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This is verbal abuse normalised as everyday negging.
Take your time to heal. There is no rush, it's only been 6 months. It takes some people a few weeks and others few months/year. Its been a 3 year relationship, of course it will take a bit of a while.
Trust your gut when it’s telling you something isn’t right. Maybe the taste of freedom has allowed you to see a things more clearly, maybe he actually wasn’t a great husband. and actually you don’t want to go back to the life before.
You have the power here. That if you do try to make it work, he can’t move straight back in. He needs to find somewhere else to live! and go to marriage counselling with you. Set new boundaries and new desires about what you want from a marriage.
If he had issues, perhaps listen to them, but don’t let him put all the blame on you, and don’t agree to anything that will make you unhappy, because you’ll just end up resenting him and the marriage will still end.
The marriage before was clearly broken, time to either go with divorce or make a different kind of marriage that will make you both happier. And if you can’t find a way where you both are happy, then you two are not compatible.
I am genuinely surprised by most of the comments here siding with the girlfriend. Maybe it’s because he’s an unreliable narrator or maybe the gf’s feels a type of way because she chose to be with OP at the expense of her relationship with her parents, but it strikes me that EVERY time something isn’t about her, things conveniently goes wrong to try and test OP on whether he will choose her. His birthday surprise party, the day his bff is leaving the country, on a trip to visit his friends… awfully coincidental and manipulative. I call marinara flags. And if a significant other of TWO MONTHS demanded that I cut ties with a best friend of SEVERAL YEARS I’d tell them to get fucked.
OP, there is a reason this woman cannot get along with any of your friends and seemingly nothing you do is good enough to show your devotion to her. It shouldn’t be this hot. At now 8 months in, you should seriously ask yourself is this is what you want to deal with and how you want to feel for the rest of your life.
Wow, what a dad… Sorry, but it is hugely inconsiderate of your boyfriend not to tell you when he will be back when he is using YOUR car!! What if you want to make plans or need to go somewhere? Anyway, it is common courtesy to let the person you live! with know what your plans are. You're not being controlling at all, it's like, maybe you want to spend time with your boyfriend?? Or even crazier, maybe you want to use your own car??
Seriously think you need to address the toxic men in your life.
Steph Curry won his championships only one way…..shooters shoot.
Actually moms have a radar that is extremely accurate. So, there is some other reason she doesnt like him?
Again, he doesnt get to tell you you are over weight when he is more over weight than you are, that is not how it works.
HIS body image issues should not become yours, nor should you let them.
Dudes just communicate differently.
We don't think out loud. We have days-long internal discussions among at least five different aspects of our personality before we make a decision. And then when the decision is made, it is final.
I don't think he's frustrated with you asking these questions; his thought process just moves differently and he's not understanding why you're seeking his input on a decision he himself would have made internally.
Well. You talk with her about it. Not while she's high. You say “hey, I want to talk to you about the other night. It's clear to me that you're hurt by it, and I'd like to talk through that.”
Is she hurt because she feels she isn't enough? Either insecurity and/or upset with herself because she wants to keep you happy and feels she isn't? hurt because you're into something she's not? hurt because it just caught her off guard and she was there?
Does she want you to not use porn? Want you to be more careful about when? etc
We don't know. You need to ask.
Fuck that’s rough dude. I’m sorry. It’ll take a long time to fully accept it and that’s okay. But please understand that if her feelings are gone then the relationship is over. Don’t imprison yourself hoping it’ll change or settle for a loveless/sexless marriage. End it.
Your in for a long path of pain friend. And no, don’t ever convince yourself you deserve it, you don’t. Good luck
No. He doesn’t game whatsoever.
oh come on no one will notice, I'll be cheering for you from here ???
it's a shame these two events are on the same day – if it were me (and I love my crazy sister) I'd try to do both even if it was just popping into the wedding for post ceremony drinks and pictures. but I'd not, under any circumstances, skip my graduation party.
Wait for him of course
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I think you misunderstood my post. I mention grades once, alongside experience. In my country it is very rare to get a full-time job in your field after graduating without some other work experience.
I think my partner is extremely competent & deserving of the job.
My biggest issue with a lot of this is that in one comment, you mentioned post partum. Let me be frank with you. If she has been suffering from post partum depression for what, 12 years or so now? You are just as at fault as she is. Not a single comment mentions any attempt at therapy or counseling. For either of you. Not one of your comments mentions anything she's been able to do for herself to just feel like her again. You stopped dating, and that was one of your biggest mistakes. You are supposed to be her PARTNER. You have made a lot of “I” statements. I don't recall seeing any “we” statements.
Important information is ready popular romance books? What? No!! You do you! I am not an attorney but I deal with dependency cases all day long I am not reading anything heavy either, do what you enjoy and lose the pretensions boyfriend.
Real life is way more complicated than just “cheaters are evil”.
Its a very emotive subject obviously, and many who cheat really suck, but not all.
That being said, she is a liar. She lied to you. If she had been upfront and said she hates her husband and he is neglectful and blah blah maybe there could be justifications. But sounds like she was lying to you as well.
Your entire relationship is based on a lie. You actually do not know this woman, you love an image of her that you know for a fact isn't real.
So step one is time away from her. A few weeks and disgust might start to set in as the burning love can fade a little. You might realise what a huge violation it was to lie to you and make you party to an affair.
That is how I feel exactly, and it’s not like a sudden job loss either it’s just slow at work because of winter and winter happens every year yet he has no plan B or savings…that’s the issue for me. I can’t really see a future with someone who is going to always be financially unstable. Might sounds shallow but finances are #1 reason for divorce so it is something I take into consideration
I think that if we want to keep it fair, we should cohabit as peacefully as we can.
No, this is not a reasonable option.
Here are the options (#3 has proved really good for the kids in a lot of modern divorces):
She and the kid stay, you move out, kid goes back & forth between homes You and the kid stay, she moves out, kid goes back & forth between homes Kid stays in the house. You and she each get an apartment. Instead of the kid going back & forth between homes, you and your ex take turns staying at the house when it's your day for custody, and at your separate apartments when it isn't your day.
Talk to a family/divorce lawyer about what you should and should not do at this stage, to avoid unknowingly surrendering any rights that apply, and discuss the options with your lawyer and with a family therapist, to figure out what works best
why are you giving excuses for him?! MAYBE !? honey go & get it certain so you can move on. Its so unfair to you!!! why are being a doormat & dumb allowing all this?!!
Good question ? found out recently he planned on seeing someone he “cut off” just a week ago so feeling pretty heart broken
Many times I don't even initiate. As for the therapy I'm already searching for a therapist.
Actually, you're in the wrong for staying in that relationship dear.