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I know he's not broke because he worked for a year, with decent pay.
Ok couple of possibilities:
He lied about having a job with decent pay He's making decent pay but has a drug habit to upkeep He's a cheapskate
Regardless, have that conversation. You're only going to feel worse the next time ya'll meet.
My 2yos will only watch TV if I'm right there in the room with them. As soon as I try to get something done in the kitchen, they race to follow me and the meltdowns and fights begin. TV can be helpful with kids but it's not the perfectly engaging babysitter people think it is.
We've been together around 6 months. I was going to wait another month or 6 months depending on what reddit opinions were
Do you need help in getting child support or alimony? Sorry, need some more clarity.
Say goodbye move on and find actual happiness elsewhere.
She's a drip.. Time to hit the road.
That’s a good question for the OP. But also think of how many people use tinder. should any of them trust a person they only met minutes or hours ago?
He wrote you a short story about his friend’s wife dominating and humiliating you…
If you stay in this there will be two clowns. I am so sorry you are dealing with this but wake up ASAP.
? your husband dropped his nose, make sure you dont put it on
You should break up with her so she can find someone else who deserves her.
I think its sweet but also so corny and kinda cringey. Idk if its a red flag but def corny lmao
Instead of respecting that, she followed him and made another request of him instead of acknowledging his emotional need
This !
She doesn't seem to respect her husband or support him. He got a new job that he thinks will be good experience and her reaction is ” but you don't make that much more money “
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I've had cats and dogs and I've never had a cat even a fraction as destructive as some dogs can be. lol
I wouldn't jump right to getting a kitten, but maybe look at the shelter for a calm older cat who needs a home. It's not all that naked to train a cat not to jump on counters or scratch at things they shouldn't.
no i agree
It is childish, I would never date someone even casually who does this type of shit. It sounds like you're obviously uncomfortable with it so just break it off, it will lead to better girls, trust me.
Thank you !
I think we've all agreed that you were speaking about Hitler too friviously, “trolling,” as if the holocaust is a game you can have fun with. She's right. She will likely break up with you soon.
When you say work through it what you’re actually saying is “I want us to learn how not to care about each other as much” You took something that should be an exclusive expression of love between two people and cheapened it into plain sex with no meaning and are now realizing you have the cheaper version of the real thing and so does she. You can’t take glue that strengthens a marriage away and expect that marriage to last. Good luck.
We are finally seeing the fallout of this new puritanism wave thats rampant on social media where this mindset of your friend is generally agreed upon. everyone who doesnt agree is a pedophile, groomer, and other things. They watered down the word pedophile so much noone rlly “looks up” anymore when they see or hear it. The first question is always “ok do you mean a REAL pedophile or do you mean a 24 yr old dating a 21 yr old?”
Its not your job to “fix” her mindset. She got it from tiktok most likely and when shes called out on her bullshit and hypocrisy then she gets angry at you (like you said). Because she got it from tiktok and she spends more time on that then with you its a lost cause imo. She literally said hes a 10/10 then spun it back to you like she wasnt the one saying the same thing (like i said. Hypocrisy)
If i was you i would cut ties because being with her is just damaging for your mental health. You cant recover from sth like that. Being called a pedophile is a serious accusation that shouldnt be thrown around carelessly. Do you really want to be around someone who does that?
Break up with her, you two are not compatible. You shouldn’t be shamed for wanting sex and she should be comfortable saying no. Just break up.
It is incredibly naked to see clearly through depression and anxiety. I don't really feel comfortable talking to friends about this, we have all drifted since college ended. I try to do some self care but sometimes I just need a partner to listen for a few minutes. Like actually listen and not just going through the motions. her favorite response is “I don't know what you want from me, I'm not a trained therapist.” And I understand they are not her problems but I am not asking her to be my therapist. Just to listen for a few minutes ever once in a while. I know she is not perfect and I am not trying to place her on a pedestal. But she is an incredible mother and provides our kids with a good home life. I could not ever see myself finding someone else.
One of the many things her and her fiancé have in common is that they’re both obsessed with the first wife.
OP… if he thinks something is missing, it won't stop with the coworker, he will either continue to fixate on her or find someone else after you move. He is staying with you because it's convenient… or the other possibility is, he does want her more, he's telling you now while you guys are inna transition phase because he does want to be with her, he wants to break it off, but he's making you do the dirty work of calling it off and he's telling you these things because he feels guilty. Either way, it seems like the relationship is dead… how are you supposed to live happily when you know your husband is obsessing over another woman?
Correct. He isn't truly interested. Unless you're in a relationship there's nothing to really call off. He takes forever to even contact you back so let him fall by the wayside and move on.
You have a very good point. I need to think about if it's going to be a constant road block going forward. I do see how “gay” as an umbrella term can be used. I guess I'm just use to associating it to a woman or man being attracted to the same sex exclusively? And it's weird for me to hear coming from my girlfriend. As for the mental health part she has a therapist. Her mother and father have been somewhat s**ty to her, her whole life. And she has a few friends but not many. One true one honestly. Also she's a victim of sexual assault by multiple men so she's trying to work through that. Yeahhh… a lot of stuff going on.
Your parents made their choice.
You have no obligation to include them in your life if they effectively cut you from theirs.
Sounds like one of those things he should have taken to his grave but now that the truth is out you're left with two choices: Be upset about it or take this opportunity to learn how to make the sex better. The thing with sex is that it's 100% communication based. If you're not talking about it then you're not improving. Even if you think you're an expert in bed the sex will stagnate if no one is communicating. Talk about it. Ask him what he liked and how he would like you to do things. That resolves the anxiety. He resolves any hangups and the relationship progresses from there.
go away. and explain to his mom he planed to cheat on you and to use her health as pretext.
go away. and explain to his mom he planed to cheat on you and to use her health as pretext.
My best friend got cheated on by her boyfriend with a girl he met at the park. My aunts husband cheated on her with a guy she met at work. There’s opportunities to cheat all over the place. If you don’t trust her to not cheat on you…again the club isn’t the issue.
Also she’s 21. She’s doing what most people do her age. And she enjoys it.Don’t try and guilt trip her by insinuating there’s anything wrong with her actual character, it’s just something you don’t like. If ya don’t like it…leave.
You went after her dad after listening to gossip thats probably not true.
Next time, go and talk to your gf about what was said. Let her sort out her family and you focus on your relationship with her.
Its her father, not a great idea to pick a fight an unnecessary fight. If you are worried people are calling you names, go for therapy until you dont care what people think. If you treat her lovingly and with respect, fathers often come round. It sounds your reaction to useless gossip was not loving or respectful to your gf.
Wow, you definitely did not word that in a way that would result in productive comments on Reddit.
It is true that being overweight is unhealthy and can affect all aspects of a relationship. However, being embarrassed to be seen out with your partner should not ever enter the conversation – not because it is irrelevant, but because it is hurtful and less important than how you make each other feel. If you are in love, then you won't care how others judge you.
Getting in shape, and taking care of yourself needs to be about how it makes you feel: energetic, alert, pain-free, and happy. These outweigh beauty and social approval by tons
Being a person who gives to others to their own detriment isn’t nice. It just means you people please, have no boundaries and little self worth.
We teach others how to treat us. You have taught him what little to give you. Stand up for yourself!!
Question – have you ever gone on a fishing trip the two of you planned?
I can understand but wanting to have you join guy time, it might not even be about you. They may have a girl in the group that always wants to come, they may use the time to talk about really personal things. Or they may just be sexist idiots.
However, if your bf knows you like fishing and won't even go just the two of you on your own trip then he has a problem with women doing “guy stuff” and he doesn't sound that great.
Kick this man out.
If you aren't ready for that, then at least set down some rules for yourself, starting with, there are no “wife things” that ANYONE is “required” to do.
If he wants a partner who will function like an old school wife, well then he should be an old school husband and financially support you. Oh he doesn't want to do that? Of course he doesn't, but then why would you cook and clean for him?
Please, set some boundaries:
ALL bills need to be split 50/50, if he won't pay them directly, then he needs to give you X at the beginning of each month for internet, electric, and groceries. He has to do 50% of the chores, end of story. If he won't do the dishes, then don't cook for him
You deserve better than he is treating you, not just on Valentine's Day, but every day. So start by being honest and calm with him that he needs to step up and be an equal partner, and no, you are not required to do “wife things” for any man, especially one that isn't pulling his “husband things.”
Did you plan anything for your anniversary? At any point did you tell her that you expected her home to celebrate with you rather than going out with another man.
Her behavior is wrong but you’re so passive and are not setting boundaries or saying what you want. She might have more respect for you if you advocate for what you want and set expectations.
There's still too much baggage here for you two to have a FWB thing right now. She's not comfortable and that is reason enough to stop.
Sorry you won't be getting laid, but sometimes you have to think of other people and not just what your penis wants.
You can’t dictate how he or his family will perceive you but you can alert your family of the reason you ended it
I don’t think he was calling you loose at all! Anatomically it’s ALWAYS gonna feel ‘tighter’ or ‘less tight’ when you switch positions!
She has chosen a way of eating because of ethical reasons, rather than nutritional ones and is judging you on your choices. How we feed our bodies underpins everything.
You’re incompatible. The resentment will build. Sorry, but it’s not that not complicated really.
If you say any of thin a letter, it will feel like rubbing salt in her wounds. The only thing that matters is that you don't want to be with her anymore. If she comes to you asking for clarity, then give it. If you do decide to write a letter, seriously reconsider your approach.
Sorry for nagging ?? but wdym rely on one person? Should i be looking at other men is what youre trying to say?
Just stop having sex
But you encourage and facilitate his over-drinking by mothering him right out of the consequences and discomforts of doing so.
Consequence: passing out on the bathroom floor in a pool of his own vomit. (But you get him all tucked nice and cozy into bed). Consequence: falling asleep fully clothed in uncomfortable jeans (But you undress him like he's a freaking child and make sure he suffers as little discomfort as possible.) I'm gonna go out on a limb here and guess that you also make sure he gets up on time for work in the morning and maybe even make him something to eat or fetch him water and aspirin?
You're doing him a huge disservice by shielding and protecting him from the consequences of his over drinking and you are, in fact, making it possible for him to continue doing it even longer than he might if you weren't making it easy for him. You're actively harming him as much as if you were filling his shot glass and holding it to his lips for him.
So move on with yourself if you don’t like it, you seem to be upset for no reason…
How can I say it any clearer…there is a difference between withholding sex and physically being incapable of performing.
It's not right or wrong.
It'll bother some people but not others. You need to find someone who aligns with your own views.
Ultimately I'd suggest shifting your thinking away from there being a naked moral line on appropriate behaviour
I'm sure you are able to take a step back and recognize there are plenty of people who don't have a problem with it.
You get to define your own boundaries. You can shift away from needing to justify whether your boundaries are right or wrong. They are yours. This is a boundary of yours likely because it does make you feel somewhat insecure or anxious. You don't need to take a step further to get people to agree that it is reasonable. Effective relationships are just about alignment. Don't waste your energy trying to vilify people you don't align with. People are just different.
Don't lump entire groups together based on the words of a minority. I'm poly but the husband is a dumbass for thinking it would be ok just springing this so far into a monogamous relationship. He knew deep down either yeah she would be into it, or it would end horribly. Maybe he didn't thinka bout it at all. You only live once so he isn't wrong for wanting to potentially be poly, but she isn't wrong for her reaction either. Still, you rant about empathy yet you're throwing strays at all poly people, ones you have never even met because of some internet people? Shame on you my dude.
99.9% of this is rage bait, stop falling for it
It sounds like he has a virgin fetish. I'm willing to bet that after having sex for the first time, he would probably lose interest anyway.
Rip the band-aid off now and tell him you're not a virgin and it's weird that he assumed you were. This relationship is doomed either way.
He admitted it through his actions. Words don't mean anything. You've made him comfortable with being a dick to you because you won't leave. It says alot about him but it says 10x more about you.
You live in a very different world than I do if you think that this was even remotely similar to what a creep could do on the streets. Women get hurt, killed, SA, r@ped. Their lives are never the same.
Think about what you're saying. She's putting herself in danger and has shot down every effort he has made to keep her safe because she thinks he's a weakling.
Definitely get tested for STIs.
Quick question, btw. Any idea where coke comes from and how it gets to the UK? If you like feeling guilty, you'll love learning about that
Astronomically bad take in response to OPs post ?
Leave and file for full custody.
Also, never ever date someone right out of a long term relationship.
Creating the group chat and going through the moves of actually doing the bachelorette party for your fiancé and than doing this is them being mean girls. Don’t invite mean girls to your wedding for your fiancé’s sake.