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I feel like thats a simple task, just avoid talking about living together? Like even “moving to the new place” mention it and dont bring it up again.
You guys need to get into counselling. Everyone will give an opinion but this is something you need to work through with a qualified professional
Only jokingly. She is like rail thin.
I'm not sure what is going on in her day to day life but she might be busy. Between work and new friends she could have a pretty tight schedule. I recommend giving her grace about when she calls back.
When I was your age, my long-term friends and I were growing distance from another. It was a natural part of growing up to let us grow into who we are today. When our lives became more settled, we grew closer again. If she is a distant now it doesn't mean that it'll always be that way.
Don’t wait for him. Seriously.
He needs time before he’s ready for a relationship, and you don’t. That’s okay. You both have your needs and wants right now and they don’t overlap.
Down the road, maybe it will work out that you’ll end up back together. Maybe it won’t…no one knows. But you’re going to regret the hell out of it in a few years if you hold back your own progress while you sit there waiting for him and thinking about him.
If it’s meant to be, it’ll happen, but keep your life moving forward.
our love
NoBanana, there’s your mistake. It’s one-sided love. Sorry but, he doesn’t love you as much as you love him. If he did – he WOULD be taking you out to dinner / lunch, and getting you gifts. Because that’s what people DO when they’re in love. He’s SHOWING you what he thinks of you – NOTHING MUCH. Don’t fall for this ‘our lOvE lanGuaGeS are diFFerenT’ malarkey. The fact that he’s NOT putting in effort is SHOWING YOU. It’s one-sided love.
And, spending $600 when you were only together for a short time, it’s excessive. He knew he was on to a sucker. 10 yrs older than you – that’s WHY these older dudes go for younger girls, they can string them along, hoodwink them, get something for nothing. Sorry but, he’s not worth wasting your time over. You’re gonna kick yourself later that you wasted all this time, effort, and money on him. The humiliation will simply get worse. Wake up & smell the coffee, banana! * hugs *
It is a big deal
THIS, OP!
My husband and I both have PTSD. I read this post to him and he agrees, mental anguish is not an excuse to use your spouse. I mean, OP even mentioned her mom partially supporting her only because she is too old to do it fully. OP is a child!
You cannot help someone who doesn't want to help themselves.
Sounds very immoral to me imo.
OP is in burning house complaining about the flickering lights in the hallway
It’s high risk because of the man being tested isn’t the father, he could attack and hurt/kill the pregnant woman. That’s the high risk the person you replied to was talking about.
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How was I being controlling? She asked me to move with her and to get a place. She stated that she wanted us to be committed to each other but not date. We talked all day and she talked about our future. I’m aware that I should’ve set firm boundaries in place and that it sounds pretty stupid now. I’m not sure what I was thinking
You've listed zero redeeming qualities in this man. He's financially abusing you. He doesn't help around the house. He probably doesn't parent your kid as he's too busy playing games. He neglects his animals. Yells at you. You are doing your child no favors here. You're teaching them that a shit relationship is ok to stay in for what? Religion? How fucking stupid. Life is way too short and your life sounds godawful
Desert island, wud u bring a man or a woman?
Joking is one thing, if its become a constant and it bothers you then it should be stopped. Do you on-line together?
Maybe if you stopped getting angry and crying he would respond better. Your 18 years old and have a medical condition that makes it hot to do chores… and then when he doesnt do them you get angry and cry? Hate to break it to you but this dudes going to leave you once he realizes that he can go somewhere else and not deal with your pitty party.
Your boyfriend doesnt have to listen to you. Your both still children. Learn to communicate better and come to an agreement instead of throwing your fit till he just agrees with you to get you to shut up.
Men are simple. You cry – we tell you what you want to hear and then go about our business. You want help with something? You first try – then ask for assistance. We have no problem stepping in and helping – but its annoying as all hell when your whole existence is to ask us to do things because you “cant” or “dont want to”.
From reading your post – i made a lot of assumptions about you. And if i was a betting man – id put my life savings on it that 90% of them were right.
Advice – stop trying to control him and learn to work WITH him.
Maybe if you stopped getting angry and crying he would respond better. Your 18 years old and have a medical condition that makes it hot to do chores… and then when he doesnt do them you get angry and cry? Hate to break it to you but this dudes going to leave you once he realizes that he can go somewhere else and not deal with your pitty party.
Your boyfriend doesnt have to listen to you. Your both still children. Learn to communicate better and come to an agreement instead of throwing your fit till he just agrees with you to get you to shut up.
Men are simple. You cry – we tell you what you want to hear and then go about our business. You want help with something? You first try – then ask for assistance. We have no problem stepping in and helping – but its annoying as all hell when your whole existence is to ask us to do things because you “cant” or “dont want to”.
From reading your post – i made a lot of assumptions about you. And if i was a betting man – id put my life savings on it that 90% of them were right.
Advice – stop trying to control him and learn to work WITH him.
Thanks for your sincere reply
There are many many incredible women in the world, and I suggest you get to know a few while you are young. Can I give you more advice? Get game. Learn how to talk to women and be attractive to them. Got to the gym if you need to. Read some books if you need to. Go on some interesting adventures so that you have interesting stories to tell. Do dope things and dope girls will find you attractive.
I don’t know how long it was going on for. I just happened to come around the corner to witness this. I had left the room to go to the restroom. I quickly turned around and went the other way so nobody knew I had witnessed this because it was just weird to me.
She has issues.
Its more of a cultural thing. Like an old schools courtship method. Its not mandatory but its a way of showing respect to your partner's family. He's aware of my family background and my relationship towards them. And yep, he have met my siblings and they are cool with him, especially with my brother since they're both gamers. If it didn't work out with the family, then he gave it a shot, but he says he's still willing to continue the relationship with me. Im just concern this might damage some relationship with my parents.
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Hire a Prívate Investigador, and don't confront your wife or the other guy, don't give them reasons to up their guard, id Say, hire the PI and fake a one week trip, be ready For the worst and to file asap
Super fucking sketchy holy shit I’d be in shambles
I don’t see how kinky sex and sex for intimate connection are mutually exclusive. Many couples incorporate kink into their sex life and it’s a part of the way they connect.
And, for the record, I have put a lot of work into finding ways to give my fiancé pleasure, and we do not finish until she orgasms – I’m not sure where you’re getting that this is only for my pleasure, but that is an unwarranted assumption.
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This is exactly it. She's a drama queen, and a bit of an emotional vampire.
So when she starts talking about something bad happening to her, ask her if she wants anything from you. She will likely say no. Then take EVERYTHING she says about the situation and divide it by 2? or 3 or 10? You know your wife, so you know the denominator.
If her drama is boring you, tell her that you are starting to be drained by all of this, so perhaps she can limit her outbursts/emotional dumping to once a week, and she can tell you all the times she's been a victim for that week.
I don’t really feel like disclosing in here
Understandable.
All the red flags and you're still with him
This isn’t about you. I feel sad for the father and the 6 year old. 🙁
I think it depends on the method of shaving (I.w how close of a shave it is) and how quickly your partner’s hair grows. I’ve noticed that I start getting irritation I can’t ignore at day 3 post shave. Then it’s like having needles poke into my skin and I’d develop cystic acne which I never had before in my life. It was bizarre and extremely distressing, but thankfully now all it takes is a “time to shave” and problem resolved!
You get ghosted without explanation and you still “like” this guy? He’s a dick. And he’s screwing with you.
Why on earth are you together? This doesn’t seem like a very compatible relationship and you seem like you’re trying to change him. Changing someone NEVER works and at least one of you will resent it eventually. This issue is more your expectations than his behavior. It sounds like chill / low key is just who he is. If you want to explore and be active – go explore and be active and/or find someone (even a friend) with similar interests.
It may not be a universal thing but it can’t hurt to ask!
I just went venue shopping today and that was an option with our venue. The fees were broken out in increments of the total value of the contract.
20%
30%
40%
10%
If we had to cancel for any reason the funds would be transferable to a future event at that venue. Only the 40% would be refundable in a force majeure I believe.
if he would’ve successfully gotten her number, this would’ve been a whole other story overall.
You are seriously coming to so many conclusions that weren't even insinuated in the post at all in the first place.
Okay, say he got her number. They could have texted 5 times and then ghosted each other. Now what? They could have had a single date and it sucked so badly she pretends to get an emergency call and leaves. Now what? And so on and so forth.
It. Didn't. Happen. He didn't even get her number. That shows how much compatibility they really had: literally none at all.
Literally. None. At. All. That is reality. That's what really happened. Not a what-if. Not a could-have-been. You want to give up reality for the sake of a could-have-been. That does not make sense.
a huge reason she valued their relationship so much and felt so special to him was because she believed he was the first man to not even consider her sister when it came down to the two of them, the first man to actively pursue her and not even be interested in looking in her sister’s direction, for the first time not making her feel inferior of the two
So does she actually like the boyfriend at all or does she just like being first pick?
Because if she only likes that she was first pick, and that is literally the only reason she's giving him the time of day, then she should break up with that guy, he doesn't deserve that.
it isn’t bizarre for her to feel differently after learning this
Never said she shouldn't feel what she feels. What matters is the actions you take because of those feelings.
Letting those feelings invalidate all of her other feelings (y'know, of being happy, safe, loved, like never before, OP's words) and act like all those other feelings just go 'poof' cause this new one came along, isn't rational.
he is, in fact, just like every other man she’s known.
Is he? Really? Every other man she's known has made her happy, safe, loved, like never before?
Like for real, if their entire relationship is “you picked me first” that's very shallow and narcissistic of her. Unlike you, I'm giving OP the benefit of the doubt that although she feels upset by this, that it's not her only feeling about the situation.
Please rehome the animals. I don’t frankly give a shit about your living status whilst your family is actively abusing several animals and have killed several others.
If my partner allowed someone of the opposite sex (or the same sex, if that was their thing) to spend the night at their house alone, I'd dump them on the spot, especially if it was with someone who clearly is trying to get in the way of your relationship. That's so disrespectful to you directly, and your relationship it's crazy. Her drunkenness is a moot point: Uber is a thing. Let her have him. Sounds like they deserve each other.
Exactly. We don’t get to harm animals just because we selfishly want them around sometimes for our own entertainment. Just because you didn’t bring an animal or a child into the world doesn’t absolve you from responsibility to step in and rescue them from abuse or neglect. It’s our moral responsibility to care for those that we witness suffering, and have no voice of their own.
Exactly. We don’t get to harm animals just because we selfishly want them around sometimes for our own entertainment. Just because you didn’t bring an animal or a child into the world doesn’t absolve you from responsibility to step in and rescue them from abuse or neglect. It’s our moral responsibility to care for those that we witness suffering, and have no voice of their own.
It’s one thing to say “I’m not comfortable with XYZ”, it’s another to say “XYZ is childish/not important/unrealistic”. The former is simply a difference in preference, the latter is a judgement. I think you feel rejected and judged because, in these instances at least, you ARE being rejected and judged by him. He sees the ways you express and wish to receive love and he thinks poorly of them, and doesn’t trouble to hide that fact.
This is an EXCELLENT point. It's one thing to have differing preferences, it's another to be dismissive or show contempt.
Oh there is no reprieve unfortunately. Many estranged parents never pay shit. The only way to get it is if they get a government payment that could be garnished or if they want to buy a home or get a line of credit for something. A lot of times parents who refuse to pay are losers who won’t ever find themselves in a situation where they are forced to pay arrears.
I raised a family member who’s dad was over 20k in arrears, they never saw shit. My kids dad is in significant arrears, there isn’t shit you can do. It sucks, but that’s the harsh reality. This is sadly common for single moms.
Your entitled to cutting those people out of your life. But know that you have nothing to do with your ex anymore, you can’t control who he is with any longer. It’s just a bit strange that your bff is that person
It honestly scares me you think you can just throw your hands up at a child running away.
I didn't say thai. But your solution will only make things worse not better. You should volunteer with some at risk youth and learn to understand them better. Ask them if police interference has ever made their lives any better.
Yeah, this is the definition of soulmate that I always think of.
I love him
That if not being true is exactly the situation where it is needed. And if it holds the prenup doesn't have a negative effect.
Don’t have a child you don’t want, just know that this is probably gonna be the end of the relationship.
but he said I’m his person
Reason enough to dump him.
Yeah, also.. it’s HIS dick. He can get condoms. GTfOH. So disrespectful and cheap.
You both should get tested. He is obviously a really risky sexual partner, and I would be so turned off.
she knows her husband well enough to know that telling him “your brother kissed me” would be considered to be a source of drama.
Of course telling telling her husband his brother forced himself on her is going to bring drama. And why shouldn't it? The brother shouldn't be allowed back at their house, full stop.
Whats the question here ? This is a very weird post…
I work at a dealership and he’s a technician. I’m sure the computer thing makes sense now.
Hes not your friend at all
Do not exclude anyone in your family. This is incredibly concerning.
I have a larger family than my fiancé but he has more friends, his side is double mine but do you know what? These people matter to him and they are good to me so why wouldn’t I want them to celebrate us?
This is a red flag tbh. It’s not your family or her family as you are combing to make one family.
You are asking for the bare minimum in that list.
How bout you proceed away from this man
Okay. He has issues with this for whatever reason. And I'm sure there's a reason. You were not okay with it before, it's unlikely to have changed, can you work with it now? You need to know this before you reach out hoping to reconnect. People change but WE cannot change them
I think it says something about his motives if he isn't trying to clarify things and clear the air with you both. “I'm so sorry. I meant it totally platonicly. I would never cross that line” etc, etc, etc.
I'm assuming you bf texted him. Did he reply or just go totally radio silent?
He’s not a great person. He’s abusing you! You need to split from him completely. There is no excuse for this behavior
You’re 44, not 22. Are you only 3 months into your relationship?
If you feel it's necessary to. Otherwise, just leave her alone. You aren't obligated to be attracted to trans people but it might make her less inclined to be authentic in the future because of fear she's being judged and rejected for living her truth.
Pats her on (gasp) THE SHOULDER! Not the shoulder. Everyone knows that the shoulder is a secret erogenous zone.
Tell him when it’s to lose for him he can fix it by making his d*** bigger.
Tell him when it’s to lose for him he can fix it by making his d*** bigger.
Hey thank you. This is encouraging as well as pragmatic! I agree. And yes, I’m excited about that possibility of living in another country just for its own sake 🙂
Hey thank you. This is encouraging as well as pragmatic! I agree. And yes, I’m excited about that possibility of living in another country just for its own sake 🙂
Hey don't ask questions you don't want the answers to.
You acted like an idiot, and hopefully you can fix your relationship before he dumps you.
An engagement ring is an engagement ring because someone proposes, otherwise it is just a ring.
So he gave you a ring as a gift.
As for your not so subtle hints that you want to get married, you should have known that he wasn’t ready, and if you didn’t, you do now.
So you apologise for your reaction to getting a ring you liked as a gift. You ask him what his plan is for marriage, and if his timetable for it doesn’t match yours then you exit the relationship.
And in the future, rather than hints, just do the asking yourself.
I would go no contact for you and your baby's sake
Yeah. Is that what you want? Do you know how many guys are out there? Don't waste your time.
If you don’t see yourself marrying her return in. If you do, take her on an epic trip and put the rest to one side towards a ring for one dsy
I’m sorry but while you are feeling guilty for feeling what you are feeling he was manipulating you.
Certainly, he had no obligation to tell you immediately. But he intentionally withheld this information until you were already emotionally invested before telling you and manipulating your feelings.
That was wrong.
You actually tried, which is more than I would have. It isn’t for you. There is nothing wrong with that and that is unlikely to change.
I know you feel bad about it, but he should too. He should have told you much earlier. If I were you I would move on.
Stop wasting your time. He’s been clear he doesn’t see you as a gf. Of COURSE he is going to keep seeing you if your going to sleep with him. Why would he put in the effort and commitment of being in a relationship if you are going to give him all the good bits without demanding more?
I truly don’t mean to be unkind, you sound lovely, I can’t imagine you’ll have any issues finding someone who VALUES you and doesn’t need to be harrasssd into making a commitment he doesn’t want. Know your worth and don’t accept anything less. I’m an old lady now and I see so many girls in this exact situation.
If he was going to fall in love with you then he’d have no hesitation. It may be that you calling off everything other than friendship prompts him to realise what he’s missing but don’t do it because of that, do it for your self respect and confidence.
You don’t need a man to be whole. Be too proud to beg. Stick to your guns. No relationship = no sex/gf experience. I wish someone had been as brutal with me when I was younger.
You are clearly smart, kind, expressive and caring. There are men out there who will LOVE you and treat you accordingly. He isn’t one of them.
LOL this whole post seems like you are justifying this. Your not confused about all thats wrong, your looking for support for your bad choices
She saw me on his page because she’s always stalking his page
Great job OP! Keep on doing what’s best for yourself, sticking up for yourself and you’re doing great. Us internet strangers are so proud 🙂
everyone's past has an impact on how they behave.
Have you heard that saying that if you love something set it free, if it comes back it was meant to be.
Get out, now.
You in danger, girl
GOOD
Run, run, run
The same college, then the same major, and then the same teachers? That's too much of a coincidence.
It’s better to ask her directly rather than pull something stupid like that
Hes very sweet, if i brought it up im sure he wouldnt mind, but im still not sure if its worth it. His friends have said stuff in the past 3 months that I've found off, like they use the f slur in a video they sent me, which was weird concidering he knows im bi. Maybe its just because im more aware of it, maybe im more sensitive to stuff like that than him, im not sure but its happend a few times now that im questioning if he says this stuff himself.
This is awful. My ex was like that and even while giving it up to his every demand, he still cheated. Sexual manipulation is what it is. Guilting you into doing any sexual favor because if you don’t, they play into your emotional fear of being cheated on. They still end up cheating. Several times. My ex legit told me that getting head from another woman isn’t cheating because there’s no penetration. I responded, “penetrated her face so yea it’s definitely cheating you moron”. Later down the road he admitted it was more than just head. Garbage men don’t deserve beautiful women.
After reading your previous post, it seems you went from one abusive relationship to another. One partner constantly lying; another partner that is “brutally honest” aka an asshole.
You didn’t specify an exact timeline but seems that you did not give yourself proper time to process and heal.
In saying that I would advise a few things:
• call off your engagement or put your wedding on hold.
• seek counseling (bonus if from someone who understands your culture) for your past/present abusive partners as your anxiety/depression will only escalate if you continue on your current path.
• once you have started therapy and are looking after yourself, you could try suggesting couples therapy; though your “fiancé” doesn’t seem the type to take kindly to the possibility of being called-out on her shitty behaviour.
• make a pro/con list as to “see” how one-sided your relationship truly is.
A marriage is a partnership yet you are the one doing all the compromising. This person does not respect you as a partner. Hell, sounds like she doesn’t respect you as a person!
OP, what happens when you fall on nude times? Will she step up and take on the responsibilities or will she nag you into a deeper depressive state bc you “aren’t making enough money?”
If/when you have children does she expect you to provide everything (medical, college, car, etc.)
Will you actually get to on-line and enjoy all that you work for or merely exist only to work your life away in order to “make enough money?”
Exactly * how much* money is “enough money?”
Please do not settle for this atrocity. You deserve a loving, caring partner. Respectfully, she is not it.
(I’m not saying leave your fiancé per sé but I’m saying run like hell from this soul sucking person)
PLEASE take time to heal
Right? Isn’t that where the tradition comes from? I’m not property.