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Date: December 29, 2022
He knows you're vulnerable to abuse. You need to leave, or it will only get worse.
Change your number and email.
Get therapy to help find some self worth. Being alone and loving yourself is so much better than living in abuse
❤️thank you
It's really very simple. After you have the baby, you will have NO TIME to build new friendships. You are in an enviable position. I wish I had the option of a familiar town with low cost of living AND built-in mom friends. It's ridiculous to consider anything else. Father needs to take care of nesting mother and baby's needs before he takes care of his own mother's emotional wants.
I am curious, which IUD were you using?
Yes. Next.
he’s also mean to me he calls me names and he puts me down
This is a way more important issue than the sex (though that is also a major issue). What you're describing is emotional abuse.
There's a reason he got with a 19/20-year-old in his 30s. He was banking on your lack of experience to mold your understanding of what's normal in a relationship. Name-calling and screaming are not normal or healthy.
of course every girl I talk to says leave him but I want to fix it
Why? If everyone is telling you to leave, why are you so determined to fix it? What are you getting out of this relationship that's positive?
My parents (now divorced)had a similar issue. My mom became a SAHM and my dad conpletely resented her for it to the point that he complained about it for years after the divorce. He said he felt stressed that all of the pressure was on him to support the family financially and he wanted her to at least have a part time job (which she never got). I wonder if your husband has ever expressed to you a similar sentiment. When it was discussed, did he seem on board? Did he agree or did you tell him you weren’t going to work anymore? It wouldn’t be ok for him to say that about you and especially not behind your back to your son, but it’s possible he has always resented the fact that he married a woman with a successful and nice paying career and she put the burden of finances on him. I think there’s more at play here and it’s worth an honest conversation.
I also think there are a lot of men who don’t want SAHM wives and they don’t express that until after their wife has left her job. Its his duty to express his feelings, but he may not agree with this lifestyle.
it doesnt even make sense either ?
Don't consider it but divorce her!
Call her bluff and leave, but call a divorce lawyer the moment you get to wherever you are staying. Set up a bank account in your name only and have your work start putting your pay check in there. If things work out you can always change the bank situation. But if she's asked you to leave then leave. See how it feels to on-line on your own. A lawyer will help you navigate each of the steps.
I’d bet that she feels guilty over what she did to you, and you hanging out with her again would let her believe that what she did wasn’t that bad. You don’t need to make her feel better about her shitty, backstabbing self. She and the “friends” who went along with her BS can get bent.
I didn’t mention but her ex boyfriend worked at McDonald’s and was very mean to her so she probably has a naked time forgetting
This is absolutely not any excuse. You don't go around being abusive to any service waiter/waitress etc just because “once upon a time I knew someone who worked at McDonalds, so all of them are scum” unless you have an IQ equal to how many fingers you have.
One brought her food out and it was cold and she slammed it on the ground so hard everyone looked at us and she yelled “UGH you idiots can’t do anything right”.
It should go without saying that the servers aren't responsible for actually cooking or preparing the food – one has to wonder if the reason isn't because all the local places know her and deliberately do it out of spite at this point!
Even tonight (the reason I’m making this post) she ordered a bunch of food from doordash and put it on a fake card I believe and just gave them the wrong address to a sketchy part of town just to get them lost while she’s cackling
I mean, beyond this being (I'm pretty damn sure) Illegal, it's callous behaviour which I don't even understand why you're tolerating over and over again?
The way she would make me wood and help in the game showed she was a very loving and caring person
This has to be the most arbitrary way of deciding someone is “good”. It's like saying a guy in a sketchy unmarked van with a balaclava handing out sweets is being kind.
Look, fact is this girl is horrible. Just because she's nice to you she clearly isn't to other people.
It doesn't matter if they're strangers on a street, or those providing you with a service – you don't just treat people like that with zero courtesy, not being polite and shouting etc.
If I were you, I'd be giving a very hard break on this boundary and make it clear to her – you either stop this childish behaviour, or we're done.
Shouldn't need further advice or hear it off more people when you already know yourself it's unacceptable – but if you needed that validation, well you've now got it.
Yes, I agree. Brain says it's not cheating, my heart says the opposite. But I found that very bad from him, cause he said he was sure.
No i fully agree but we're talking about unresolved trauma on top nof assholery. The trauma needs addressed.
That’s a whole separate issue in itself, I was just focusing on the long lost innocent child part of it, but yeah, you have a point.
He has 3 little kids but starts juice? Why?
I assume he recently heard a horror story of a woman using the contents to impregnate herself against her partner's wishes and he got a bit paranoid
As a guy, first thing that came to mind is that he just doesn't want to leave it in your bin out of respect for you because it's gross. His cum, his trash to deal with.
block her before she can message or call. both of you.
If your best friend/sister came to you with this situation, describing the guy this way and how he treats her what would you say?
Do him a favor and end the relationship.
It’s your rhetoric that led to a teenage girl being murdered this month.
You kinda sound like a frigid asshole
For starters yes its very difficult. Nobody likes being controlled. A lot of people will make you try to feel dumb/stupid for letting people “control” you. I don’t think reality is ever that simple. You are the only one with enough context to determine your situation.
The rest of the sub may disagree, thankfully the rest of the sub don’t have to deal with the repercussions, and my girlfriend (to my knowledge) finds our arrangements agreeable. A good indicator for me personally of control vs sacrifice is wether or not the other person understands that you are giving something up.
For instance I acknowledge that my girlfriend has given up a portion of her liberty in clothing for me. She acknowledges that I restrict some of my behavior around my guy friends for her. There is nothing inherently wrong with what we want to do.
An example of control would be closer to if i were to shame her for scandalous clothing. Something like saying “committed people don’t do things like that” and if she were to tell me “it’s weird and gross to do stuff like that with your friends”.
In the second scenario the controller is using some tactic to force the other persons hand rather than accepting who their S/O is but at the same time standing their own ground on what they expect in a relationship.
Also, I’m just a guy on the internet. I cannot emphasize enough that the right call is the call you make. It’s your life so you should do what is in line with the person you want to be, not what some internet strangers with no stake in you tell you to be.
Hope this was helpful!
I see everyone saying get a lawyer. But where would she have the money for this? I take it everything is his and his accounts. Marriage or not, it doesn’t sound like she has access to it.
perhaps this woman is trying to split them up by making some false messages lol
I have very little savings so I can’t move out because it’s too expensive. I’m terms of peace I don’t think there is anything left to save. It’s almost like I committed a massive unforgivable sin. My whole family will just take their side. I know my options are incredibly limited. I just thought if a few people looked at it from a different perspective they could offer a solution.
How long were they friends before you met/started dating him?
Sounds like a tiring person to be with let alone marry. Conservative Christian does not sound like a fun time
Op I didn’t your story but I’ll say run and don’t look back
He wants his cake and to eat it too
You got this!! Hope it is easier than a huge mess!
No, but you said poly is stupid PERIOD. I agree in this situation (raising poly in a settled, monogamous relationship), but I have known poly relationships that worked out.
Better be petty than a cheater. Block her and move on.
my family lives several hrs away and i can’t really miss too much work, both friends who on-line nearby are on vacation for 2wks (spring break) and i have 3 cats to take care of
Thank you for your advice. I appreciate hearing this from an outside perspective.
Women should refuse to have sex with men who refuse to vote for pro choice politicians. It’s about basic respect for women’s autonomy. Enough. He didn’t get a job. That sucks. But he’s going to sit there and act like our lives aren’t on the line?
No, but do you really think that I’ll take advice from this site seriously?
Your relationship moved way too fast. It majorly sucks that she got you to move in with her and is already going to move away. I find that HIGHLY inconsiderate behaviour for her to agree for you to do that and still consider NYU. If NYU was a consideration, she should have communicated that and waited until after hearing back to have you move in or not. Are you sure she’s the right person for you???
We don’t know her so we can’t answer that. Just like your own personality can’t be applied to every man, neither can hers. We’re all different. Block her and let it go.
Marriage doesn’t stop people from abandoning their families…
Are there guys on your girls trip? Because there are in OP’s. ?♂️
Okay but like even if someone is decent, why would you accept not having access to your money?
Throwing yourself a pity party doesn't help your partner regain their trust in you – stopping doing the thing that makes you untrustworthy does.
Stop lying to your partner.
majority of the men i’ve dated have also had this mindset. it’s so bizarre.
I tried my best to keep up with him, but most of the time I wasn‘t able to do much, since I had no energy or was in pain most of the time. All I could offer him was love, loyalty and companionship. During covid he was forced to on-line the sedentary lifestyle I am forced to on-line anyway apart from a pandemic. He would tell me that I give him love and that‘s more than enough. When covid restriction got lifted and he started to be very outgoing again, I couldn‘t keep up and maybe he realized that he needs more than just love after all. It hurts to think that he broke up with me in the same time period covid died down. I can‘t help but feel as though he just used me as a distraction to make the pandemic less lonely, which just hurts even worse, as I already feel myself that I have a sad life, since I rarely have the energy to do the things I would like to do. Under normal circumstances I would be a very active and social person, my chronic illness simply forbids it. He assured me my illness had nothing to do with him breaking up, but I think he just didn‘t want to rub salt in my wound further. He knows the pain I experience, I cried in his arms about it many times. I do think he loved me, but in the end I guess he realized that he would rather have an outgoing girlfriend than a girlfriend who can‘t keep up and has to be left at home when he goes out; he admitted before that it tends to make him feel guilty leaving me alone. I tried my best to acompany him whenever I could; a lot of times I couldn‘t or had to leave earlier to go home as I felt too unwell, though.
She’s not that naive, she’s just pretending to be
Well to be honest I already feel bitter as he was meant to come and see me in the country I was living (we were LD) but he decided to do this again, meaning it might of been a year until we saw each other again. But that is a whole other issue that isn’t really an issue any more as I am home now.
But this place in Asia is somewhere I’ve always wanted to go, I genuinely would feel like being the tag along with his friends would change the whole holiday for me, so I would rather go again, with someone else.
It’s the ‘someone else’ bit I’m wondering is unreasonable
The next time that she sees the doctor you need to go with her & tell the doctor about her PPD. Tell the doctor that you think she’s still suffering from it & needs help.
Right? ? mean while I also know people who can sleep with someone with the beginning letter of the Alphabet and be completely fine.