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Imagine demanding something from me and my partner just to be you child godparents…. People will always test other’s boundaries when they see you being soft about it, next time someone open their mouth about this bs please inform them that their harassment will lead to them being cut from your life. Why do they even think their child is worth all this??? Parents truly surprise me each time with their stupid actions in the name of said child ??
Accidentally ejaculated in her backpack? There has to be more to the story.
Here's the bigger problem:
He didn't ask you if there was anything going on between you before jumping to conclusions and running away.
You deserve so much better than being the back up plan. She will be back when she realizes she gave something up that would have treated her well.
That’s all I can do at this point. I think I’d still like to greet him on Christmas Day, but just not expect a reply.
All this just sucks and I don’t know if there’s any way I could have handled it better.
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It is your party, as such you should invite the people you enjoy having around and whom you treasure. Since Tara and Tony don't fit that bill anymore, you shouldn't invite them.
In the end, it's as simple as that: It doesn't matter why you aren't close enough with them anymore to stop inviting them, just like it didn't matter why you weren't close enough with them in their eyes to make it onto their wedding list. This is not “an eye for an eye”, it's a simple case of “Whom do I like enough to want around”?
It is clear that Tara and Tony aren't upset because they miss you. They are upset because of the party itself and what it represents to them. You don't play a role in their wish to go to this party; they see you like someone who provides something (like a 'seller') they wish to have. And that would be the issue for me – that they don't want to come to the party to see you and have a great time with you, but only for themselves. These people are not your friends anymore – and why should you invite someone to your own party you are not friends with?
You’re 15 years older than her, let her go.
She or you could have it from an earlier partner.
I see most of the comments are telling you to kick her to the curb. I think you might want to try to save your relationship. She needs to hear from you that you didn't understand what she was needing, and would like to improve the relationship. It's still possible that she will be permanently done with you, but you don't know that at this time. Some marriage counseling might be helpful, especially if the psychiatrist can help her with her depression. Best of luck to you.
Thank you for this reply. He is very respectful and kind indeed. I have the feeling he may be waiting for me to take the lead there or may be hesitant himself due to the way his last relationship ended. When I think more about it, it could be that now that he has met my friends (who are all in long-term relationships), I am feeling the pressure of the label not being there. But when I take other people out of the equation, I don't feel the need for a label.
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OP is not being honest about what's really going on
OP, your boyfriend gave you genital herpes. You created a post about that 4 days ago. Your boyfriend said he didn't know he had it. But you think he did know, and just didn't tell you he had genital herpes before you had sex.
Are you saying him “confessing” he cheated on you had nothing to do with you finding out he gave you genital herpes? Are you saying he's not using his alleged cheating to explain him giving you genital herpes?
In 2-3 months this guy gave you an incurable venereal disease, cheated on you, and lied to you about it for months. Why are still with him? Are you waiting for him to give you more STI/STD?
Stop projecting your issues onto your partner. What you were about to do was very unhealthy. You likely would have made them feel guilty about an incident in which they were victimized, which is just so incredibly shitty. Work on yourself. They've told you all they were able to about that night and the whole “mistake of trust by getting that drunk” line is victim-blaming. They've learned from that night. They removed those unhealthy relationships from their life. They've given you no reason to doubt them, and its been over/about a year. This isnt about them. This is about you. This is why we heal from out past relationships before getting into a new one. Get into therapy if you have access. Work on your confidence.
Just tell her what you told us. If she can't accept it, then its her problem, not yours.
No one is saying it would be her fault. WTF is wrong with you?
The IRS waited on purpose. They get more money that way in penalties and interest. They're not going to come after you the first year or even the second, they wait until now so he owes a whole lot of money. They're not going to waste time and money going after someone for just a little money.
Don’t confess your feelings, it often backfires. Just ask her out on a date, and see what she says.
Troll. And if not a pathetic excuse of a “man”
No wonder you had to date a child
You’re still glossing it over, so I’ll be blunt, are you trying to tell me that crying all day, her thinking she’s broken and disgusting is a normal healthy reaction to what is described as a mild issue (and yes I know what it is)?
Everyone has a thing that they won't compromise on
He and his friends overreacted but I am a bit lost why you showed up uninvited. You can’t be shocked he wasn’t happy. Some people want to have their own things.
IMHO all those special celebratory days regarding relationship (Valentine's, mother's, father's day etc etc) have become way to commercial.
If you are blindly complying with someone, this is what happens.
For a relationship to remain healthy, partners need to hold each other accountable. No accountability means one of you will slowly degenerate into a insensitive toddler, and that's what I see happening here.
Agree with the best advice here that if I were you, I would tell her this is not acceptable, and move out.
Lol…maybe in your world it makes sense. But in mine, anyone who cheats is smart enough to suck up that guilt and keep their damn mouth SHUT.
Do you understand that you need to go outside and touch grass? OP isn't a moron. They're not going to grab a random off Criagslist.
You’re lying to yourself about only being 70% sure you want kids. You want them. 100%. It’s obvious based on your emotional reaction. Sounds like your wife may never want them. It’s time for 100% brutal honesty and then you’ll both have decisions to make. It won’t be easy but it’s necessary.
Let me say this, as a woman, she sounds absolutely nutty. But, by chance, is she on her period and are her periods really bad? Premenstrual dysphoric disorder (PMDD) is a real thing that could explain her sudden and intense anxieties that don't make sense. Especially if she comes to her senses after a few days
I have PMDD and I use medication for it but also just knowing or being reminded that I'm irrational sometimes the week before or during my periods is helpful. When I don't realize what's going on and I finally snap out of it… It's kinda like I left reality for a few days and just kinda fell back to earth eventually
Huh. I raised two biracial without their father's help. They still have his surname. We have never had an issue with travel, bank accounts, school.
I have no advice OP, I just need to say I’m so sorry. What a terrible thing to happen to you. Wishing you all the best.
I guess I poorly reflected it…I have been doing a pretty good job of that since we had our talk but he switches every day it feels like and then I feel awkward and avoid him. It’s this endless cycle where we seem to misread each other and have the wrong vibes. I think I’m just going to have to put myself out there again and tell him that I don’t want him to isolate himself and I want us to go back to how we were. I think that’s really the only option.
Jesus Christ. I’m so sorry. That would have killed me, especially as young as you are.
Idk how invested you are in this relationship but I wouldn’t be able to deal with it.
There is NOTHING WRONG with how your vagina looks.
LimitlessMegan is 100% AND you yourself say that you “feel cautious”. Think about the people in your life that you love…do you feel “cautious” about them? Please, trust your instincts here. If you want something temporary and fun, it sounds like you have it. If you want something lasting and reciprocal, it may be time to move on.
It's not a guy thing. It's an unmanaged ADHD thing. He's got to work on strategies that work for him. There's lots of info live!, in books, etc.
Even with managed ADHD there will be slip-ups. They happen. But it is his job to do the best he can. Right now, he does not.
How? Do you already have a PI following him 24/7?
Sis: that POS would been out of the streets if I were you. Snedig to the curve because you don't deserve to be cheated on.
I think that you need to go to this place and see. Preferably when she's not working. That way you'll get to see what exactly the role of waitress is there. Go, ask, find out.
You'll need to find out exactly what touching is allowed
You'll need to find out if the waitresses are bookable for extras
At the moment you're working off your imagination which might be more vivid than the reality.
„Breasts weren’t fully developed“ hit home with me :‘) I hope mine finish developing (or at least start) at some point…
I've recently discovered a notes app on my phone. It lets you make notes but also take pictures.
When I was moving stuff about the house, temporarily, I took a photo of the place I'd put the important thing. Wrote a note that said “location of important thing” and added a label “location”
I remembered where it was when I needed it, but if I hadn't, it was right there on my phone and it was fairly quick to do.
Your girlfriend might not remember to do this if she tidies, but if you put your stuff away, so it doesn't look untidy, you can take a picture and put it in your notes app, so you can find it when you need it.
You moved your daughter in with this abusive loser with no job??
That poor kid.
Ever since they sent me that odd disjointed message, my feelings of wanting a romantic relationship went right out the window. I valued our connection as friends more than I did pursuing a romance, and that is more or less what I'd like to recover.
planning and precautions:
First explain to your GF why you're hesitant. I mean she's your partner, so be honest.
Next: call your parents and tell them you'll be bringing the woman of your dreams, she's Asian, and if there's one rude remark, you will walk out, and it's the last thing they ever see of you.
Last: just avoid the whole money part, it's non of their business. If she can keep you in the dark for a year, she can most likely avoid the subject for an hour with your parents.
Oh Lord forgive me dear sovereign word police. I apologize for offending thy sensitivities.
I hope i don't burn in enternal hell for it!
Him having a baby definitely does involve you if you want to continue your relationship with him. Even if he doesn’t want to be a part of the child’s life he absolutely will be paying a substantial part of his income to support the child. That means less money for a life with you – a smaller home, fewer holidays, fewer evenings out. Do you want to have a poorer life for the next couple of decades just because he couldn’t keep his dick in his pants?
Okay, if you want to avoid the problem, go ahead. You came here for advice and I'm giving it to you.
Your boyfriend is still in love with his ex and he wants her back.
Do with that what you want.
I have alot of confusion and I feel like im being naive by being complacent, but I have no proof. I pray I'll get the answers I need soon, no matter how painful. I want to thank you for telling me this, from the bottom of my heart. It's the first time I've felt like someone actually understands what I'm going through. You couldn't have articulated it better. I don't feel as alone tonight, just because of this one comment. I hope wherever you are, you recieve the love and appreciation I'm sending. I wish you so much happiness
I have, i said I’m not doing his washing anymore so his clothes are completely his responsibility now. We were both just curious to see what others think
you’re right. he is working for a phone company but he’s just started to really love it there. he does want to go to trade school but has not started yet.
So is it going to work? Or are you going to give the guy another chance? IMHO, unless there's abuse (physical, emotional or financial), a person generally deserves a second chance. But not a 3rd.
Can you afford rent on top of current expenses? If you had an unforeseen issue like a cracked windshield or a flat tire, can you afford to deal with that plus rent?
Oh god young girls, give me strength. If they treat you like shit they are not friends. Yes we all have asshole moments but its not constant. She has shown you that she isn't your friend why would you follow her at all or care what she posts. If she shows up in person or at least calls you to apologize then you can spend more emotional energy on it. Sorry if this comes out rude its not meant that way.
OP said they are wonderful people, she’s not talking positively about them because she’s worried about judged they are genuinely good people!
Anyone who didn’t see how their parents lived as normal would give people a pre warning, especially if they were expected to spend any amount of time there. We aren’t talking about dirty plates in the sink and crumbs on the counter!
Question.
What about marriage do you like/want? The religious aspect, the ceremony, the legal aspect, or the commitment? (Or combination of them all)
Why haven’t you proposed to your BF in the 10 years that you have been together?
You say you are from a country where marriage is not the norm, so why have you put all of this onto your BF, when you are the one who wanted it?
While how you are feeling is how you are feeling, so is valid, how much of the situation are you owning yourself? Because from an outsider’s perspective you should be owning 50% if not more of it.
LOL
You are such a sweet lady.
Whenever my Dad playfully fusses with whiny nosies about doing something (like having to throw away all the trash on his desk) she'll go “YOU POOR BABY”.
Your husband is being a brat.
I'd start aggressively making soothing noises ('ooo oooo you poor thing!') at him every fucking time he made a fuss.
“This is the way I am” made me laugh out loud, though, not going to lie.