You are in your 30s and she’s just starting out. She likely doesn’t have much money
She’s quite a bit younger than you and you say she’s gorgeous. She likely has a lot of men buzzing around her willing to pay whatever she wants. This may not be sustainable for you
I feel bad for him honestly. He was ranting about how hated he feels and the whole time you wanted to leave and reconsidered marrying him. I think you should reconsider because I don’t think you’re ready to be married to someone. It’s not really fair to compare how people handle depression and if everyone in your life needs to handle things the way you do maybe you should reevaluate your standards. He was upset and loud, that sounds normal to me.
You are in your 30s and she’s just starting out. She likely doesn’t have much money
She’s quite a bit younger than you and you say she’s gorgeous. She likely has a lot of men buzzing around her willing to pay whatever she wants. This may not be sustainable for you
Ironic that he thinks counselling is the end of a marriage when you're literally at the end now.
I feel bad for him honestly. He was ranting about how hated he feels and the whole time you wanted to leave and reconsidered marrying him. I think you should reconsider because I don’t think you’re ready to be married to someone. It’s not really fair to compare how people handle depression and if everyone in your life needs to handle things the way you do maybe you should reevaluate your standards. He was upset and loud, that sounds normal to me.
Hun, you didn’t do anything wrong. You had coffee with a cute dude. Feel zero guilt.