You have a right to feel the way you do. Every relationship is different. In my relationship, we have a boundary that we don’t share dirty details with our friends. Under one exception, somethings going on and maybe you’re just looking for advice or a different opinion. However, we do NOT share our friends sex life details with each other. Im not telling him about my friends lives and he’s not telling me about his friends sex lives.
Also, it’s just disrespectful what she did and said. Flip the script, you go up to her talking about your buddies most recent hookup and how nice the rack on the girl was. How would she feel then?
You're not overreacting. Please don't minimize your instincts or let him make you second guess yourself.
He's turning the tables to make your discomfort your fault instead of his own crass perspective.
You have a right to feel the way you do. Every relationship is different. In my relationship, we have a boundary that we don’t share dirty details with our friends. Under one exception, somethings going on and maybe you’re just looking for advice or a different opinion. However, we do NOT share our friends sex life details with each other. Im not telling him about my friends lives and he’s not telling me about his friends sex lives.
Also, it’s just disrespectful what she did and said. Flip the script, you go up to her talking about your buddies most recent hookup and how nice the rack on the girl was. How would she feel then?