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My thoughts – girls with kids are rough. No disrespect to my single mom friends, but once you meet the kids, the breakup becomes 2x+ harder. Because once you meet the kids they might vibe with you and then you’re not just breaking up with mom… you’re breaking up with her and the kids.
Usually as a rule, I won’t date girls with kids as a result (the above mentioned reason plus I’ll want to have kids with someone and if she’s already done it she’s less likely to do it with me).
If going out with a girl with kids, I normally set a nude ‘no contact with the kids’ rule during the dating phase, which if we enter long-term relationship phase I’ll remove.
But if they ever try to start shit in front of the kids at that point, I’m out. Kids deserve the best we can give them. And if anyone injects unnecessary negativity into their lives, I’m done.
Wellll expecting her to still just up and leave because that's what you said months before the baby was born, and being all surprised that a 4-month postpartum woman is having complicated feelings about her baby is kind of treating her like soulless breeding stock. People can change their minds about things especially when NEWBORN BABIES are involved.
I’ve been Emma. When I was in prime being-creeped-on age of my late teens/early 20s, I would often find that adult lesbians were way more aggressive about it than men of the same age, probably because being the same gender meant I was less on my guard against it, and they didn’t see it as predatory in the same way. I have a distinct memory of a certain woman 15-20 years my senior burying her face in my neck and kissing me on my collarbone, at my workplace. (I worked in a queer-friendly space with a lot of lesbian clientele.)
Did I feel in danger the same way I would have if it were a man? No, not really. Was I creeped out and unsure how to assert my boundaries? Absolutely.
Your wife needs to cut contact with Emma now. I don’t care if she can act appropriately at this point, Emma needs the boundaries that she herself doesn’t know how to set, and it’s your job as the adults to do it for her. Emma and your wife should have no further 1-1 contact. She also needs to drop Emma from conversation. It’s not your job to validate your wife’s feelings about her crush on someone else!
As for your relationship with your wife — honestly, its the same situation as if your wife were a 32 year old man trying, not too subtly, to flirt with a 17-20 year old girl. The gender doesn’t impact the fidelity question here, and how you want to deal with that is very personal.
My thoughts – girls with kids are rough. No disrespect to my single mom friends, but once you meet the kids, the breakup becomes 2x+ harder. Because once you meet the kids they might vibe with you and then you’re not just breaking up with mom… you’re breaking up with her and the kids.
Usually as a rule, I won’t date girls with kids as a result (the above mentioned reason plus I’ll want to have kids with someone and if she’s already done it she’s less likely to do it with me).
If going out with a girl with kids, I normally set a nude ‘no contact with the kids’ rule during the dating phase, which if we enter long-term relationship phase I’ll remove.
But if they ever try to start shit in front of the kids at that point, I’m out. Kids deserve the best we can give them. And if anyone injects unnecessary negativity into their lives, I’m done.
At least she told you. You'd have never known otherwise. If you can handle it and love her, only you can make the decision.
Dawg what the actual fuck “breeding sow”?
Wellll expecting her to still just up and leave because that's what you said months before the baby was born, and being all surprised that a 4-month postpartum woman is having complicated feelings about her baby is kind of treating her like soulless breeding stock. People can change their minds about things especially when NEWBORN BABIES are involved.
I’ve been Emma. When I was in prime being-creeped-on age of my late teens/early 20s, I would often find that adult lesbians were way more aggressive about it than men of the same age, probably because being the same gender meant I was less on my guard against it, and they didn’t see it as predatory in the same way. I have a distinct memory of a certain woman 15-20 years my senior burying her face in my neck and kissing me on my collarbone, at my workplace. (I worked in a queer-friendly space with a lot of lesbian clientele.)
Did I feel in danger the same way I would have if it were a man? No, not really. Was I creeped out and unsure how to assert my boundaries? Absolutely.
Your wife needs to cut contact with Emma now. I don’t care if she can act appropriately at this point, Emma needs the boundaries that she herself doesn’t know how to set, and it’s your job as the adults to do it for her. Emma and your wife should have no further 1-1 contact. She also needs to drop Emma from conversation. It’s not your job to validate your wife’s feelings about her crush on someone else!
As for your relationship with your wife — honestly, its the same situation as if your wife were a 32 year old man trying, not too subtly, to flirt with a 17-20 year old girl. The gender doesn’t impact the fidelity question here, and how you want to deal with that is very personal.