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Date: October 8, 2022
I was in an abusive marriage for a long time. If it's possible, let her know she's welcome to come to your place any time with or without notice.
If she brings up the abuse to you and says she's thinking about leaving, offer to help her come up with a safe exit plan with the help of either live! resources or local domestic violence organizations. Leaving an abuser is dangerous and it can feel overwhelming. I wish I could tell you there's a way to get your friend to realize she should just leave, but abuse really breaks people down mentally and it becomes a cycle that's hard to get out of.
Also if you are getting any other drugs or medication check the interactions with alcohol, some medication increase the effects of alchohol.
Thank you.
Can it happen? Yes I agree. Is it easier? Debatable, depends on the rules agreed on in the relationship
OK. I’ll call you insecure. Time to grow up.
Which should be easy to explain then.
I'm so sorry you had to deal with all this. How ridiculous. Sucks you didn't notice before going through the wedding, but still better than being married for years
I hope you find enough strength and confidence in yourself to tell him exactly how he made you feel. It's not a hypothetical. He did not hypothetically hurt your feelings. He point blank hurt your feelings. You need to tell him that.
Someone once said to me. Love is not confusing. That’s it. If you are confused it’s not love.
Put him on the reserve squad. And by that I mean find better people to have sex with, don’t hang out with him as much.
Yeah it will be hot but i guess i will just have to buckle down and ride these next months as they will be hard as hell, and just focus on working on my self so i can get out of this as a stronger person.
Because she wanted a baby in the context of a loving marriage with a supportive husband. She may not want a baby as a single parent with an unstable and potentially misogynistic co-parent. She should consider all her options now given the time constraints. Not everyone sees abortion as the horrible option you seem to.
People like you shouldn't be allowed within ten miles of a school or playground ?
Thank you very much for your reply. I know it sounds like excuses but my children attend an international private school where parents do have limited time and dont really talk things other than business, world politics etc. I kinda socialize with them once or twice a month but it feels fake and more build on business. Some are in tech, some are in fashion, some are in construction etc. business. I use to have hobbies like photography but I let them all go. My performance is critical because profitability of the factory directly relates to my take home. I dont have set wage. One month I can bring 10K, one month I can bring 100K. No one around me says “hey, how about you, what have you done for yourself” it is always next dress or activity or trip. I am also stressed because I dont know how long I can sustain my pace without cracking. Some days I feel like an ATM. I do want friends but it feels overwhelming to even try to open up. I did consider therapy and scheduled it. I feel like end of my marriage is coming. She is due to finish Aug 26 but she is talking about spending extra few weeks to attend some events… like kids and I are less important than an event. Her “wage” wouldnt be enough for half of her rent. I dont want to bad mouth my wife. She is gorgeous, smart and loves her children but a big part of me wonders does she love me for the right reasons… like this XX guy, I dont think they slept together but I know she finds him more exciting than me. He travels around the world to set parties and events. He sounds cool, I got no problem with him but I find it hot to swallow that my wife finds him exciting when she has so much at home. Our children are wonderful. Our youngest had a nightmare about mum not coming back home. I comforted her. I dont reflect anything to kids but I think they are sensing it. They all have iphones & ipads so they are accessible to talk to mum but they talk to her less than I do. It almost feels like a slowly twisting knife in my gut and I wonder if I should fight for her affection or try to heal and move on… I really cannot think clearly and I am afraid it is going to impact my professional life
Most men don't abandon their children. If you don't want other people to point out how you're wrong, don't promote sexist stereotypes?
Well if it bothered her that much that she broke down in tears about it, maybe she does consider it as cheating. I'd ask what led to the kiss and depending on her answer, either end it or forget it. For example, if she was actively messing around with the guy at the same time, I'm ending it. If she was just curious about kissing another guy, and it never happened again, I'd let it go.
Run the hell away. I didn't even need to read the post, just the title was enough, but having read the post you need to RUN.
When 2 people commit themselves to each other, especially in a marriage, then it certainly is a failed marriage if it ends in divorce. Now, maybe you could find some argument that non-marital relationship can be different. But, in the end one, or both of you, couldn't give the other what they needed. That certainly isn't mutual success..
He gave you a heads up that something that you said may give you issues was in his car and instead of taking that information as him trying to warn and prepare you should you get into his car you took it as a deliberate provocation of your trigger.
I can see why he finally blew up about it. He could have definitely been nicer about telling you to cut it out but yeah you're making a mountain out of a molehill because you decided never to go to therapy to unpack those issues you have that are causing you to lash out over something as dumb as a ham radio hobby.
Also he wanted to do ham radio and you said that's a trigger try talking to random people live! which is literally the thing your dad did but that's not a trigger? The logical leaps are exhausting I definitely understand why he's not eager to “win” you back when you think you're in the right unloading your mental health issues on him instead of getting help to overcome them.
Seems like you don't like her. So stop being friends
Your welcome
Try jamming a couple of fingers up his ass and see if that's gets him off – maybe he's just not realised/ accepted whzg he likes yet
“That would send me running under normal circumstances” “I wasn't with him for convenience.” These two statements do not line up. The not normal circumstances were that your parents kicked you out.
It sucks that he treated you poorly and you added that as an afterthought but in the story as it is written, your boyfriend has every right to hate your parents and its selfish to want him to be happy that you are bringing them back into both of your lives. Cause you are a couple. And literally nothing has changed except they missed you or missed controlling you. And it only took one single lovebomb for you to be ready to end the relationship.
So just do that.
Yeah they look very similar and kind of have the same personality so I kinda understand why I would find her attractive
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In my previous post I mentioned when we broke up my boyfriend slept with this girl. Today she sends me a video of them having sex. I feel so sick right now. I don’t know what to think. It was bad enough knowing he was with her but to see it…it sent me into a depression. I don’t know what to do. I love him so much and we got back together this week but now I don’t know what to do. She’s always been trying to get him to leave me for her. I don’t know why she would send me this. What do I do? I don’t know. This situation just gets worse.
I’d get therapy. For you. I’d dig deep and Susa out what the real problem is. Because unless he has some history of cheating, this seems a little irrational on your part.
Just because there are men around doesn’t mean they’re men he likes or gets along with. And just because there’s a woman around doesn’t mean she’s going to trip and fall on a dick.
I (44F) work in a male dominated field. I’m often the only woman in most meetings and projects. My closest work buddies are all men. There are a few women I like just fine but they’re just not people I make an effort to contact outside of work—mostly because we don’t have much in common outside of work. They are much more feminine and we just don’t share the same kinds of interests.
I used to travel a lot for work to do onsite meetings at various offices where we had a project going. I usually was there with a male colleague or two or three. Normally when traveling, we’d eat dinner together, maybe have some drinks, maybe go to a museum or some sight seeing if we had to stay over the weekend. Absolutely nothing shady going on. One of my fave colleagues’ wife was so insecure and jealous that she forbid him from traveling with me, staying at same hotel (which our company booked us with), forbid us from having dinner together—even with other people around. It was embarrassing for him, made things uncomfortable when traveling, made me feel like I couldn’t even call him for a work related issue if I knew he was home with his wife. And the nature of our business—tech—we often had after hours issues to address after a go online.
I dunno. Everyone is different. But I just don’t see what the big deal is. ?♀️
You need to sit down and have a conversation about what cohabitating is going to look like. Who's going to handle what and all that.
Also, give it a little more time. Y'all have been there a week? I imagine you're probably still doing a lot of “set up” stuff and not as much relaxing together at home. The last time I lived with a partner, I largely loved it but that first week or so was really frustrating as we both settled in, built a shit ton of ikea furniture and whatnot.
ik i didnt do nothing wrong the 2nd time. she was acting and moving weird
My Gram buried 5 husbands (first married at 14) and everyone was like “wow, you're bad luck!” and she'd be like “It's not my fault they had a bad ticker and I'm THAT good in bed.” *waggles eyebrows* lol
That's not how they passed, but it got people to shut up. 😉