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Good luck. My opinion is that abstinence would make things harder in the long run (pun intended). If you think a penis is disgusting now, how might you react on your wedding night? Also, I don't believe porn is a problem unless it interferes with your day to day life.
Bro why? I just want to stop loving her 🙁
You can't tank your life to help her, especially when she doesn't' want help. If she's refusing to climb into the boat, you can't let her drag you into the water.
In theory. People seldom really change, though, in any fundamental way. Trust issues are particularly hard to fix. Obviously, I'm only talking about people who don't trust when they should. Such feelings run deep, and are powerful. Worst of all, the distrust extends to the evidence that reason tries to use to contain the fear. And then, innocence is just inherently hot to prove.
It’s possible she is just protecting her son. There are a whole bunch of possibles – maybe he was molested, maybe she’s in a custody battle, maybe…maybe…. Maybe he died? Don’t push, but if this does bother you, nothing prevents you from continuing to look for other potential matches. She might not be the one.
Boundaries are not about telling someone else what they can or can’t do though. We can’t control other people. All you can do is decide what YOU will do when that boundaries is crossed. You’ve already expressed how you feel so there’s no point in repeating what you want over a d over, that’s just starting an argument! Don’t do that. Either live with it without complaining (and without being upset) or move on, but stop just complaining about the same thing because you cannot make him change.
I've been in this kind of situation, obviously you let it get too far, but I take personal offense at he people calling you names. Fuck them, and they don't know your DH either.
There's no changing the truth. You should tell him because you love him, and if you're not sure what to do, ask him.
I mean if you make the judgment that you can not tell and keep it from ever coming out, ie shut it down with your colleague, is there any way it could come out later? And what would happen then? I think he'd feel way worse, and it would take longer to heal.
The truth will always be that this happened, whether both or only you know. So you have to move past it regardless. Moving past it together i think is a good idea because it keeps the relationship in perspective. If you don't, it will always be a thing that you hid and got away with. That's not healthy. It's something that happened, and you need help to end it. Trust me GET HELP ending it, or it could happen again. Plus, being in therapy and honestly trying to work on it will show him you're serious.
I think there are reasons these “situations” happen, mine was self sabotage. Once I realized it, I saw relationships in a new way.
Judging what actions from others are appropriate might take practice, but you really should get help. The early poster who talked about boundaries and how sometimes you break rules to set them is right. Rules are helpful – play it safe and avoid getting dudes numbers or anything unless it's strictly business, no friendliness and never going out alone with them, even a drink after work.
It's also just respectful to your husband, and if there's any history of cheating, then it's a MUST, cuz he is not gonna trust you for a long time.
Good luck!!
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No, someone said something to me and then deleted it
I think this is fake, but if it's not, then you need a lot of look inward.
Good luck. Quit getting in your own way.
No Has nothing to do with love, love and lust are poles apart
You like him, he likes you, so what are you waiting for? Life is too short, seriously. Would you rather be a bit embarrassed and then know what's up and can move on or carry on like this for another couple of months or longer?
I know it's scary. I felt like I was hyperventilating when I told my fiancé I loved him for the first time and I cried from anxiety when I asked him to marry me. Now I'm getting married and know where I'm at with him. Why wait around for him to maybe make a move when you can go out and get what you want?
To be fair, you lied to her because she made sure you know that she would not accept your honest answer. You lied to maintain peace. And she obviously knew you were lying but she, instead of trying to accept who you are (which is super normal), rather lives in a lie she told herself.
You getting downvoted is so funny. This sub is weird. I do the same thing too.
It is a “better to be safe than sorry” situation. Op should not take it personal.
Fr. My hubby and I have three cats and two small dogs, and while I brought all of them home, he was and is fine with it. He loves them and takes care of them with me (the dogs are usually my responsibility, but ofc he'll walk and feed them, etc while I'm sick or gone). Like, if he didn't want another animal and he put his foot down, fair enough, but OP's bf doesn't even live with her and he said it was fine! Wtf. Find a dude who likes cats and doesn't mind a few of them. They exist.
Divorce him and get alimony.
INFO: is that the extent to which you’ve talked about marriage throughout your 7 years together?
Ya wedding would be getting cancelled, because if your fiance can't set a boundary that no one is allowed to wear a literal clown suit to the wedding, you shouldn't be getting married.
Your friend is right. Op, there’s a reason why there are so many songs written about men who date 18,19 year old girls and how they got traumatized. Do you really want to risk being negatively affected by this?
Keep in mind, your father has more in common with this man than you do.
That's not how it works in the UK.
I didn't know how far along I was due to irregular periods. I got a normal sonagram.
I've also had 2 miscarriages. The first one didn't require medical treatment as it was fairly obviously all gone. Second time I was haemorrhaging and was blue lighted to A+E where I got a vaginal scan.
They gave me an option: miscarry naturally or get a D&C. I got the latter and found out I was correct, I was 6 weeks along. There was no danger I could naturally miscarry due to the blood clots and the aging passing them. When I had the D&C there was nothing but uterus lining. The foetus was flushed down the toilet.
You're talking like scans and miscarriages go a certain textbook way. They don't
Because she’s selfish. That’s literally always the answer to ‘why’ they do it. It doesn’t make sense to you because you aren’t a lying piece of shit like she is.
It's not about you at all. His reaction is entirely about him and how growing up religious has scarred his worldview towards sex and women. I genuinely hope he's able to heal and grow past this, but right now, it means he's not relationship material.
Don’t make your boyfriend the middle man. YOU speak to her. It doesn’t sound as if she’s coming from a bad place! You tell her!
agree, without your own income, you have no power.
She is probably overwhelmed with it all. Maybe if she has an excuse to leave the house, you can help her clean it but ask first because she might not like someone going through her stuff. I'd start with the house because it's probably making her feel crappy and might even prevent her cleaning herself up or depending how bad it is. Please don't be condescending with her though, just keep it light with how you present it and she may or may not be open to it but at least you have tried.
This isn’t real. Please tell me this isn’t real.
You need therapy. What has caused you to accept such a horrible person in your life? You are in a relationship with pure evil. Your personal issues will only get worse as you are exposed to this emotional abuse. Exposing yourself to this kind of person will eventually cause PTSD.
I think if you trust her then all should be fine. People will be unfaithful whether you nag at them or not, in my experience. You can totally ask how things went, that’s fair game. If you smell anything suspicious, that’s another story.
Shan’t.
You have a good head on your shoulder. You care very much about her. Hopefully, she will be willing to go talk to a professional.
Sounds like a bad case of Long Covid but we’re all grasping at straws here, OP. Please update with the diagnosis/condition so we can help.