If you own the house it may not be as simple as just telling him he needs to leave and you get to keep it. It depends where you online, but I wouldn’t be surprised if you end up with some legal hassle. So just be prepared for that.
I'm not going to dispute the ethics of porn with you because that's a different topic. Sounds like you've mixed up who you wanted him to be with who he is. Guys watch porn.
Grieving or not doesnt give you the right to scare your kids or be a ah
If you own the house it may not be as simple as just telling him he needs to leave and you get to keep it. It depends where you online, but I wouldn’t be surprised if you end up with some legal hassle. So just be prepared for that.
I'm not going to dispute the ethics of porn with you because that's a different topic. Sounds like you've mixed up who you wanted him to be with who he is. Guys watch porn.