From what you’ve described she sounds very immature and manipulative. It sounds like it’s at the point where the only way to save it would be to let it go. If she can grow up and realize what she’s lost, maybe you can reconnect in the future. If not, it sounds like you’re better off moving on. (Sorry if it sounds harsh.)
A kid will not solve anything. You’ll just be on a greater financial hook, sleep deprived, and then intertwined in each other’s lives for the life of the child. (Who would ideally outlive both of you.) I’m sure you already know that though. I’ve just seen too many friends make that mistake and then have to deal with custody and their ex.
Imagine the best case scenario of this woman in Costa Rica. She grew up in a happy home environment and this was her decision. Whose case scenario she’s been used and abused all her life and your boyfriend was scummy enough to use her (once again) as an object to Jack off into. Fucking gross.
Some people have that “boundary.” I've dated guys like that, they wouldn't kiss me if I went down on him, or just gave him a BJ. And yes, there's no sperm in my mouth at that point, but they still won't kiss after a BJ.
I don't find it 'rude,' per se, people are just different that way. Ask him why he won't kiss you.
From what you’ve described she sounds very immature and manipulative. It sounds like it’s at the point where the only way to save it would be to let it go. If she can grow up and realize what she’s lost, maybe you can reconnect in the future. If not, it sounds like you’re better off moving on. (Sorry if it sounds harsh.)
A kid will not solve anything. You’ll just be on a greater financial hook, sleep deprived, and then intertwined in each other’s lives for the life of the child. (Who would ideally outlive both of you.) I’m sure you already know that though. I’ve just seen too many friends make that mistake and then have to deal with custody and their ex.
Stay strong. Leave him behind.
Imagine the best case scenario of this woman in Costa Rica. She grew up in a happy home environment and this was her decision. Whose case scenario she’s been used and abused all her life and your boyfriend was scummy enough to use her (once again) as an object to Jack off into. Fucking gross.
Even having this question means your relationship is unhealthy and you need to leave it.
These kinds of posts read like 'im getting abused, am I getting abused?”
You know it's wrong and it's only going to get better if you leave.
No advice to give, you made a series of really stupid decisions and. I think it’s safe to say you blew it. Learn from these mistakes
Some people have that “boundary.” I've dated guys like that, they wouldn't kiss me if I went down on him, or just gave him a BJ. And yes, there's no sperm in my mouth at that point, but they still won't kiss after a BJ.
I don't find it 'rude,' per se, people are just different that way. Ask him why he won't kiss you.