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EmmaHendersonn Public Chat Channel
Date: October 24, 2022
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I’m in a relationship because I love him and we work so well together. Of course I want honesty but I don’t think he should have the right to my private conversations with friends. If this is a red flag then I’ll make changes to myself and discuss it all with him because the absolute last thing I want to do is hurt him.
putting you down like that is something that a narcissist would do to make themselves feel powerful, especially over someone they feel they don’t have a chance with/feel like they can’t state their true feelings to.
Question – have you ever gone on a fishing trip the two of you planned?
I can understand but wanting to have you join guy time, it might not even be about you. They may have a girl in the group that always wants to come, they may use the time to talk about really personal things. Or they may just be sexist idiots.
However, if your bf knows you like fishing and won't even go just the two of you on your own trip then he has a problem with women doing “guy stuff” and he doesn't sound that great.
Kick this man out.
If you aren't ready for that, then at least set down some rules for yourself, starting with, there are no “wife things” that ANYONE is “required” to do.
If he wants a partner who will function like an old school wife, well then he should be an old school husband and financially support you. Oh he doesn't want to do that? Of course he doesn't, but then why would you cook and clean for him?
Please, set some boundaries:
ALL bills need to be split 50/50, if he won't pay them directly, then he needs to give you X at the beginning of each month for internet, electric, and groceries. He has to do 50% of the chores, end of story. If he won't do the dishes, then don't cook for him
You deserve better than he is treating you, not just on Valentine's Day, but every day. So start by being honest and calm with him that he needs to step up and be an equal partner, and no, you are not required to do “wife things” for any man, especially one that isn't pulling his “husband things.”