It's because he doesn't want people to know he no longer single.
Tell him straight
the fact you are more concerned about upsetting your ex speaks volumes to me and unless you start showing you in this 100% with me I'm going to walk away.
It doesn't hurt to just put you on there. She is an ex she knows he bound to move on so his excuses mean nothing.
You know someone is doing something that will deeply hurt another hurt, so much so it may effect them for life. The actions this person is taking is manipulating their fiancé into believe they are going to be living a life they are not. Her autonomy as a person is being stolen from her.
Yeah this. Seems like that is NOT the case.
It's because he doesn't want people to know he no longer single.
Tell him straight
the fact you are more concerned about upsetting your ex speaks volumes to me and unless you start showing you in this 100% with me I'm going to walk away.
It doesn't hurt to just put you on there. She is an ex she knows he bound to move on so his excuses mean nothing.
He either dose it or you just walk away
It’s your place.
You know someone is doing something that will deeply hurt another hurt, so much so it may effect them for life. The actions this person is taking is manipulating their fiancé into believe they are going to be living a life they are not. Her autonomy as a person is being stolen from her.
It’s a good thing to tell her.
Oh, he got to know you more alright.
With any common sense and a bit of luck, he’s blocked and ghosted your abusive self already.