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It seems like this object has become a talisman and you’re fixated on it. Instead of giving it to your ex — for Xmas or any other time in the future — hand it off to a trusted friend to hide away. You’re not doing yourself any favors by holding onto it until she contacts you.
Remindme! 3 days
Ma’am you’re totally overreacting
…I'm absolutely flabbergasted that he felt you should behave differently after delivering your baby. I'm sorry I thought you were the husband! But yeah… fucking no. I think you have every right to be upset about that level of conceit. I kind of expect new mothers to be snappy, and like wall-e when he's on low charge, anything different is a bonus. If you choose to talk to him about it I hope you speak your mind… maybe hearing that other people actually experience the human condition will do him some good; if it doesn't though I would not kiss his ass for his family members sake. If they genuinely expect you to bend the knee for his pride, they could probably use a piece of your perslective too. Sorta sounds like they're enabling him and it's not something they should expect you to do aswell.
Okay so if you leave it you'll either be A: left without treatment in which your condition will worsen and can cause infertility or B: have to explain to him why you can't have sex unless you want to get it repeatedly Either you get treated alone and stay, in which he will keep reinfecting you or you tell him and both get treated but it's still the moral issue of him giving you an std.
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Yeah, OP should definitely go in for a consult and they are usually free. My uncle died bc the ER wasn’t taking his chest pain seriously (my grandma died around his age bc of a heart issue, too), and he died in the ER (pre-Covid). I understand it’s stressful, but Op is in a position he needs to do it.
My dad just lost my brother/his son a few years before to OD (fentanyl laced heroin) and couldn’t handle his grief becoming anymore stressful getting a lawyer involved, especially bc uncle lived across the country. Dark humor is my uncle was a lawyer, yet my dad made sure to make it his life’s mission the dealer went to jail that supplied my brother on the day he relapsed after 3mos sober (and he succeeded, but I don’t know how…his friends are cops).
Oh please, how is this even a problem? You should be asking us how to turn this situation into a MFF threesome.
Basically, you're cheating. It's unlikely many people would see it otherwise but that's what you're doing.
You made a lot of little choices time and time again that put you where you are. I'm sure there was at least one moment where you could have set this guy right and told him 'hey, I'm married. I know we work in an intense environment and it can really mess with our emotions but I am married and I love my husband and I do not want to be anything more than friends. Period.'
Friendly flirting is fine. You didn't do that.
You're in the beginning stages of a physical affair. You're far along in an emotional affair.
Just be clear with yourself here – YOU did this. YOU made these choices. It didn't 'just happen.' YOU made the choices each time you were presented with a choice to take things further.
Should you tell your husband? I don't know. Should you shut it down? Yes. You should shut it down. Tell the guy not to touch you again. You're just friends, if that now. You are work colleagues and you should conduct yourself professionally at work. Should you change jobs? Maybe, can you do so in a way that doesn't negatively impact your life too much? Perhaps.
If you love and respect your husband, telling him the truth is probably a thing. You need some individual therapy to help you navigate this. Then you need to figure out how you move forward.
I just don’t understand bringing up all these heart warming texts about our time together etc., and then if i want to reach out I am welcome to do it
Agree. She's clearly mentally unhinged so there's zero point in trying to extract any logic from those interactions. The “acting like it never happened” bit just confirms it. You can't reason with someone who is incapable of self-reflection.
you can't just dismiss numbers that are proven over and over again in clinical studies. it's not something you can choose to believe or not, it's facts. please let me provide you with dozens of studies if you'd like.
and a large penis doesn't need to be these ridiculous bs numbers you hear live!. a 6-inch penis is in the 95th percentile.
Lets get this straight you allowed your abusive daughter in the house with children? I dont blame your husband. This girl abused you all and i gotta be honest i would leave and see to it you never saw my som again.
Fun fact! It's not actually fetal cells! It's extracellular DNA, meaning there's free-floating fetal DNA just floating around in mom's bloodstream!
Oof.
Dont spend any more time with him. He doesnt deserve you. You don't need to be second fiddle to him, since he already chose someone else. He's probably playing her too.
Once a cheater, always a cheater. You have no trust in your relationship anymore, and that's no way to live!. Add in the distance, you will constantly be wondering what he is doing and torturing yourself over it.
Find someone who wont backstab and emotionally manipulate you. You deserve better.
after graduating, we broke up/took a break
They literally broke up.
Also, to quote Ross from Friends: “WE WERE ON A BREAK.”
My gf says they are funny 🙁
Maybe he knows that one likes you more than the other and they have a Bro Code
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TBH I don't understand what you don't understand? He wants sex. SEX. The idea that a man only wants sex is not some bizarre concept unknown to making, sorry ^^'
He only wants sex, he gets sex, then he leaves. Only talks to you when next sex is on the plate. It's that easy. You are overthinking this. He just happens to be GOOD at sex – engaged, satisfies you. So what? It's still just about sex for him, he's simply a good lover.
Hmmmm I don’t think that’s a big deal but if it is to you then talk to him about it.
Don’t other women follow hot dudes too or is it just me?? ? I have no idea who my husband follows on the socials but I’d hate to have to give up my shirtless guys chopping wood ?
Yes, my husband knows and doesn’t give a shit. We’re always banging and we are each others real life sexy person lol.
You all beat me to it.
Mine said “i guess we should get married then?” After I said I was pregnant. Definitely not much romance, but 20 years in, he still gets up first to bring me coffee in bed, gets the kids ready for school and drives them, cooks, cleans, and looks awesome hot. So………
If you don’t want to date a child then tell your adult partner that you need them to learn how to use the fucking potty.
Don't waste any more of your life on him. He is willing to set you on fire to keep them warm.
This. I can tell you that if i tried to move a whole adult and her baby in with us, my husband would have packed his stuff and left. No ifs and or buts…. And fair enough, he didnt agree to that.
Also, what if sis and hubby fall in love/lust/whatever and here we go with all that mess?! How trustworthy is the sister? Can she keep her mitts off Big Sister's man? What about hubs, he now has a cute little 21 year old in the house 24/7. Five minutes on Reddit tells us that often…. These types cannot keep theirs hands off.
Is all this really worth the risk of dynamiting ones whole life? Little sis needs to realize she is not a child anymore, and big sis is NOT HER MOMMY.
If you are cool with him cheating on you, then stay with him. You shouldn’t, but if you do, that’s what will happen. You will be communicating to him that he is allowed to cheat with minimal consequences.
I know. Definitely going to work on this
Of course. Just always remember, he is your boyfriend and you love him now. But you are the only you that you will ever have. You have to respect yourself and make the best choices you can out of the options you have.
I like how threatening someone seems to be more concerning than actually getting assaulted on reddit.
This does sound controlling.
You used a tagged story to find out where she was and then dragged her away from her friends.
There are means and ways to talk about alcohol addiction with someone – this isn’t it.
There is no reason on earth that someone you just started dating needs your location.
This woman is too much for you. You already said you have nothing to say, you don't initiate contact, and are bored. Why not just stop seeing her?
I think that your problem here is not jealousy – It’s that you can’t connect with her on anything. Now, I get that people on the spectrum can find it hot to relate to others but you know what? They still try. It seems to me that the only one trying to reach”
There's no set timeline. Everyone is different. If this feels too fast for her then that's how she feels. A relationship can only move at the pace of the slowest person in the relationship. In this case, it's your girlfriend. You have to decide if she's worth the wait.
Your husband's fragile masculinity is showing.
Hi OP. I was passed up for MOH once for someone my best friend wasn’t even close it. It turns out that it was a strategic move on her part to get help from someone who had done a cheap wedding before.
Now, I was miffed, and decided to just sit back and wait for her to realize her mistake. I didn’t help with anything until she realized “I f’ed up”.
Hmmm, sounds a bit off to me as if he’s dropping little breadcrumbs and waiting for you to follow along. My instincts say he’s trying to gauge your possible “romantic” interest in him, notice the quotes. By romance I mean as a possible partner in an affair. I could be wrong but if it squeals like a pig it usually is. His wife says he has communication issues which could be spot on, especially if he’s divulging more to you about these issues than to the woman he’s actually married to. Is it possible that you are harboring your own fantasies where you and he develop into something more? If so, I’d shut that down fast.
He can’t lord over you with the biological parent thing when you entered into a legal agreement that you are her parent. It’s really low.
By pissed, do you mean angry or drunk?
Same result, two very different problems that require very different means of addressing. But both of which should be.
He’ll knock you up and then leave you for a girl 10 years his junior too, which at this point you really deserve lol
Well the good news is after you dump her, you get to stay in contact with and occasionally fuck her.
So unless you are 100% sure that you can handle a polyamorous relationship, then do not do anything with him.
Then know that your friendship is likely to end of you do go down this route.
And make sure that his fiancée is actually okay with the relationship being polygamous (as in talk to her about it, not just take his word for it), and also okay with his partner being you – as this might be against their boundaries that were set up when they went polygamous.
Why have you stayed this long with someone who treats you in such a disgusting and disrespectful way? A
Is there a friend or family you can go stay with for a while? If so, leave immediately and don’t even leave him a note.
Honestly lady?? She was paying the bills and rent/mortgage for who knows how long. I hope on top of taking out her stuff she sues for the principal in the home her money went towards too. This girl did so much for OP and her extended family and she treated her like that? I'm glad she's out. She's likely going to be a very successful young woman based on how she took care of OP. Now she's free of their burdens and she can soar sky high knowing she tried her damnedest and they still didn't appreciate her. Now she can focus on herself unapologetically. I wish her all the best. OP it sounds like you need to be looking up to your daughter as a role model, who tf places their burdens on their own child like that?
It's not projecting simply because I have knowledge of an issue. If anything, it's education.
and what mean “include you”? include to what? wht does it matter and if it matters what doesn't she did already? what does it change to the whole “i fucked someone else” situation ?
Agree!
He’ll do that if there’s sex after. I rub his back and bought him lunches last week etc and I don’t demand sex or anything. Just treat me nice and sweet.
You didn't 'work through' anything. He molified you, married you, and warped your mind to think its normal to be talking about porn with another woman. When you start questioning these things and are made out to be over reacting you are being controlled. He wanrs you to shut up and stop pestering him whilst he has his fun. And its accepted at this point because you have allowed him to get away with it time and time again. He must think you are an absolute doormat.
So, basically you're asking if you should be worried because a known cheater is being shady?
My dude. Girl is flat out telling you directly to your face that she has no self-control and has no plans on trying to develop any.