Thank you it’s tough for sure :/ but I’ve found that I can find what I was missing from him in other guys and even tho part of me wished that was him filling those roles a much bigger part of me is fine letting go and not holding onto him. Looking back I wanted to grow with him and he wanted to kill time. I’ll focus on loving myself and maybe finding someone I can have a meaningful relationship with who actually wants to have a future w me not just pretend ❤️
I think you should stop dating completely for a while and let yourself process all of this. So you can re-enter the dating market with a clear head and open heart again.
Her having a young child would not have been easy, no matter how cute and sweet he is…you’re seeking a different type of life when you seek a child free partner. You’re looking for someone who does not have continuous obligations that usually require full commitment. There are many risks that come with being in a relationship that has this large fundamental incompatibility.
That being said, there are a lot of women out in the world and some are probably like this girl and you can find another one of her but child free. This is a huge life change sort of thing
Why tf did you post here lol, no one on earth is being more dramatic than you today
Thank you it’s tough for sure :/ but I’ve found that I can find what I was missing from him in other guys and even tho part of me wished that was him filling those roles a much bigger part of me is fine letting go and not holding onto him. Looking back I wanted to grow with him and he wanted to kill time. I’ll focus on loving myself and maybe finding someone I can have a meaningful relationship with who actually wants to have a future w me not just pretend ❤️
I think you should stop dating completely for a while and let yourself process all of this. So you can re-enter the dating market with a clear head and open heart again.
Her having a young child would not have been easy, no matter how cute and sweet he is…you’re seeking a different type of life when you seek a child free partner. You’re looking for someone who does not have continuous obligations that usually require full commitment. There are many risks that come with being in a relationship that has this large fundamental incompatibility.
That being said, there are a lot of women out in the world and some are probably like this girl and you can find another one of her but child free. This is a huge life change sort of thing