People commenting how this is due to a trauma but I don’t see evidence of OP stating that’s what it is – so I’m going to say yeah, men don’t care how much they gawk or stare and then there are tons of them that do it, so assuming your gf is good looking, or at least considered so by majority of men, it gets very overwhelming to not be able to go anywhere without some f*cking creep staring at you.
Sometimes it happens so damn much to women that it’s easier to go out in scrubs, not put together, no make up, etc bc then you just blend in with the public instead of looking so good you stand out and don’t get left alone.
Call it what you want but it’s like paparazzi without the constant photo taking and replaced by whistles/shouting/comments/winks/staring/etc
Stop f*cking making women feel objectified society
Hi. I’m sober. 23 years. If he’s not an alcoholic, he’s well on his way. He’s putting alcohol before everything. A discussion isn’t going to change this. It will get worse. That’s a guarantee. Best advice? Run. We destroy everything good in our lives. He clearly isn’t even close to admitting that he has a problem so it’s not worth a discussion. Run.
People commenting how this is due to a trauma but I don’t see evidence of OP stating that’s what it is – so I’m going to say yeah, men don’t care how much they gawk or stare and then there are tons of them that do it, so assuming your gf is good looking, or at least considered so by majority of men, it gets very overwhelming to not be able to go anywhere without some f*cking creep staring at you.
Sometimes it happens so damn much to women that it’s easier to go out in scrubs, not put together, no make up, etc bc then you just blend in with the public instead of looking so good you stand out and don’t get left alone.
Call it what you want but it’s like paparazzi without the constant photo taking and replaced by whistles/shouting/comments/winks/staring/etc
Stop f*cking making women feel objectified society
Hi. I’m sober. 23 years. If he’s not an alcoholic, he’s well on his way. He’s putting alcohol before everything. A discussion isn’t going to change this. It will get worse. That’s a guarantee. Best advice? Run. We destroy everything good in our lives. He clearly isn’t even close to admitting that he has a problem so it’s not worth a discussion. Run.