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Date: October 9, 2022
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That’s really gross of him. I would feel uncomfortable to be his friend too. This puts you in a very uncomfortable position and you have every right to be upset. This would be grounds for leaving for me if you can.
They don’t, I never said that and you’re the one that chose to reply yet again. Have a nice day ?
Ex. Ex-boyfriend sweetheart.
He doesn't have a thing for strippers like I don't have a thing for tacos. And I have a thing for tacos.
Omg ignore your parents. The gift you got is more than great
You're a fool then. Trust but verify is what you need.
What's the cost on those?
I would leave her alone for now
Also she's acting immature
Don't fall for her tricks
1 get a DNA test, as the dad you have the right to find our, a normal pregnancy women wouldn't block the father of her baby
2 don't sign anything
This includes getting her a loan, signing a house or paying rent for her It will screw u over for years
3 if ur in the US do NOT have your name on the birth certificate as that traps so many men and if it turns out that rhe baby isn't yours… u accept parental right and in some states you could face jail time if u don't pay child support
4 done EVER give her cash
If she needs something, get it for buy never give her cash… u end up as her personal cash cow
5 don't marry her
Dispite what some people think…..marrying the mother of your future child rare goes well now a days
6 have all commutation through text
If she's the petty kind be wary hence text communication, one day it could save your ass
7 if the kid is you're open a trust fund for your kid and don't tell her about it, especially if she's in financial trouble
8 you can physically buy a range of baby products from dummies, tapppies amd loafs I mean loads of baby wipes
9 ask her to send you amazon wish list and see what to can do
10 save money
Again she might be petty snd easily jealous… especially if you get a new GF and stops letting you see the kid… with the money you saved you can lawyer up more easily also if there's a health emergency you can cover the cost with less hardship on yourself
I'm a 32 female and so many people give alot of men crap for not sticking around and I applaud you for wanting to provide
Chose your partners more carefully, use protection and expect at least 18 years of drama
If you can reach out to her parents that you want to support her they might kick her up the ass
Both of you need therapy or something to improve your relationship as being on terrible terms isn't good or heathly
I'm no psychologist but I'm pretty sure actual narcissistic people never see anything wrong with their behaviour.
Therapy and meds help, but also having healthy communication habits and a supportive social network makes a huge difference as well. So first I’d suggest stopping calling it self sabotage. That’s too self critical. You have anxiety and that happens. Youre feelings arent bad or wrong, you just need better skills as to how to respond and process them.
Second, how do you communicate your anxiety, do you accuse your partner based on your anxiety or do you share your feelings in a vulnerable way and ask for reassurance? Three, in therapy have you discussed negative self talk, where it comes from and how to deal with it? Three how does your partner respond to you when you share your anxious feelings?
lol you didn't do fucking housework so she unloaded a loaded weapon inside your house? are you shitting me?
she is absolutely in the wrong.
Fuck that.
She is full of shit if she thinks that she has the right to be violent for not doing fucking chores… and that she's not responsible for damage *SHE* caused by being a dipshit.
Normally I don't want my advice to be this laden with language but holy shit did… why do you let her treat you like that?
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thanks for the advice, I really like this girl and I want to make things work. As for my friend I believe ur right.
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Um, NO.
Don’t pay. Don’t book the room.
And watch him POOF disappear.
This isn’t a relationship. This is an older man using a young woman for sex and getting her to pay for it.
While you’re certainly not insane because everyone feels differently, I‘ve got to say your bf’s take isn’t unusual. All my pets would always have won if I had ever had to pick between them and a partner. I agree with your bf in that a dog is more like a child as in your pets rely on you whereas partners are adults who can take care of themselves.
My dad was telling us about the 2016 shooting of Dallas police officers. The topic came up because my BF said: “Man 2016 was the best time ever, the good music came out in 2016, I miss that summer.”
(changed , in to . and added some capitals for readability.)
The answer still stands: BF could've just ignored it, anmd let the man do his story. Dad wanted a controversial subject, and BF wanted to vent his opinion.
As a dad myself i can understand it: he wants to push a bit to see where BF stands on sensitive subjects. But if so: don't act like a kid, when his view is not yours.
He hates the idea of letting others down or having them be disappointed in him.
I hate people coming to work sick. It’s so awkward avoiding them. I’m not trying to be mean, but his niceness seems to be driven by anxiety and fear of failure rather than care for other people. He shouldn’t be at work sick if he genuinely cares about other people and being anxious about letting people down is a burden he has to handle if he wants to keep people safe.
He hates the idea of letting others down or having them be disappointed in him.
I hate people coming to work sick. It’s so awkward avoiding them. I’m not trying to be mean, but his niceness seems to be driven by anxiety and fear of failure rather than care for other people. He shouldn’t be at work sick if he genuinely cares about other people and being anxious about letting people down is a burden he has to handle if he wants to keep people safe.
Your relationship sucks if her level of attraction to you is dictated by the length of your hair.
And the 20-year lie? How many opportunities did she have over that time to tell OP? Honestly, if I were her, I would have taken it to my grave.
I have plenty of experience with living with poorly trained cats. They can be a terror.
OP his explanation is probably the wrong reason for switching positions. To inform you it’s not what you stated about looking at your face but in fact each position has a different feel and added excitement. This helps eliminate the mechanical boredom that will seep into the intimate part of your life. You should try many things for you both to have a more interesting and enjoyable relationship.
It’s scary to think about, I know, but you’ll be in a better place. My heart goes out to you. What you went through is one of the hardest things, and to have him be so… well, whatever the opposite of supportive is.
Guess I’m not going to pass AP Reddit English ?
On a fetish/kink level: It sounds like she wants/misses a type of DDLG relationship and enjoys degradation or a certain amount of public humiliation.
On a moral level: She’s incredibly self-centered and unempathetic.
My guess would be that this was her first kink relationship/BDSM awakening. She finally found something she really liked sexually or it was the deepest form of intimacy she had experienced up until that point and let that override the immorality of the relationship.
Or possibly she enjoyed the degradation of being a dirty secret/ side piece. There’s a weird compartmentalization that BDSMers have in their lives to separate it from all other vanilla relationships.
There are healthy and more ethical ways to practice BDSM. This scenario was not it.
Life ebbs and flows…..I am 43F and finally felt like I was “winning” at life with my career going well, almost all debts paid off, and enjoying life with my partner when my life got turned upside down in October due to seizures. Am being assessed for Epilepsy and have been off work for almost 4 months. My bank account and hope are both dwindling. However, I will make it through somehow.
Celebrate your gf’s successes and you will have your own to celebrate over time too.
Kinda a weird thing for Sophia to say out of the blue to to her best friends boyfriend?? It's also possible Joe was lying to seem more experienced.
Yes, there is no doubt that the sister would perceive sex differently if she wasn't pushed into it at age of 8.
I'm no psychology expert but there's no way that 8 year old would have sexual desire or would understand sexual desire and that their brain would develop in healthy way when they are forced into it.
So many people on here wanting advice about their SO and racist parents. Why would you ever put your SO in that position?? How fucking selfish.
Oh, so she steered you away from nonmonogamy, because she wanted to secure her situation even while abusing it.
Your friend deserves to know. If you were in her shoes, wouldn't you want to be told the truth?
Plus, maybe you two can work together to make him sweat a little (I'm thinking well-timed phone calls and “accidentally” running into each other in public) Will he learn anything? Doubtful. Is it petty? Absolutely. But a little taste of just desserts might be fun.
Was there at least a doggy bag?
lol
I think you’re disproportionately biased against yourself. What you see in yourself and what this person sees in you may not be the same. Maybe they find you endearing in your own way?
Of course, nothing wrong with being somewhat guarded…
But ultimately, I think it would be a shame if you just automatically discount any time someone is trying to get to know you.
Oh.
Sorry, I’ve got nothing more helpful than my first suggestion, other than never act on these feelings.
He does not make enough to support his dreams of being the family breadwinner. In all honesty, in this economy, neither do you. Tell that man to focus less on what the Internet demands of women, and more on what his own partner wants out of life. Under no circumstances should you quit your job or put your career on hold simply because this man has asked you to. It is an unreasonable ask, and for him to go any further than just asking is crossing a line.
Pay very close attention to how he treats you when you are disagreeing with him. Pay attention to his anger when you are not falling in line. Pay extra attention to the sirens going off in your own mind right now. You are right to feel extremely uncomfortable by his reaction to the situation. Forget having a child with him, I would be thinking about the entire relationship.
There’s nothing you can do to help him, and you can’t change him. He would have to want to do that himself, and after almost 7 years of the same behavior, it seems like he’s settled into a nice comfy routine of being lazy. Don’t waste anymore of your life.
Thank you! He surely is!
He has a porn addiction. No you are not asking for much, you are asking for the basics.
There's nothing wrong with tattoos. I really, really don't like them and they are kind of a turn off, but there are shit load of people that find them sexy. If you want to keep adding more to your collection, I think finding another boyfriend is a must. It would be better for the both of you.
This man criticized your smell. Does he expect vulvas to smell like nothing? Or something floral or some other bs? Vulvas smell like body parts because they are. As long as you are keeping clean and hygienic, what he said was just insulting and ignorant.
Not to mention comparing you with the other women he’s been with. If he likes other women’s vag so much then he can go and have them.
He also wants you to be 100% bare when you have sex?? That’s just completely unrealistic and stupid. Plenty of other men love bushes because they love having sex with the woman. Where’s he getting this 100% bare standard from? Porn? Well is he sporting a 6 pack and ripped body and a huge butt? No? He can fuck right off.
AND he lied to you consistently for YEARS. Marriage with a liar will never end well.
I’m sorry I’m so mad for you. I don’t know if you think this is a dealbreaker, but it will be for me. At least talk to him about all this, stand your ground and be firm. Do not let him manipulate or coerce you into thinking this is okay. Do not let him “cry” in guilt or any of that bs. Good luck