Jesus Christ why the fuck are you putting so much faith into random internet people about major life decisions?! You have no idea who you're taking advice from!
She made the choice to go out, flirt, get “drunk” (who knows how drunk she really was), kiss and have sex with another guy. She cheated plain and simple. Buyers remorse doesn’t excuse the action and trust me when I say you’ll never get over it and it will influence your relationship from this point on.
It hurts, I get it but you’ve got to cut her loose and move on. She made choices that (should) end the relationship; all you gotta do is say the words and move on!
Try showing up to hang with the kids. Not her. And you can interact with her too while you’re there.
Having you present with low expectations may help her decide to stop running away from whatever if that’s what she is doing. Given that she has 3 kids at 23 and the father(s) not in the picture, I suspect she has some problems being in a relationship?
Jesus Christ why the fuck are you putting so much faith into random internet people about major life decisions?! You have no idea who you're taking advice from!
Right, but its not in the post that i saw. I was wondering if it got edited out.
She made the choice to go out, flirt, get “drunk” (who knows how drunk she really was), kiss and have sex with another guy. She cheated plain and simple. Buyers remorse doesn’t excuse the action and trust me when I say you’ll never get over it and it will influence your relationship from this point on.
It hurts, I get it but you’ve got to cut her loose and move on. She made choices that (should) end the relationship; all you gotta do is say the words and move on!
This is heartbreaking.
And… you can’t guarantee anything
Try showing up to hang with the kids. Not her. And you can interact with her too while you’re there.
Having you present with low expectations may help her decide to stop running away from whatever if that’s what she is doing. Given that she has 3 kids at 23 and the father(s) not in the picture, I suspect she has some problems being in a relationship?
Should i try to persuade her to get back together?