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Date: December 28, 2022
In this day and age of DNA tests done just for the fun of it, the truth will come out eventually. If you want to know if this is your child and get to know your kid before they are an adult then you need to pursue this now. Get an attorney. But if you are okay with not being apart of their life then so be it. But one day that kid will know if the dad that raised them is not their dad and that is going to cause hurt and angry feelings. Plus if they find out you knew it was a possibility that you were their dad and did nothing that could cause them to be hurt and angry too.
I will try! I just feel like it’s a lot for her to hear all at once
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Yup. She needs to get out before he tries to get her pregnant to make her stay. What if a kid falls through one of those floor-holes?
The only one I am seeing in red right now is the person who took advantage of a drunk person that’s all.
I looked pretty close last night, as did he. He even agreed at one point that it looks like a hickey. He just shrugged and said “that's weird”
Do you think a person with social anxiety would make scene so EVERYONE around look at her? Does that add up?
I have brought it up before a couple of times right after he finishes and he hasn’t really made any changes.
You’re right, perhaps the timing was bad but there’s really not a good time to wait until it’s the weekend and I honestly just wanted to get it off my chest and not let it make me turn into a mean moody rat.
Thank you for your reply! I think that is something harmless worth trying at least. I'm not sure if lapsitting is our thing but there are other ways i can think of that works for us. But i really appreciate your insight, especially coming from a guy who has been in a LT relationship, so thanks! It's definitely something to discuss with him.
OP this is abuse or at the very leasta pre-cursoe to it. He was punishing you. But also, darker still, given that you did something he disapproved of with friends, he was ‘re-claiming’ you. This is something abusive people will do. He believes he has marked his territory again by doing something to your body.
It is very unlikely to get better if these things are happening. I’m sorry
He knows I have to recover. He's just hoping to start trying again once the 3 months are up like last time. Im kinda hoping I can push it for 6, though, because my second rupture was only 5 months out from the first. I just was to give my body the best chance it has. Give myself more time to get fit and develop a plan with a doctor that I trust. I just know 6 months is a long time to ask for no advances.
I’ve never told him he’s wrong, just to break the issue down. And idk, trauma probably. And also because I do see the good in him and I guess I didn’t want to give up on him
Also yes it's possible to BE pregnant from the encounter but unless she was testing herself every day to make sure and/or has a very short cycle there's no way she could know so soon.
This is very suspicious and I think ABC set you up. She assaulted you and convinced you'd do the right thing if she lied about being pregnant.
She made you break up with the love of your life because you think what happened was a drunk mistake.
If you were a woman and you woke up after a night of drinking in a bed with a very hot dude, you'd think SA because no way were you clear enough to consent.
It's no different. You were drunk and couldn't say yes. If it's not a willing yes it's a no.
Do you realize that you are about to be single?
Nope, chlamydia is cureable with a drink.
Tell her you’re not interested in hearing about hers or your sisters sex lives and that you find it really boring to listen to.
If she carries on, say nothing and just walk away. She’ll learn.
It is crazy. You are either in a relationship or not. No sex, no romance, and if possible no living together. He wants his cake and eat it too. He is just looking at his options and if you get a high paying job, he may consider long-term plans.
I would tell her, yes. But it depends on your values I guess.
Not everyone dates for fun. Some people, I would hope most, date to find their significant other. Their life partner.
You absolutely need to tell them on your first date. I mean it’s better on both parties as well. Why would you want either person to catch feelings if one of them isn’t willing to do this.
Pick medical school. You will never regret it.
I have an incredibly similar story when I was 16, I feel like I'm reading my own story. I hope OP reads this. He's just going to destroy himself trying to make this work
I think the girl is trying to get the guy to co-sign for her, not actually on-line with her. Which if the dude has any brains at all he won’t do, but who knows.
It's poor time management. He should put his daughter first, but he shouldn't be making plans be can't keep.
It doesn’t matter if you’ve consented to having sex. When you tell someone to stop what they’re doing – you’ve revoked consent. Everything you’ve mentioned above about how he treats you and dismisses what you want out of your sexual experience is a big red flag. He’s not interested in your boundaries. He is interested in getting what he wants.
Confusion and regret??♂️
Grow some balls and divorce her! Ffs
She doesn’t care about social media. I’m a girl, for context.
The simplest piece of advice all men should learn about women is that women will be so desperate for “anything” that they begin to seem like they are asking for “everything.”
She doesn’t feel like you are putting in effort. She doesn’t feel like you are proud of the relationship. She wants you to show how you feel about her because you aren’t showing her enough. It’s more than likely manifesting in this way because she is scrolling through other peoples social medias and seeing how sweet some of the men seem.
Don’t sit her down and explain why you won’t post or why you hate social media. That’ll just be you missing the point of what she’s really asking for, and it sounds condescending.
Go do something for her that you genuinely believe will make her happy and shows how you feel. If you can’t and/or won’t do that, the problem is even more obvious than before.
>>it's something akin to child not eating their vegetables at the dinner table.
Seriously? Very funny
Of course, if she doesn't want to, your third option is to break up for incompatibility or talk to her about an open relationship.
So you’ve been toxic together from jump? Got it
Opinions?
I don’t think there is much to salvage in this situation anymore. It is really sad, but I’ll survive. I’m better off alone than constantly paranoid with a man who doesn’t respect me or himself
I know. I already made the appointment 🙁
You willingly had a child with this person?
Yeah that sucks bro. Well honestly, they both suck, but yours probably sucks more. At least you've got an easy “out” if you decide to go that route.
Oh so your a cheater too, hopefully your husband finds out and dumps you.
OP, have you ever heard her mention you when she is talking to her friends?
As everyone else said, just leave him. Tell him since he can’t take “no” for an answer from you, that you are done since he is going to do other any way. Walk away with decency. It will hurt but not as much of you stay with him and then he goes through with it.
And who knows, this might be the kick in the ass that he needs to realize how serious you are about not wanting him to do this while you are together
Yeah I know you're right, trust me I'm just as confused as you are but I don't entirely know what to fully do other than just ride it out and i'm worried that i'm going to be the one to be the problem
why don't you explain how we all came from nothingness”.
Tell your father there is this thing called “evolution”.
At some point, you have to stand up to your dad and tell him that it's your life and your choice who you date.
This is.not going to get better. You’re going to suffer more. Leave. It’s an unhealthy dynamic.
ITT (very unsurprisingly): people somehow blaming op for setting boundaries and coddling the boyfriend like a baby.
The other post you were a wife cheating on your husband stop wasting people time
What was his reasoning to break up and what was his reasoning to want to get back together? Also did he try to save the relationship or did he just jump ship? And how long after you broke up did he sleep with that other person (how did he know that person?) and how long after that did he came back?
OP, this situation is deeply toxic. I have been in a similar relationship, and without him working on himself it will not get better. It’s not healthy for you, and his violent reactions will only escalate. Please consider choosing your own wellbeing over these unhealthy repeating patterns.
I did get your “black cat, and golden retriever” reference. She was dark, sultry, and mildly indifferent. You were happy, attentive, and playful. The good news, Mr. Retriever, is that there are lots of black cats out there! Go find another one. ?
So she doesn’t want to argue or hear me explain my side but she also doesn’t want me to end the argument just to make her happy she wants me to believe she’s right not just let her have it but she doesn’t want to do any of the talking required to get me to the point where I understand if she is or isn’t.
This is a superb way to breed resentment and ultimately ruin y'all's relationship.
90% of the time after we’ve had some space she realizes she was actually wrong
So she's aware she's wrong 90% of the time, but still doesn't let you tell her your part during arguments. Real healthy.
Tell her to fight fair or shut the fuck up. I can't imagine how annoying it is for you to have to sit through 3 hour fights knowing you're right and she's wrong.
He said anniversaries aren’t important to him not that YOU aren’t important to him. Tell him anniversaries ARE important to you and what you expect next time.
Lol what?
I mean she’s okay lying to you and breaking your boundaries and will only tell you the truth if you drag it out of her and you also still don’t know what she’s actually been doing at these clubs since once again you know she’s lying to you…The reason you’re not over this is because it’s a serious red flag and I don’t think she’s really given you much of a reason to trust her again.
I’d just let her be young, single, and free rather than letting her drag you through this. I don’t think anyone committed to monogamy regularly frequents sex clubs and lies about it. Maliciously or not it seems she’s trying to have the best of both worlds, which ultimately isn’t respectful to you.
I don’t know much of anything about sex clubs but all I’m saying is if someone said they go to the same dance club multiple times I’d assume they’re going there to dance.
Hahahahaha I'm a SAHM who thinks maybe you should talk to actual women.
It really means nothing. I like every single one of my friends posts no matter what it is, some times I don’t even look at the picture before I hit like. You’re overthinking it
Yes, they are BOTH going through it. I wonder how the OP has handled HIS emotional state. Oh WTF am I kidding, he's a guy, he has no feelings…
I’m a fan of sprinkling pringles all over my partner while I eat them off of him.
I’m not sure where you are getting this. I have no problem taking accountability. I would stand in front of her parents and come clean to my mistakes. I fucked up but I have no problem owning up to it.
So is the guy telling me I have issues and that I’m like his ex. But ignore that cuz it doesn’t fit your narrative of me.
So is the guy telling me I have issues and that I’m like his ex. But ignore that cuz it doesn’t fit your narrative of me.
So is the guy telling me I have issues and that I’m like his ex. But ignore that cuz it doesn’t fit your narrative of me.
….why haven’t the two of you just gone to a store together to replace it and have him try them on….? Seems like an aggressively simple fix to this issue. Which proves the issues here are significantly larger than the ring.
I’m with him because we both love each other, we on-line together and other than these stupid fights things are fine . I have a name most people spell wrong but I would think he would fix it .
Updateme!
It's got nothing to do with you. Some people thrive on getting attention outside the relationship. You just happen to be dating one of those people.
Hella creepy psycho vibes but also, kinda weird that he talked that much about an “ex” in the first place.
You're both in the wrong relationship. If she's so religious she's practicing religious abstinence even after having sex, and you sent religious at all, you're incompatible.
Discuss your issues openly and find a way to amicably break up so you can both pursue the relationships you deserve to be in.
This woman is staring down the barrel of 30 and can't spend time in her own company. She also emotionally blackmails you into isolating yourself from friends. Is this the life you want for yourself in ten years? Twenty?
Crushes happen, all the time. The line is though you actively step away and distance your self and do not seek it out. If you feel that he receptive/reciprocating, that my dear is emotional cheating. I get the feel from your post you are flirting really very hot with that line and then its soooo easy to just take that last step where family and love and fidelity and morals are out the window and it all burns down. Is it really worth it?
I think that’s what my bf thinks too, he thinks I texted all of my past lovers. But I truly only want him, it’s not even possible for me to think to be with another guy. I really didn’t think of the consequences of my acts and I guess I’ll have to deal with that forever
As long as she is not violent, I would ignore it. You have been living rent free in her head for five years. It is pitiful that she cannot move on. Stop checking to see who is stalking you and on-line your best life.