OP try cuddling the other way for a while. You be the big spoon and let him lie on your arm. Not only will you get an idea of how long it takes for your arm to get sore, but you’ll also understand why he’d sacrifice his arm for the cuddles 🙂 Then you could always just keep swapping round when the others arm gets sore ¯\(ツ)/¯
Not a single line you wrote makes me think she respects you or your relationship. She’s mislead or lied to you about her actions with this guy. Going away without you is just horrid. What was her excuse?
I’m sure others will say the same. Probably time to give up on her. She doesn’t want to save the relationship.
You need a therapist, not sex.
OP try cuddling the other way for a while. You be the big spoon and let him lie on your arm. Not only will you get an idea of how long it takes for your arm to get sore, but you’ll also understand why he’d sacrifice his arm for the cuddles 🙂 Then you could always just keep swapping round when the others arm gets sore ¯\(ツ)/¯
Not a single line you wrote makes me think she respects you or your relationship. She’s mislead or lied to you about her actions with this guy. Going away without you is just horrid. What was her excuse?
I’m sure others will say the same. Probably time to give up on her. She doesn’t want to save the relationship.