to be back to regular/healthy eating. Decisions, decisions. I have the stuff, but maybe it would be nice to save them for something nice like a snow day.
I feel bad for your imaginary hubs
Half the size of a dime is pretty small, are you guys just hanging out nude all the time while you’re not having sex? Because if he only sees a lot of your skin during sex then he’s probably more focused on having sex than tiny marks you have
Sue her to get the money back. You had given her the money with one intention to invest it and she treated it like an allowance. She lied to you and stole from you. DUMP HER AND GET YOUR MONEY BACK.
Your friend comparing your relationship to you dating a 12 year old isn't even correct. He should be comparing it to you dating someone who hasn't even been born yet. They haven't even been conceived yet. Their parents might not even have met each other yet. That's so disgusting. Run.
Have you talked to her about this?
Yeah he threw a remote at the TV and broke it because I ate ice cream at his house without telling him
I get what you're saying here. I understand that on face value, I would not call it gaslighting. Just miscommunication and frustration. The part that encouraged me to use the word is the comment left by OP. If this was discussed once or twice, I can see this point. However, he is implying these demands have been recycled and sitting in the oven for quite a while now. This is past the point of “unintentional gaslighting”. At this point, it is not unreasonable to claim that getting upset is part of the push and not part of the conversation, if that makes sense.
Anyways, I think we both agree that this situation could've been handled way better. It's just a disagreement on whether she meant it or not, then again neither of us know her well enough to be sure. So let's agree to disagree. Have a good day 🙂
This is the sucky part about being an adult. Sometimes you have to set aside what you want for a greater goal.
I'm hoping it works out for you!
You literally were going to break up before “ll week I planned on having one final conversation with him on Sunday before I leave, pretty sure it would end up with me breaking up”
So stop pretending this isn't an option.
No one is going to be perfect everyone is going to have to work on something
No. If you need them to change they aren't someone for you to date.
he spark is going to leave eventually no matter what
Wrong again.
you’re going to have very difficult times in every relationship
A half truth. The nude times are about external issues, not with current incompatibilities. You don't start from broken, but from healthy, and face adversity.
Trying to work on one is only going to make it stronger so you have a solid base for all the challenges that are going to be even bigger in the future.
Then work on yourselves single. He can always look you up when he's ready and fixed. Same with you. But are you working on yourself. What actions are you making? You in therapy too?
I don’t have a specific time planned that’s why I didn’t answer because it not realistic.
Exactly. So unrealistic time frames mean it won't work and it doesn't mean you avoid answering. If your expectations don't make sense, a successful outcome won't happen. Not to mention the worse consequences to your future dating of others.
the fact that he’s trying and that he’ll get better every day is enough for me. I
No. That is part of why you feel “delusional” because that is fantasy talk.
If he stays the same for months if I don’t see one ounce of change then I’ll definitely leave.
How many months? 1,6, 24?
You seem very confused about the goals of dating. Your goal is to find the best companion for you. Not charity date for them. You will end up miserable and single with your current strategy.
She sounds insufferable.
I'm not lol
Leave
Work on not doing the snapping to start off with.
But the fact that she knew about how i was uncomfortable with it and she continue on liking this guy.. even after he comes and goes in a space of 2 months.. isnt that emotional cheating? Crossing boundaries i mean.
He didn’t save money because he wanted to on-line in the moment? I want to say that’s pretty irresponsible but on the other hand he HAS saved $150k by 30. I guess the real question is ‘Is he over that phase and ready to be serious about saving money?’
Maybe you need to have an adult conversation about money – how much you would spend on a home, where the money would come from and how you would be paying that back.
I have a friend who does elaborate parties fairly often, this is how she lets everyone know when, where, and what to bring. It is super convenient and Facebook sends reminders often enough that I don’t forget. Most useful thing on that platform.