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You have a child together. So this person is going to be in your life regardless of what decision you make. Whether it is as a partner or a co-parent, you will have to decide. But decide!
You chose to hook up with someone over a brief breakup which generally feels pretty shitty in itself and this psycho human chose to contact your girlfriend?! To stir up drama? So you created the situation that followed which was her choosing to create distance from someone she thought was treating her badly. And whether it hurts you or not, she chose to move on from it and try to resolve the situation and you chose to wallow in it and act out.
Decide if you want to be grow up, leave the last behind, commit to your relationship, and put the work in .. or leave. Those are your choices. You can’t change what happened, she can’t go back to her delivery and invite you in the room. It’s done. If you want to hold a grudge, then that will be your weight to carry but don’t take it out on her and your child because she’s obviously tried to move past it all.
Seriously. The answer to what OP should do is simple: dump him and find someone who isn't twenty years older than you who stomps all over your personal boundaries.
You have a child together. So this person is going to be in your life regardless of what decision you make. Whether it is as a partner or a co-parent, you will have to decide. But decide!
You chose to hook up with someone over a brief breakup which generally feels pretty shitty in itself and this psycho human chose to contact your girlfriend?! To stir up drama? So you created the situation that followed which was her choosing to create distance from someone she thought was treating her badly. And whether it hurts you or not, she chose to move on from it and try to resolve the situation and you chose to wallow in it and act out.
Decide if you want to be grow up, leave the last behind, commit to your relationship, and put the work in .. or leave. Those are your choices. You can’t change what happened, she can’t go back to her delivery and invite you in the room. It’s done. If you want to hold a grudge, then that will be your weight to carry but don’t take it out on her and your child because she’s obviously tried to move past it all.
Seriously. The answer to what OP should do is simple: dump him and find someone who isn't twenty years older than you who stomps all over your personal boundaries.