I deleted tinder within a couple of days of talking to my now partner, before we had even gone on a date.
Dating apps are dumpster fires and I hate everything about them. When I stumbled across a person whose company I enjoyed, I deleted tinder because my energy and time was better served thinking through this new potential relationship. If we hadn’t worked out, I’d have redownloaded, no big deal.
I would quit drinking and have some major heart to heart conversations with him. Maybe do some couple therapy to help get his trust back in you. But yeah definitely stop drinking. I would never touch alcohol again if I ended up doing that to my wife.
He has repeatedly lied. Not a good basis for a relationship. You have every reason to walk away if you choose to.
If by some chance you want to work it out, sit him down and tell him he has one chance to come clean and tell you everything that’s going on between him and this girl. If you think he’s still lying you’re walking. If you later find out he lied or has lied again you’re walking. You have to carry out your threat if he doesn’t come clean.
I think your anger is misplaced. He is not saying anything to her to make her stop calling him those names. She can do not do as much as he allows. He is liking the attention. This is a developing emotional affair.
I wouldn't meet that person even if he claimed it wouldn't be a problem. the fact that he asked alone is a big ? , and he's obviously going to push for this and similar things in the future
It sounds like she is making the boundary clear now. They both went a whole 5 years without addressing while living together the whole time. So he must have somehow kept it pretty secretive himself.
I just don't know how she couldn't have known. I have discovered my partners porn preferences way early on in relationships lol so there was always an opportunity for me to establish those boundaries. Weird to just never talk about it.
Take anything of value to a safe place, your parents house or the home of a friend.
I deleted tinder within a couple of days of talking to my now partner, before we had even gone on a date.
Dating apps are dumpster fires and I hate everything about them. When I stumbled across a person whose company I enjoyed, I deleted tinder because my energy and time was better served thinking through this new potential relationship. If we hadn’t worked out, I’d have redownloaded, no big deal.
I would quit drinking and have some major heart to heart conversations with him. Maybe do some couple therapy to help get his trust back in you. But yeah definitely stop drinking. I would never touch alcohol again if I ended up doing that to my wife.
He has repeatedly lied. Not a good basis for a relationship. You have every reason to walk away if you choose to.
If by some chance you want to work it out, sit him down and tell him he has one chance to come clean and tell you everything that’s going on between him and this girl. If you think he’s still lying you’re walking. If you later find out he lied or has lied again you’re walking. You have to carry out your threat if he doesn’t come clean.
Good luck.
Hey if your first thought when someone says “I bet he fucked his sister” is “yeah he would do that”, you should probably break up just on principle.
“We both agreed any infidelity from one another would be a deal breaker.”
So, why haven’t you broken up with him?
I think your anger is misplaced. He is not saying anything to her to make her stop calling him those names. She can do not do as much as he allows. He is liking the attention. This is a developing emotional affair.
I wouldn't meet that person even if he claimed it wouldn't be a problem. the fact that he asked alone is a big ? , and he's obviously going to push for this and similar things in the future
“Top 43” Oddly specific.
Adam and Eve (live! store) does not sell green pills so you need to ask her when she wakes up.
It sounds like she is making the boundary clear now. They both went a whole 5 years without addressing while living together the whole time. So he must have somehow kept it pretty secretive himself.
I just don't know how she couldn't have known. I have discovered my partners porn preferences way early on in relationships lol so there was always an opportunity for me to establish those boundaries. Weird to just never talk about it.