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You don't need to give an explanation. He knows what he did.
Once a cheater always a cheater
they always think that, every single time
he isn’t exactly being the bigger person as he cheated on his gf before she did
I’m sad my bf is unwilling to come over to mine, but he has been trying to be more open about it. He tells me it’s fine that I leave my stuff at his, but still defends Ava from time to time and it has lowkey put a strain on us as well.
As much as I dislike this comment telling me to move on, deep down, I know you're right, and it's for the better. The thing is, I can't stop thinking about him 24/7. Like he's the only thing that's on my mind. Can't seem to help it. I've never felt this way for someone.
I also wanted to add…hate to have to say this…but going to because it may be helpful to anyone. Faced with a situation where someone may be Sassaulting you, the most common response is fear and to freeze. Lots of people say they would fight with all their might, but will freeze. This is a coping mechanism where the brain does what it needs to to get you out of a situation alive. Predators are unpredictable, and can be dangerous. If something like this were to happen (and i hope with all my being it never ever does), dont shower. Youd be losing evidence. Idk where you are, but where I am, we provide forensic exams (to gather evidence) to people your age, and we dont…please know we DONT…need a grown up. A patient your age can sign off on the care. If you do shower, pee, change, eat, you can STILL have such and exam done, but it has to be done within a window of time (5days here). I am here if you ever have a question. Some people just suck so bad…always always listen to your gut…it is an amazing defense mechanism. Also, these predators usually count on their victims not speaking out. Be will likely escalate…meaning he will worsen his behavior towards you.
Your husband should get his dick stitched to the inside of his thigh.
Let’s stop calling these political views. They are personal views about how we treat each other. You’re not leaving because of his politics. It’s his personality. Don’t feel like it’s an insignificant thing.
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It's time to ask yourself… who's more important to you, your friends or your girlfriend? If it's your friends, consider that maybe you shouldn't be in a relationship.
I would never be with someone that stupid so no.
So he’s rich?
What do you have in common with A 55 year old, controlling male?
You’re going to find yourself on a very quick slippery slope down. And it won’t be easy for you to climb up out of it if he’s in the picture.
There are plenty of people your age you can date and you won’t have this mess and control.
Yes, having cheated on the first place.
Maybe OD
Not just look stupid…
RIGHT?? being a dude, the thought of 1. Any cousin of mine trying to initiate oral sex and 2. Someone 5 years younger, who is also underage, trying to oral. Both of those are REPREHENSIBLE thoughts, like my stomach hurts a lil thinking about this shit, and those together???? What the actual fuck, genuinely. This cousin is a predator, I don’t want to speculate to crazily but it’s been awhile and her recollection of “I initiated the oral” is likely skewed, considering a 21 yo can easily mentally manipulate someone 5 years younger. She likely thinks she initiated but I wouldn’t be surprised if he put the idea in her head or gas lighted her after the fact to change her memory on it. The fact he sends her fitness progress pics as well??? Motherfucker post them on insta like everyone else and she can see them just the same as a private message. Disgusting genuinely think he’s a groomer and is still running a game on OP’s wife.
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This is a very unusual story. Have you ever had a girlfriend before? Are you new to the world world?
Your girlfriend is a shallow, unfeeling, worthless, manipulative POS. “You took advantage of my kindness.” Holy fuck- who hears about something so heartbreaking, and makes it about themselves. Do yourself a favor and get rid of her because she's not worth the oxygen she's using up in your space.
Condolences.
Make sure not to throw the friend that showed you the truth under the bus, cause she did you a solid.
He’s lucky to have friends like you. Glad he’s got done solid support. We all wish him luck. This sucks and it hurts, but it will get better over time
Have a direct conversation with them. Tell them that their distrust of you is hurtful and ask them why they feel the way that they feel. Acknowledge what they say and give your side. Try to reach an agreement between you two.
LOL! I know how you feel. Think of it like this: If you leave some questions out, you'll have more to talk about at the next date! And if he's too nervous and quiet, ask him what he'd like to know about you. If he's still too quiet, pull out all the stops and tell him, “Relax. I asked you out because I'm interested in you. I want to get to know you. This isn't a test and you're not going to fail. ?”
Give yourself a break. Sometimes it’s tough to read those tea leaves. Sometimes things like this make you realize there’s a good one right there in front of you. After all, any GREAT relationship has a friendship as a foundation as well.
It takes two to tango. It’s not just you who went too far. Give it a bit for both of you to cool down then have a conversation about it.
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You've never taken acid while incredibly drunk, have you? Lol.
Yeah I think if I were to put myself in the wife’s shoes (and remembering how low I felt as a new mom with PPA/PPD) I would probably be more upset that my name was brought up as a joke when she was just trying to be supportive and listen in, not that I’m not the number one fan, it feels like it was an unnecessary addition. And it depends if wife and brother actually have a good relationship normally or there is strain. Her reaction to knock him down a peg shows a big reaction. But also most importantly CHECK IN WITH HER TO SEE HOW SHES FEELING AND IF SHE NEEDS TO SPEAK WITH HER PCM OR THERAPIST being a new parent is such an adjustment between the hormones, body image, fourth trimester and being touched/needed literally all the time.
Nope
I'm petty af. So I would tell him that you're so glad he's pointed out your fitness levels and he can watch the kids and get dinner sorted so you can hit the gym. Then you give him a huge kiss and thank him for being so kind and helpful.
To be fair, I have people that age and older in my college class (I myself turned 26 today and am in 6th semester rn ? I don’t even realize people are older or younger than me unless I ask – we’re all kind of at the same point in life), when I started we had some people aged 18/19 and some people in their low 30s in the same course and I couldn’t tell the difference unless they went full “teenage word of the year”-lingo.
If they both went the traditional route though and one is years deep into their career while the other started college not too long ago, that could be a vastly different experience.
She has no right to say anything negative about your bf. He's not a married cheating AH and you're not his side piece.
Yep, there comes a point where your parent's SOs aren't step anything. My Dad's wife is exactly that, my Dad's wife. They didn't get married until after I did. Don't get me wrong, she's a lovely person, but not my stepmother.
Your post relieved me because despite I don't even know who you are there are many things in common between what I lived and what you said.
You have conflicting values. She’s sending those for attention and responses. You can’t say she isn’t allowed but you can say you don’t want to be in a relationship with someone who needs outside validation through explicit photos.
Bro you dating a child what do you expect??
Do you have any proof that he didn't want to be in their life when you told him you were pregnant?
What was the fight about? why didnt you talk to him for 2 days before that? how long have you been together?
The fact that your not listening means your going to stay in this relationship for along time until he finally leaves you. You are still young, why are you wasting your youth with someone like this. Stop before it’s too late.
Really depends on the individual. But this also shows 18 yr olds aren't 5-year olds and have thoughts, not easily manipulated like people want to infantalize them till 25+.
You either give her more time, have less time for video games and studying, or you break up and either be single or find someone who doesn’t want as much of your time.
She doesn’t need to “understand” how busy you are. She is allowed to have her needs. You either meet them or you let her go. It’s your life. You choose what is most important to you. Sometimes we just are not in a place to be in a relationship. Or just not in a place to be with the person we want. Because they want something more than we can give.
You dont get to expect her to sit around waiting for your life to have room for her. And relationships that are neglected….die.
Do not take him back.
This word soup desperately need a TLDR.
Also, what is your question??????????????
Thanks, honestly your replies have been really useful
accept the things your gf did before you both got together
We were together but not exclusively. Although again, I was literally dating other people so I know I should really just get over it. Thing is I dont see those people any more and wont ever again as they weren't friends or anything
But yeah, you're right. Its very hot, Im trying to find a balance between being open and honest about my feelings, while not making myself undesirablr and unattractive as you say. I guess there's just a limit on how many times this sort of thing can be brought up before it gets tiring. I WANT to be that confident secure guy, its so naked tho!
This word soup desperately need a TLDR.
Also, what is your question??????????????
i get that but I have “deficits” too. I don't let them rule/ruin my relationships…
Sorry, just frustrated. Being WC-bound my life is a lot and he claims to want to be a part of it, pulled me back from someone who had no caveats and was like f-ing Jamie from Outlander, and now that I lost him to be loyal to my person, my person is with his roomies, or tired, or has to get ready for something he most certainly can plan another day, but won't…
I had a beautiful person ready to give as much as i gave, went back to my best friend who said he would try to do the same, and Newton is now probably ring shopping with his girl. while i'm wondering if my bf who i've known my for 11 years will change his mind about not having dinner with me Sunday…
Not fake, he mentioned it once but just that he voted for him and we figured out that it was just family peer pressure (he was still living at home). We had talked about it, thought he understood, he definitely didn’t
Oh wow lmao. That’s rich
Think about this: if you two are planning on moving in together and getting more serious, how are you going to be able to handle more serious and uncomfortable topics in the future if you can’t handle this issue together now?
The fact that you’re not comfortable with your WIFE knowing where you are is a big red flag. What are you doing that you need to keep from her? The more transparent and open you are, the less she will feel the need to track you.
Dudes on life support because of his own actions and issues. If he was pushed that easily it was bound to happen sooner or later. If he survives, transfer anything with you as a contact or POA out of your name. If you stay in contact because of y’all’s kid then establish solid boundaries and make him get medical/mental treatment through the courts as a requirement for seeing your kid. He’s this irrational you can’t guarantee he won’t do it again or he won’t hurt you or your child.