Yea so borderline doesn't mean crazy. It actually isn't something well treated by medications although it often is. Most people with BPD on-line healthy, normal lives and you wouldn't always know. You're being a shit person for further stigmatizing a mental illness. They both had unprotected sex with eachother. You suck for this shitty, fake story. Like you couldn't even add months properly. Grow up.
Do some people change their minds? Sure. But most people don’t go from no to yes unless coerced and then there’s often resentment.
That said, you’re only 22. It’s kind of unlikely you’ll end up with this guy long term anyway as people tend to grow and change a lot in their 20’s. So if you want to enjoy what you have now and kick this can down the road, there’s not much harm.
Yea so borderline doesn't mean crazy. It actually isn't something well treated by medications although it often is. Most people with BPD on-line healthy, normal lives and you wouldn't always know. You're being a shit person for further stigmatizing a mental illness. They both had unprotected sex with eachother. You suck for this shitty, fake story. Like you couldn't even add months properly. Grow up.
That a fundamental incompatibility.
Do some people change their minds? Sure. But most people don’t go from no to yes unless coerced and then there’s often resentment.
That said, you’re only 22. It’s kind of unlikely you’ll end up with this guy long term anyway as people tend to grow and change a lot in their 20’s. So if you want to enjoy what you have now and kick this can down the road, there’s not much harm.