Would you prefer she has a full blown affair before telling you it's over?? She's realized that she's falling for someone else and wants to break it off with you before she has an affair. That's actually the mature thing to to. Most people got for the affair and then see how it all works out.
I mean it sucks as yiu didn't expect this at all but on the other hand you've been together since your were both teens. People grow and mature and often end up changing and growing apart. Better she tell you now than string you along, have an affair, then it doesn't work out and she keeps you as a safety net/back up.
False. He's ridiculous. You are not ridiculous. You're human and you wanted to believe the best in your marriage. People engage in all sorts of cognitive biases and brain trickery to protect themselves from hurtful things.
Please confide in someone – a parent, a sibling, a best friend. It may feel embarrassing and like people will judge you, but anyone who loves you wants only the best for you – I promise. Let them love and support you.
Eh, it’s complicated. I don’t have an inherent problem with porn and I’m certain I watch it more than my male partner does. However, the culture of porn is trash and a lot of the porn that exists is misogynistic and gross. But ethical and not misogynistic porn is probably more available now than ever before.
Would you prefer she has a full blown affair before telling you it's over?? She's realized that she's falling for someone else and wants to break it off with you before she has an affair. That's actually the mature thing to to. Most people got for the affair and then see how it all works out.
I mean it sucks as yiu didn't expect this at all but on the other hand you've been together since your were both teens. People grow and mature and often end up changing and growing apart. Better she tell you now than string you along, have an affair, then it doesn't work out and she keeps you as a safety net/back up.
False. He's ridiculous. You are not ridiculous. You're human and you wanted to believe the best in your marriage. People engage in all sorts of cognitive biases and brain trickery to protect themselves from hurtful things.
Please confide in someone – a parent, a sibling, a best friend. It may feel embarrassing and like people will judge you, but anyone who loves you wants only the best for you – I promise. Let them love and support you.
Eh, it’s complicated. I don’t have an inherent problem with porn and I’m certain I watch it more than my male partner does. However, the culture of porn is trash and a lot of the porn that exists is misogynistic and gross. But ethical and not misogynistic porn is probably more available now than ever before.