Don’t discuss it with her, just leave, she left your relationship the moment she got you to agree to opening the relationship up.
When she (if she) notices that you have gone, tell her that since she persuaded you to agree to opening the relationship, she has shown you that her “I love you so much I can’t leave you but I need new experiences” was a pile of shit, and that you deserve someone who actually puts effort into the relationship.
Then you tell everyone (especially her family and all mutual friends) that after being persuaded to open the relationship up, her attitude and actions showed she was more interested in sleeping around than having a relationship l so you are leaving her.
And then you block her on everything.
** if you live together and it’s under your name, you pack her shit up and tell her to leave, if it’s under both names then you leave, and pay the next 2 months rent to the landlord directly.
I (NB24) just stopped smoking for my partner (25F). I did it cause she was worth it and it was her firm line.
People have nude lines in dating, if they clash you aren’t compatible. You can quit if you want or not, those are your choices my friend. It sucks but boundaries and decisions can be firm
I have the same problem. It’s definitely, as someone mentioned before, a death grip problem for me. When I masturbate, I don’t realize how naked I’m holding it until I’m done. But yeah, not being able to cum during vaginal penetration kinda sucks. Then again, I don’t want kids, so I’m not too arsed about it.
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Don’t discuss it with her, just leave, she left your relationship the moment she got you to agree to opening the relationship up.
When she (if she) notices that you have gone, tell her that since she persuaded you to agree to opening the relationship, she has shown you that her “I love you so much I can’t leave you but I need new experiences” was a pile of shit, and that you deserve someone who actually puts effort into the relationship.
Then you tell everyone (especially her family and all mutual friends) that after being persuaded to open the relationship up, her attitude and actions showed she was more interested in sleeping around than having a relationship l so you are leaving her.
And then you block her on everything.
** if you live together and it’s under your name, you pack her shit up and tell her to leave, if it’s under both names then you leave, and pay the next 2 months rent to the landlord directly.
I (NB24) just stopped smoking for my partner (25F). I did it cause she was worth it and it was her firm line.
People have nude lines in dating, if they clash you aren’t compatible. You can quit if you want or not, those are your choices my friend. It sucks but boundaries and decisions can be firm
She’s trying to heal and move on from the breakup. NC means NC. She’s clearly trying to not be in contact with you.
Let her alone and move on
It sounds like you have yourself a walking red controlling flag..
Hand it back to its maker and walk away..
Okay same advice but I’d wait until his bags have been packed lol. You got this!
I have the same problem. It’s definitely, as someone mentioned before, a death grip problem for me. When I masturbate, I don’t realize how naked I’m holding it until I’m done. But yeah, not being able to cum during vaginal penetration kinda sucks. Then again, I don’t want kids, so I’m not too arsed about it.