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Date: October 5, 2022
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Lack of communication was my first thought too. But I didn't realize it was on my side either… I was just trying to be nice with the whole mouse thing. After she brought that up, and we argued about it, I told her I wouldn't buy her anything she doesn't necessarily need until I consult her about it
In her backpack …
Is this what the kids are calling it these days.
Tentative plans aren’t plans.
No i wouldn’t comment about it. He’ll eventually see it. He’ll feel too bad if you mention it and it it wouldn’t serve any good purpose
I learned a long time ago to not bother or harass women. I'm now 46 and never even had a girlfriend ever but at least my reputation is intact.
My family is also middle class. His family was poor, which makes his behavior and thoughts even more confusing to me
Narcissism and sociopathy. Narcs
Your poor sister. Hopefully he will leave her soon so she can find someone who loves her for her and not just her body.
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Then yeah he could be very salty his dad left him and taking it out on people
Oh gawd this is the most pointless circular logic argument I’ve ever heard% it’s like you’re looking for something to fight about
It was nice that he asked I suppose.
As a Dad with two daughters and a son, youngest being 20, my advice would be similar. Except, it's serious, not funny. Don't let any guy treat you like you aren't worth an answer. It isn't controlling in any way. Your old man is giving you bad advice, sorry, but it's true.
Good luck moving forward 🙂
Normally you'll just be able to peel it back.
Once that's done there is honestly very little difference between the 2 types. The skin stays back and generally doesn't get involved much.
Do note that especially early on a freshly peeled cock is going to be A LOT more easy to be painful than a circumcised one. As things get more wet and such that will mostly fix it.
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Don't be available when he's scheduled to visit. Block him. If you can go somewhere that would be good.
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I agree with you. I moved out for my divorce too. I do see this is very common now though.
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OP is Ross Geller
Hoping for a troll post. If not, no way could you be 31. 13 maybe. A hall pass.?
Your welcome.
As an aside, I’ve had BF’s with a wide range in sizes and I personally prefer smaller to larger. But end of the day, don’t really care as long as we can find mutual satisfaction. But I’m older and understand that sex is more than PIV. If my spouse suddenly started having issues with ED, we’d just find other ways to get each other off and enjoy intimacy.
Your post sounds like you have interest and can't get a response from him but your reply says you have zero interest. Which is it?
What do you want? And are you ever going to get it?
Move on. You clearly aren’t mature enough to be in a relationship.
From a European perspective the health system in the US is ridiculous. Not being able to afford a medical treatment for YEARS?! I would be bitter too if I were your wife, but her anger goes towards the wrong person. Have a conversation with her. It’s totally okay that she didn’t want this discussion but „I saw a doctor and it really helped“ or „I can’t help you because every skin is different“ would have been a much better response. But she’s been through a lot of stress over this years, can’t blame her for being angry.
Basically she saw them posted live! and sent me the link, at the time I couldn't take them so she said she'd take them and give me one of them once my prior engagements were all squared away. Then she just backed out
Hell, you get a trip to Ireland and a proposal, and according to him, great sex too.
He does, it's his own reasons, and if he told me he was just feeling self conscious and eating made him feel bad, then I wouldn't agree but I would understand. If he's doing it in a calculated way then all the power to him, but if he's purposely skipping meals because he's afraid of his weight that's cause for concern, no??
Going to Spain over Mexico is racist … somehow
Does she think people faint on command? ?
Right? On Monday, 32B. Three weeks later, 32DD. Naked to miss.
How long has he been separated from his kids’ mother? It sounds like he has a messy custody thing in front of him, and he’s so upset about it that he’s being distant with you. Is he in a place to be in a relationship right now?
Exactly. And I don’t know with certainty that he didn’t throw it away. It’s possible I lost it somehow. And that makes me feel more crazy. But the list was protection from abuse to me and I feel hard and vulnerable without it. I have a journal so I can go back and read my entries that I wrote about her but it’s not the same as seeing it all at once especially since half the time I was so hurt by what she did I didn’t have the heart to include it in my journal.
You say he doesn’t know if he ever wants to get married and have kids.
Then you say that getting married and having kids and a happy family is very important to you.
Sorry to say this but I don’t think money is the biggest problem in this relationship.
the fact she started crying and all that with you asking her to leave your place alltogether sounds like both of you were overreacting. but specifically you asking her to leave after her reaction sounds a bit too much
Only thing I clearly remember is her talking about seeing other people while seeing me and laughing about it to her friends. Also laughing about how very hot I’m trying to get back with her.
Oh, honey… This is the very definition of making fun of you. But, you're to the point of grasping at straws in an attempt to stay with her so… You do you.
You need to get out and get out now! All of these are giant red flags!
Everyone has a past, including him. It does not matter what you did before you were with him. He is asking you about a work trip you took 2 years ago and has photo's? This is only going to get worse. He is trying to catch you in a lie? Who cares if you did or didn't sleep with someone 3 years ago. This is none of his business or anyone else for that matter. Even if he asked you about any of this you don't have to talk about it.
It sounds like he has trust, control, and anger issues. This can go from bad to worse so fast you wont know what happened. You have been together 6 months it is not to late to just walk away.
I grew up having a lot given to me. That’s not an excuse for not recognizing the struggle most others face. The stress. If anything, it made me more aware of how extremely fortunate I was. You skipped over the part where you move in together. A new place? His parents? If it’s with his parents and he hasn’t asked …. Not good.
I'm thinking.. Couldn't they photocopy the letter and send her the copy then?
It makes me wonder if his last words to her were blaming her for something or were not very kind. If that was the case, then the family would have done better to not mention it at all.
Good point. I guess it all felt early, and I'm not sure if I want them, I just don't want to waste either of our time. We never actually talked about it so I wasn't sure how serious he was about it
wtf anyone with the money for a license/forms can get married, you're a fucking doctor. Celebrate that shit.
Tell him to get a fucking a job and stop whining then. I mean… wtf??? Grow the hell up, he's feeling emasculated because of his OWN choice to sit around and fuck around all day- this isn't YOUR problem.
He will be extremely lucky if someone didn’t record his antics and post it on some social media outlet for all the world and future employers to see.
How do I bring this up without offending him? His explanation was that his parents are controlling with finances and he doesn’t want them knowing what he does.
Gosh. I was him and everyone told me not to. Guess what? I went back and now regret it. It just isn't worth it because they won't change. They promise, cry and beg, only for them to go back to the same old.
It's just texts… for now.
Clearly she's more invested in keeping up that relationship and keeping it hidden. Keep your peace and part ways sooner than later. You're already getting comfortable doing more on your own; keep going down that path.
The point being, it’s not unheard of for creatures to do stuff like this. Humans, being higher beings, have the ability to think beyond it. My point is, we don’t have to call everything white supremacy.
Get a grip man. Stop apologizing for her shitty behavior. If it was me personally, I would divorce her. The affair is bad enough. Even minimal contact would be enough for me to go nuclear.
Have some self respect for yourself.
A person with this disorder talked about it in a thread like this once (no, sorry, I don't have a link to her comments) and she said the cost-benefit analysis of acting selfishly versus acting as if she has empathy is clearly on the side of being nice to others. To stay functioning in society.
OP's bf may be doing the same, assuming same level of function.
“just a girlfriend” lol he’s putting away money for a ring.
I know people on here rush to dump them but seriously. Think about how she uses race in every argument she uses her superiority to win. It will come up if you want to get married, if you have kids, money issues, whether to give financial support to her family, it will be used again and again. She's telling you she's racist against brown people but also against you. You can't share interests or your favorite restaurant even because you're afraid of her reaction.This is going to get worse, not better with time. Everything will be a conflict. She's already dismissive of you. Do you seriously want to deal with this and be treated this way for the next 20 years? Or having her turn your kids against you because you're white? Why does she even want to be in a relationship with someone she thinks so little of? I feel this is a really toxic relationship you should leave and find someone less combative and exhausting.
No. This absolutely is a dealbreaker. It’s selfish of you to try and keep the relationship when you have this basic (and major) incompatibility.
Just break up with him. Find someone who also wants a child free life.
If you two stay together you will absolutely end up resenting each other. This is one thing you can’t compromise about.
Yup, classic avoidant attachment
That is a polite way of saying he checks out women, open relationships don't work for intimate relationships you are trying to develop. They usually signify an ending to the relationship. One wants to cheat, the other doesn't. They create boundary issues around sex, and you can't control emotions. If you read some of these subs, you would realize they don't work for long term, intimate relationships if you are trying to build a life. If you are just playing and dont' care ok. This is already toxic.
That has been my exact argument to him!! He gets mad when I say “you don't know what the money is like when you haven't applied, talked to anyone, or networked.”
I already feel resentment for being here this long tbh.
She’s not the problem. He is. She owes you nothing. He owes you things. And he’s lying and hiding. If I cheat on my wife the person to blame isn’t the other woman for one second even if she knows I’m married….it’s me.
Yea I definitely can’t even look at him. I’m so grossed out ?
What kind of workload will he have after he completes his fellowship? Is the current situation temporary, or is this a good indication of what his working life will be like?
He can walk with supportive boot. He fucked up his feet by playing basketball barefoot on the street (like 2 weeks ago), on top of barefoot running, and indoor climbing.
That's probably why his country won't do the surgery, because it's not medically necessary. The way he worded this post makes it sound like he depends on a wheelchair and needs a caretaker. He doesn't.
If you have to ask….you already know.
Yeah, that’s why I wonder if I’m just being dramatic. If I were him, even if I knew he didn’t want to talk about it, I’d say “I am sending you good thoughts this morning” or SOMETHING. But maybe he just thinks I want privacy?
Her initiating doesn’t mean you satisfied her….
Break up Live! your best life and do what makes you happy ??????? Profit
Did I imply or did I just give 3 scenarios in one evening that she was wrong?
Tell him in plain terms that this is not the life you want to live!. Instead of blaming him or trying to force him to change, give him the option of living in your clean house or not living in your clean house. He will make the decision for you. But you have to set the boundaries and hold fast to them.
Also, tell him that if he wants you to be his mommy, then you're not interested in having sex with your son. There is no need to explain it any further than that. Let the silence be the explainer.
Its been 33 years. I don't think their going to stop. And even if they did, you will probably not be better off mentally. I'm so sorry.
But he said his past is crazier than hers….
you are all in your feels because this dude didn't talk to you for a little while? You can be friends with someone without being there alll the time.