your in law are dysfunctionnal and abusive. your husband acted and lied to protect her.
your SIL want you to divorde, your husband side with her. Do it.
call a lawyer, assemble your friends and allies, plan a hideout and an escape, take all your administrative paper. they expect you to make a drama. don't deceive them.
I think your boyfriend is free to explore and do what he wants and I think you are free to set the boundaries you require for you to be in a relationship.
If those two things don't overlap then you move on. You can't force him and you shouldn't succumb to his pressure to force you.
Ask him if heβs interested in turning the extra bedroom into an art studio.
go away
your in law are dysfunctionnal and abusive. your husband acted and lied to protect her.
your SIL want you to divorde, your husband side with her. Do it.
call a lawyer, assemble your friends and allies, plan a hideout and an escape, take all your administrative paper. they expect you to make a drama. don't deceive them.
You should leave him. Heβs a predator
I think your boyfriend is free to explore and do what he wants and I think you are free to set the boundaries you require for you to be in a relationship.
If those two things don't overlap then you move on. You can't force him and you shouldn't succumb to his pressure to force you.