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Solid advice, I have heard that and have kept an eye out during my outings but often I don’t meet anyone. We live in a weird time where no one gets to know anyone, makes small talk etc.
The damage has been done. You should’ve stopped it when the flirting began. I found myself in the middle of an emotional affair decades before I ever heard the term. Believe me — it hurt my husband just as much as if I had a full-fledged affair.
Watch the show Maid on Netflix and tell me if you want to end up like the main character.
They care about the PARTY, they don't give a shit about you, the HOST. They basically used you.
If you want to try to fix it, you can confront them and tell them you know they invited 50 people you know, so it wasn't a small wedding.
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She lied because she thinks there’s a chance she could be the love of her life. That’s it. No if’s, and’s, or but’s. She had the opportunity to tell her BF the truth when they laid down the law and she purposely didn’t tell him about her history with her BFF. Sure, it’s possible she wanted to keep her friendship, but if it was innocent, it should’ve come up sooner.
Your gut says something is wrong because it is. If you guys break up I’d bet they’d start dating within 6 months.
Source: experience
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I am so sorry your daughter is treating you in such a selfish manner. She has volunteered/voluntold you what she expects of you without considering your needs at all. As a father of four myself, I love my kids but have no interest in being a grandparent that does all this. In fact, I’ve told me wife that I’m looking forward to an empty nest because we will be able to do all the things we’ve had to put on hold since having children. Please stand firm and don’t let your child try and guilt trip you into doing this. You have explained very eloquently your reasons why in this post, other than the part about not really wanting kids in the first place. I’d leave that out. Children do not ask to be born and you made a conscious decision to have them and take care of them, but that is the only burden you should bear and that time is over.
Not sure why “everyone” is in on this. But you've got a fairly big problem on your hands now. It's things like this that highlight the exact reason it's better to know what you really want. I would like to say “oh just forget about it, you'll be fine” unfortunately, that's not easy to do. If you're not comfortable being in a mmf threesome, then say so. It may mean that she doesn't want to do a ffm threesome. Which, IMHO your dating her, so hopefully if she did want that it would just be a bonus, not the whole reason.
Tbh, if I went with a girl I was dating and we ended up a to a dudes house and she had sex with him, I wouldn't get over it either, I doubt that is an easy image to get over. so, you're going to have to decide where you go from here. If you're going to be able to move past or not.
I am suspecting that too.
Have you asked your sister what their future plans are ? Employment, finances, family. Is he loaded or have a trust fund?
I’m assuming he wants the child cause his gf broke up with him and he sees this as an in to get back with her. What kind of person says “if it’s mine I’m attached to it but if not i don’t really care”. He’s not even trying to hide it as an anti abortion thing lmao.
I don’t think it affected them that much tbh, like 10-20 mins
My husband and I have similar communication differences. The bottom line for our relationship was that he decided that non-confrontation isn't something he wanted anymore because he recognized that stewing privately about your issues made for some pretty bad prior relationships.
I also decided that I didn't need to be so confrontational about everything. Sometimes you gotta give someone the benefit of the doubt.
As far as not liking his best female friend, who 100% hated me first, I always encourage him to see her and to have her over. He knows I don't really like her and, honestly, he doesn't like her as much because of how she treated me in the past.
The point is that we both try to compromise. My husband's big thing that made it possible for us to get married was his willingness to meet me in the middle. He used to be a bit of a gas lighter too. I told him how it made me feel and what he was doing and he's done a lot to have more productive arguments with me. Which he used to just shut down completely in the beginning.
My husband also agreed to work more reasonable hours and has been sticking to it.
My point is that the problems and red flags I see aren't the compatibility issues. It's his unwillingness to meet you in the middle on some of these things. The other red flag is refusing to see his friends and then blaming you. But that really depends on how much you're making him feel bad for seeing them, which I don't know if that's going on.
People can compromise these differences. It's a matter of if they want to.
The usual advice is move out as soon as you can, even if you have to take student loans to pay your school expenses.
He definitely took advantage of the situation and honestly would consider it rape, even if he actually didn’t spike your drink. Which at the moment sounds likely, but is speculation.
Even if you seem lucid, he was fully aware you were drunk and could not give consent.
I’m sorry this happened to you. It is not your fault, and you have no reason to feel ashamed or badly about yourself.
not cheating on your spouse and being a nun are kinda two different things.
I like the idea that you take her surname if/when y’all get married.
DO NOT. Celebrating with your colleagues and mentors is SO MUCH BETTER than wasting your time with people who do not love you as much as you deserve. I don’t give a fuck if they’re your family, they’re not acting like it. So until they do, you better start prioritizing yourself. They may come to regret not valuing you when you turn them away for help because you care about them as much as they care about you. Let them.
I saw in your comments you have children. Did they hear him flip out and call you a cunt??
I know I fucked up before and made mistakes but I'm really not sure why is this happening
I also hate the word. I got called a Cis by a couple of trans the other day. They asked me what it was to be a Cis? I then asked them what but was like to be a fairy and queer. Told them if they get to name call me I got to name call them.
Your marriage counselor sounds like a misogynistic piece of shit. If your husband can't be assed to help you, stop doing anything for him. No more lunches, no more dinners cooked for him, no more laundry washed and folded, nothing. No sex from you. No conversation from you. Nada. Stop letting him have everything you're giving.
she's very Christian
And she's fucking her cousin's boyfriend ???
Welcome to the beginning of the end. She's for the streets, or at least is sitting on the porch, longing for the streets. Let it go as soon as possible. She's telegraphing her next move while tacitly bringing you along with her.
Why would you want to be with someone who finds big parts of your life so horrible that you have to hide them?
Better to be with someone that accepts you for who you are, including your past experiences and choices.
We all have a past. I think it’s sad some people refuse to acknowledge that in their partners. It’s both insecure and also delusional.
It’s not just about that. You need to recognize that he made this choice without you. He made the decision without you. He made the plan without you and you were not a factor. He intends to do what he wants regardless. You’ve had your life on hold for 10 years for him, and he’s demonstrating that not only would he not do the same, he feels entitled to changing the agreement on your behalf for both of you. Can you on-line with the resentment this will foster? You are just as important as him, and you’re not the one changing the plan. He wants his cake and to eat it too. His argument about the money doesn’t matter bc he’s not willing to even look. You need to do what’s right for you and take that job and make your own money, you can’t rely on him.
The handbook pdf is possibly available live. I would look there.
If he did that that would have been rape. You've never done it, it takes prepping, and obviously it want something you were asking for. I'd say even that sounds like borderline sexual assault.
Considering he laughed about it and says he doesn't have to ask…. thats a HUGE red flag, beyond just the age gap.
If he will try something like that during sex, there's really no telling where he will draw any line. He obviously doesn't respect you or your boundaries.
Please leave him for your safety! This will get worse as time goes on, and you will feel stuck in an abusive, toxic relationship.
Gentle word of advice: telling someone in a shite situation that you would have left a lone time ago doesn’t help and really just adds to feelings of guilt and shame
Huge logical failing going on
Thank you for your response! Maybe I didn't explain myself correctly. He had the child before we started dating. The girl left him prior to me meeting him. ? What makes you think he cheated?