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Tell your wife how thankful you are for her and go no contact with your parents.
Your girlfriend doesnt seem to care about you and is being disrespectful, and you don't have a backbone.
I can tell you one thing, there's a better partner waiting for you out there buddy.
This is what stood out to me, as well.
It's the downvotes and comments like “shame on you for not understanding!” I've NEVER dealt with a situation like this especially dealing with a woman this emotional. Most of the women I've been around would read the letter and say “Okay? Guh-bye!” Show empathy? This is why I'm here better than me asking her “Why are you hung up on him?”
It feels to me like your gf is feeling pretty overwhelmed and stressed out right now. She sounds like a hard worker and a caring person. If you do want to be with her, I would start by reassuring her that you’re proud of her and all her naked work, and asking what you can do to support her during this strenuous time in her life. I think y’all will be okay with some communication and TLC.
You're fucked either way but if things progress in the future you will be even more fucked….
Did I at any point say you were rich?
We've been at this for 4 months now, and honestly its just these little things here and there that have been issues. Otherwise, we work well. And I never said I expected him to turn in for the night, that was never my expectation of him. I just wish he'd called, and then gone and done whatever with his friends. I appreciate that he has friends so nearby to him, since I know freshman year of college can be lonely.
An open relationship (read he begs you to let him fuck other people) with a history of cheating??? Hell no.
No your not being unreasonable! If a girl won't go down on me I'd rather not do anything. Find someone you are sexually compatible with.
Wow. He cheated on you for half of the relationship, and started a 2nd relationship. Basically cheating on two women, Because she had no clue about. Unless he broke things off with you listening he didn’t. If the relationship ended it’s probably because she found out about you. If you believe you can ever trust him try to work things out, but because you asking how to trust him again you know you can’t. No trust equals no relationship.
I don't have any real advice except to say if you are waiting for a relationship to be perfect before proposing, you will never get married. Right now it would be best to get through your issues before asking her to marry you and I can see why you want to do couples therapy beforehand. I just don't want you to wait around for something that's never gonna happen.
Idk maybe he lied, his actions say a lot more than what he has said
What you want isn't to get back with her, what you want is to get back with the person that she was before. Which is understandable! You want the person that you fell in love with, that you married.
I don't think that person is her anymore.
Your feelings are valid. Asking her to no longer work in an environment that caused major damage to your marriage and hurt you emotionally is ABSOLUTELY valid. She is not interested in that, and therefore is not interested in fixing the damage caused or being respectful to your feelings.
You deserve a partner that respects your marriage and respects your feelings. I'm sorry to say, that doesn't sound like your wife anymore.
Her husband is getting to much of a pass. This is why you don't stay with cheaters. She said she “doesn't trust her” around her husband, in other words, she still doesn't trust her husband…
I think you're on the wrong sub lmao
Your bf is being a twat. His “logic” is so flawed it’s a joke.
Sounds like he’s looking for an excuse to leave you. He may even want a relationship with V now she’s single again which she wasn’t when you two got together.
I’d leave him to whatever stupidity his brain is focussed on.
He’s an anchor in your life…
Ask him to change his language. This is a communication problem, not an intentions problem. You need him to say the thing that’s pressing on him in a way that’s not condescending or infantilising.
Instead of saying, “Don’t do anything stupid,” ask him to say, “Be careful.”
Instead of saying, “Don’t drink too much,” ask him to say, “do you have enough money for an Uber home?” or else, “Have fun. Give me a call if you need me to pick you up.”
Instead of, “Don’t dress revealingly,” ask him to say, “Be safe.” (This one needs a conversation to go with it about how your wardrobe isn’t the problem, ever.)
All these statements seem to stem from a very normal concern for your safety. Give him the phrases to use to express that, rather than the ones he’s using.
What? Why are you creating this kind of backstory for him? If he's as damaged as all that, she should still let him go. She's only 25– she should go find someone who isn't going to be dishonest about her, someone who'd be proud to have her as his girlfriend, and definitely not someone still communicating like this with a supposed ex 6 months later.
Don't worry, like you said his dad is a great guy, try not overthinking it and let things be.
Just wanted to say: I am sorry those two things happened to you, and both in the same night. There is no need to be ashamed of anything you think, feel, consider at the moment. You are in an very complex situation and all feelings and thoughts are valid, and not a sign of any “weakness” etc.
I think leaving her is/was the best thing to do. You need to recover and take care of yourself (from the assault alone). That takes energy and time. I think it would be way too much to try and patch up a relationship at the same time. Especially considering the broke trust and the unresolved alcohol issues of your wife. That takes a lot of time to make progress, too. And I think you really should focus on your own recovery and well-being for a while, without the time pressure of your wife wanting to work on your relationship.
I wish you all the best and hope you have people who are there for you (sounds like your parents might be?).
You just have to talk to him. He may think you don’t really want to be around his kid. He may have a complicated coparenting relationship and is avoiding incorporating you more around his child to avoid a blow up with the ex.
You said he hasn’t asked you about Xmas plans but have you asked him? He’s not psychic.
I (44F) would just say “hey, I am invested in this relationship and want to see where things go. I would like to see you more, spend more time with you when you have your kiddo, meet your family, etc. I’m ready for that next level. Where is your head at on this?”
To me, it’s pretty reasonable not to bring kids into things until 6+ mos or when you know it’s a pretty serious relationship. It seems like it’s time to start blending things. If he’s not ready then you can certainly table that and revisit in a few months.
If I were a bettin’ gal, I’d bet he’s trying to avoid conflict with the ex more than that he’s not ready.
Are you sure she’s not cheating on you? does she do anything around the house ? Having sex is super important in marriage, you should try to get that back.
That, and he'd prefer not to look the man in the eye who's wife he's fucking.
I mean if this isn’t fake, then get genetic testing done. It’s been a loooong time since I studied genetics/dominant and recessive genes in biology, but I was under the impression that two blue eyed people can’t make a baby with anything other than blue eyes?
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To save your marriage your best bet would be to separate from your husband. Show him you are serious and let him know that you are willing to work on things through couples therapy. I don’t know what options you have but if possible move in with your parents or a friend. Take your child with you.
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Puppies are a pain in the ass. Some people are not pet people (me included). Love other peoples dogs though
Not sure if you can read or not but I mentioned like 10 times already average is normal
Well, the world's top scientists need to get off their asses and start brainstorming time travel
If it's not apparent I'm afraid I can't answer the original question because I don't know what you're asking. Are you asking if I think the average woman gets aroused just thinking about their own breasts? That's a much more explicit question than what you asked, which could mean many things. If you're truly asking in good faith you just need to reword the question using more specific language for all of it, every part of it.
I don't know, she's such a good person with great intelligence but I just can't understand why this would bother her this much.
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Are you okay, OP?
Take your son and gtfo of this relationshit.
Good point. We did recently buy a month white board with a notes section. I'll have to bring this up with him, it's not the first thing I would've wanted to do but I'm afraid I'm at this point. Thank you.
I wish you the best in your life. Good luck.
So I do understand your frustration with this situation with your wife. Her behavior in not just answering you was peculiar. Also understand your frustration with feeling you haven’t been heard.
However, just by what you’ve posted, the apparent need to restate the same thing multiple times, also think your wife had a point about you seeming overwhelmed, overstimulated and overtired.
She is your wife, knows you better than anyone here and unless she’s harmed you repeatedly, do think she probably has a better understanding of what was going on with you then and ongoing.
We do
Works for me. While I get it's OK to be intimate with multiple people before before we “have the talk” if the foreseen relationship is more than casual to me (and I make it obvious) then I would not accept this.
Worst stories I have read is when a dude is taken aback by his date taking things slow because it could be serious while entertaining fwb's relationship. (works the same way if gender are reversed).
Confused why blatant racism isn’t enough but since it’s not , how fun is it to be with someone who’s also this accusatory? He sounds exhausting and gross , i hope for your own sake you know you deserve better than him.
I’m not a fragile old woman. I wouldn’t sign.
So the boy is good at grooming. Date someone closer to your age
Huh, never thought I'd have to say this but… maybe don't fuck your best friend's sister? Weird how every other comment is talking about her age lmao. She could be 30, you still don't fuck your best friend's sister.
I have, a lot actually. One, he’s scared, two we are long distance (two separate countries) for the next 2 years unless we get married then I can go with him.