I can see how you might go along that path there is not nearly enough info here for you to know better but just enough to make an inconsiderate reply. Still that being said I only want to control my response not her adultery.
If he is a numbers man, so him the equivalent of your wage for childcare. Line up childcare resource for routine and emergency situations. Start strictly enforcing your self-care time since he illustrated his “numbers” through his $ and time for bowling 30 weeks straight. Review your finances and start to plan a contingency if he is not responding or acknowledging the amount of labor expenses in the household and childcare.
You realise that you both want different things, wish each other well and move on.
I can see how you might go along that path there is not nearly enough info here for you to know better but just enough to make an inconsiderate reply. Still that being said I only want to control my response not her adultery.
If he is a numbers man, so him the equivalent of your wage for childcare. Line up childcare resource for routine and emergency situations. Start strictly enforcing your self-care time since he illustrated his “numbers” through his $ and time for bowling 30 weeks straight. Review your finances and start to plan a contingency if he is not responding or acknowledging the amount of labor expenses in the household and childcare.