now he wants everything he has ever given me back & wants me to send him money for the things he have paid for in the past because i won’t stay with him.
He can want whatever he wants but that is very different from what he is morally or legally entitled to (which is none of it).
I'd just block him and if you are legitimately concerned for your safety file a restraining order.
Uncontrollable anger isn’t a good sign, but what else did you do to inspire this? Sounds like you’re leaving something out to say the least.
This. My partner was not my type. We’re still together 11 years later (since 19) and he’s the most attractive man I know.
now he wants everything he has ever given me back & wants me to send him money for the things he have paid for in the past because i won’t stay with him.
He can want whatever he wants but that is very different from what he is morally or legally entitled to (which is none of it).
I'd just block him and if you are legitimately concerned for your safety file a restraining order.