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Date: January 15, 2023
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Can we start teaching like a high school class or something? “He Doesn’t Love You, He Just Wants To Bang Someone Young and Gullible 101.” This is happening just way too often.
level 2vivienwOp · 4 min. agoWhite-bread as can be!1ReplyShareSaveEditFollow
level 3IncreasePretend1393 · just nowI’m white, but I know to bring gifts. I always show up with a host/hostess gift when visiting someone’s home or event. I know to include everyone at Christmas. I think it is just a him thing. Some people, no matter their ethnicity, just aren’t taught proper manners.VoteReplyGive AwardShareReportSaveFollow
Yeah I really don't think it has much to do with ethnicity. It's just proper manners like you said. This is extremely bothersome but I'm going to suggest we buy his brother in law something to say thank you.
I know he doesn't want marriage and is on the fence about kids. I can go either way for marriage and am also on the fence about kids, though mostly lean to child free like he does. I get the general vibe he wants more excitement but when given the opportunity he doesn't go for it ( things like events he would like, etc ). He doesn't really like generic domestic life like I do and working a regular job, but that's just life for most people and he doesn't really do anything to change the situation. And like me he doesn't really know what goals he has for the relationship outside of that, but I'm also his first relationship so that complicates things.
I’m actually 21 and yeah j haven’t dated much, but I’ve had the most fun with him.
It's not necessarily the men themselves saying it, but a load of comments always suggest that the man leave his wife and file for full custody (half the time because she's so “lazy” staying at home to look after the kid and not working). I've known various men who are great dads and have split or full custody, but others just can't be bothered.
But that's not just the fact that they're siblings. But the age difference/cheating…
Good riddance. But you should see a therapist about your “jealousy and paranoia”
My fellow redditor, I’ve lived with romantic partners and flatmates long enough to be tired of it.
But bag of dead animal fur is something I would draw the line too. There is nothing wrong with that. It’s just not my kind of crazy.
Maybe yes. Idk I’m just confused. I didn’t feel unsafe or anything like that at any point. He said that I was free to go if I could stand up and walk through the flat to the room to get my stuff and prove that I’m not in pain
I fully accept that shes bisexual, and support her in that endeavor, but not with acting on it while we are married. If she can accept that, then maybe we can work things out, but how shes responded before, It might be best for the both of us to cut ties…
Lol he won’t. She consented to having sex. He asked her she said OK. That’s all
Her relationship issues aren’t yours to hear about. Especially if she’s just venting and not actually taking your advice. You should consider if you’re relationship with her benefits you in any way.
Don’t have children with this guy unless his behavior (& manipulation) changes. Bear in mind he may never see things your way so be prepared to take action if it comes to that.
he said he can't talk to her about it yet because he is worried she will be upset
But incidentally he doesn't care that you, his partner of 6 years, the woman he's going to marry is upset?
Yeah no. Throw him in the bin. He's an arse who clearly has no moral standings and doesn't give two shots how you feel.
I for one would be reaming him a new arsehole right now.
He's got nothing better to do. It's entertaining but still not a relationship.
Do you enjoy being treated like a child who has to earn their parents’ love? It’s abusive behavior.
Really weird string of comments to leave when the person you replied to never implied otherwise.
Is there any way she can get into therapy and work on her self esteem? Until she feels better about herself even if she breaks up with him there’s another loser waiting to take her down.
OP what? ? What a dickhead. Leave this twit. And that edit is utterly insane and horrible.
He doesn't want to wear a mask for life. My question is, is this an important requirement in a partner for you? Is so, then don't date someone who doesn't want to wear a mask all the time.
It should be said though, that the wearing of masks (surgical or otherwise) doesn't really do an awful a lot in preventing people from getting infected (only preventing infections being spread around by the affected), and this has long been known. So unless he's already infected with something, him wearing a mask all the time will only make a fractional difference to your health.
You could get Covid from anywhere. Your situation sucks, but there is only so much you can do to lower your chances. And at some point you need to go have a life (and functional relationships!) in this condition. Have you become too focused on the mask issue?
I too am immunocompromised, so I know the fear of getting Covid. And I've had it 3 times now (and it massively sucked each time). But my take is that life goes on, and I'm not going to let my underlying condition define my life for me more than it needs to.
Only you can decide whether the mask issue is an ultimatum level issue for you.
I said “i want you to be my wife, nothing else” and she replied with “i want to be a bride.”… that means if i dont “make” her – bride she wont be my wife i guess
They have some of the same friends and he said as it was so long ago he didn’t think much of it or give it much thought he he said he made a big mistake
He rightfully should get a divorce from you so you can handle your own mental health problems.
It is not fair to him to have to take the brunt of your mental problems that you refuse to get help for.
Please let him leave you.
Also please do not get with another man in the military if you are unable to respect what that relationship entails.
if you don’t tell her FIRST, and ASAP, the kinniving room i.e. might hold you hostage and use it as blackmail.
Questions How certain are you that the decision was hers? Do you have and siblings (full, half or step) Is your dad around?
Unfortunately you’ve probably brought this upon yourself.
You can try explaining everything to her, and showing her how you are changing, but I doubt it’s going to work, depending on the answers to the above questions, there is a possibility that you may turn this around in 2 months, but it’s not likely.
So start finding out what you are going to do come June – are there any other family members you haven’t burnt bridges with, or friends you could on-line with etc.
If when she kicks you out there is a chance of repairing the relationship, and maybe even the possibility of you being able to come to them for support at a later date, then keep trying to be the best person you can. Just because you haven’t managed to repair the relationship in 2 months doesn’t mean you can’t eventually repair it.
If there isn’t any chance, or if the home / relationship becomes toxic through no action of yours (ie the other members making comments about it, giving you a hot time over it, or my favourite your step day being extremely happy over it all), then a few days after you have left contact her and tell her that while you know you were not always a good son, and not the easiest person to live with over the past (insert months/years) her decision and actions since have shown you that she has already cut you from her life, and as such you will be doing the same, though it hurts you to do so.
Then tell her that you will be blocking her as you don’t want any communication from her until you are ready.
I am just so sorry you are having to deal with this pile of shit he dropped in your lap while also working and pursing your degree. In my experience when something so major like this happens very early in a marriage, few can come back from it. Many other comments have expressed the same feelings I have about how he went nuclear over a talk about chore distribution. You are worth focusing on yourself, getting that degree, and living your on-line in peace without doubt about whether your husband loves you. What he said wasn’t just diarrhea of the mouth because he was upset. There is truth in his words. Please don’t settle like I did at 21 and spend the best years of your life with someone who does not unequivocally love and respect you.
What that mouth do?
Yeah I mean don’t make yourself too available anymore. Taking a step back sounds like a great idea, and if she really wants to see you she will make an effort.
What you described isn’t a marriage, it’s a bad roommate situation with paperwork saying you will stay together. Go to a lawyer, discuss your options and pick one. You deserve happiness in your life and you will never find it with her.
As a fellow dog owner there’s two things to consider. 1. What would be the best for the dogs? You might end up crashing with friends or getting a small apartment which would make them miserable. 2. There are lots of dogs who need an owner who will love them sitting in shelters waiting for someone like you to take them home. Remember that if it works out that you can’t take them.
Good thing you found out before you had kids. His behavior is not good. It says everything about him and nothing about you. This can't be the first time he has behaved so badly. Threatening your marriage is a means of controlling you. He expects you to beg forgiveness. Do Not Ask For Forgiveness!!! He is Waaay out of line. Consider giving him the divorce he is asking for.
Thank you for the clarification, it's a language (and cultural) difference. I wasn't aware that the middle finger had something to do with birds, the expression “flipped the bird” was new to me.
it was his choice.
I did but his answer was literally “It's late for me (time-wise), but for now, I'll say just because I don't tell you some things it doesn't mean I don't trust you, I've never been good at telling things, we're different”
Like calling a Krysztyna ‘Tina’ or ‘Kris’?
Why is that a worry for her? Is she worried about ‘Steve’, ‘Dave’ and ‘Kate’? I don’t know how you go around this apart from using Krysztyna all the time.
• If a person goes to therapy because their spouse requires them to do it, can the therapy work?
• If you find the best therapist in the world, how much change can they cause in your husband?
• Do you believe therapy stops selfish people from being selfish?
• Do you believe that a man you groped a woman can be changed by therapy that he goes to because you suggest (or demand) it?
A therapist is much like a coach. They can tell you what workout you need to do, but only you can do the actual work. The work is not going to see a therapist. The work is what the patient does. Unless your husband is going to therapy to understand himself and change himself, it is just like paying for a coach, but not doing the workouts.
I think it's weird that people are downvoting those bringing up the invasion of privacy. Like it's somehow okay to do that for no reason as long as you happen to find some shit.
OP, break up. She's apparently not that into you and if you were going through her accounts you clearly don't trust her anyway.