She has known that for two years now. We weren't ever really 'close' without my intention of dating being there but we definitely have been platonic friends for most of my life honestly. I realize how finding that out could've made her feel but then why is she texting me after all this time?
You’re being taken advantage of. Why is a person who claims to hate kids insisting on keeping the child? This is bizarre. Do you have a job? If you can afford to live! alone I’d really say that sounds better than this straight up exploitation. At least a trial separation. Finances can be unmerged and with some distance may be you’ll come to see this situation for what it is.
You're 19. Not 49.
Accept that the two of you are incompatible and move on.
She has known that for two years now. We weren't ever really 'close' without my intention of dating being there but we definitely have been platonic friends for most of my life honestly. I realize how finding that out could've made her feel but then why is she texting me after all this time?
You’re being taken advantage of. Why is a person who claims to hate kids insisting on keeping the child? This is bizarre. Do you have a job? If you can afford to live! alone I’d really say that sounds better than this straight up exploitation. At least a trial separation. Finances can be unmerged and with some distance may be you’ll come to see this situation for what it is.
While you stay in and take meth “accidentally” ? Even dumber than I thought.