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You getting aroused by the video has nothing to do with the fact you weren't aware it was being filmed.
CNC is always tricky, but the first C is what matters. Did you ever say something along the lines of “Do whatever you want, I'll be fine and happy with it”?
Even if you did, there should have been a conversation about what “whatever” might look like, as there's always something that goes beyond your limits.
And if you did not even say it, he plainly disrespected you.
Either way, a healthy, consensual way to do it would have been: you discussing what you like. Either of you talking about filming intimate acts. Both of you expressing interest. One of you bringing up the idea of him filming when you're unaware it's happening, and again both of you saying it'd be very hot.
Up to you to decide whether this is a minor issue that can be fixed with clear communication or a major issue that should lead to a break-up.
Again, it doesn't matter that you got aroused afterward. Many people can get aroused by stuff they don't want to do, or things they didn't agree to. Arousal isn't consent. Consent is consent. CNC still requires consent.
You getting aroused by the video has nothing to do with the fact you weren't aware it was being filmed.
CNC is always tricky, but the first C is what matters. Did you ever say something along the lines of “Do whatever you want, I'll be fine and happy with it”?
Even if you did, there should have been a conversation about what “whatever” might look like, as there's always something that goes beyond your limits.
And if you did not even say it, he plainly disrespected you.
Either way, a healthy, consensual way to do it would have been: you discussing what you like. Either of you talking about filming intimate acts. Both of you expressing interest. One of you bringing up the idea of him filming when you're unaware it's happening, and again both of you saying it'd be very hot.
Up to you to decide whether this is a minor issue that can be fixed with clear communication or a major issue that should lead to a break-up.
Again, it doesn't matter that you got aroused afterward. Many people can get aroused by stuff they don't want to do, or things they didn't agree to. Arousal isn't consent. Consent is consent. CNC still requires consent.