It's a new relationship you don't actually know anything about him.
One thing I'll say about abusive people is they care a lot about how other people view them. My abuser was perfect if you weren't dating him, I was trying to figure out if it's another way to control me or if it was just the typical I need everyone to admire how awesome I am.
I'm older and wiser now, if I went through what you did I'd end it. Decent men don't speak to women like that.
She is judging you by HER low standards.
It's a new relationship you don't actually know anything about him.
One thing I'll say about abusive people is they care a lot about how other people view them. My abuser was perfect if you weren't dating him, I was trying to figure out if it's another way to control me or if it was just the typical I need everyone to admire how awesome I am.
I'm older and wiser now, if I went through what you did I'd end it. Decent men don't speak to women like that.
If they're being mean whilst drunk, believe them.